Originally posted by: Indira12
Katy if you look through the eyes of makers, there is one point that comes to view.
If some words of Kala are ignored-
Kaka ne kaha tha, jab akele rahenge tabhi pata chalega na asli maine mein pati patni ka rishta. Ye vanvaas hi hoga unke jeevan ka ek naya adhyay. Aur prathaaon ke bhavar mei se jab niklega, tabhi to asli rang roop le ga na ye rishta.
If you see that happened to some extent. Them leaving RC haveli and staying outside is what made Bon think in a different way. Am not saying she had a crush or like that, but she interacted with peope that gave her a different outlook towards her rishta, something she haven't thought of before. This was the first step towards her asking for a pati-patni ka rishta. So staying alone brought out a different dynamic of the relationship Ani-Bon share, or rather it brought forth the bitter truth of the relationship - the relationship of a typical husband-wife which hasn't been thought of by anyone, be it Ani or Bon or us audience.
And after all the pressure of the society the relationship did come out with its own colours of being anokha (which was conveyed by Manorama to the audience, here Mano acted as the bridge between Ani-Bon and us)
This is NOT my point of view. To me it does not makes any sense cause firstly, we audience knew that their rishta was anokha and secondly, even if this was the mission of makers, the path they chose was utterly wrong.
I tried to think of it from the makers point of view. Could come up only with this logic.
Also I try to ignore the pati-patni ka prem and parivarik jeevan ki shuru words. Cause they don't make any sense. Instead Ani fell in love with a different girl.
Indira, did you get a taste of what we discussed earlier on Ani and Bon different realizations. Bon is now on sapna , she left behind her emphasis on rishta.She might not draw clear lines as we expected, but she now wont take any step in the direction of their relation as well.Ani might slowly realize his in the upcoming episodes.How she said mein chali jaoongi ,will never show my face. He was more affected, a precursor for the next track.
You exactly pointed out from makers point of view.I am also trying to come in terms with it, for moving ahead, Although so many loop holes.
Also I try to ignore the pati-patni ka prem and parivarik jeevan ki shuru words. Cause they don't make any sense. Instead Ani fell in love with a different girl.
I think in a specific way, this cannot be addressed now, because Ani needs to gain more of knowledge on love and relationship.He learned it from the school of Mini.Also, that would become a lil in appropriate for now
Parvivarik jeevan, grihsati we can take it as kaka being representative of society, Now surely a change in dynamics happened, but not as how kaka thought.There relation is changed out of the perspective of society to e of normal pati-patni (makers pov).Now from my pov, what I see is changing Bon perspective,, for her, he is slowly shifting to apna who secure her and care for her future from her patibabu.(what he defines as their relationship).And he will learn with a blow, that how the name of relation although he denied was holding them.If we are fortunate enough we will get another realization,not on pati-patni prem.But Bon kya hai, and a rethinking on 'ye rishta kabhi pati patni ka nahi hoga' to Abhi keliye ye rishta hai phorasa ka saath ka..wo age jake kya mod lega use khud pata nahi. The only truth is his existence is related to Bon, which he can never let go and not sure how to hold on too.
"What we think and believe might not be actual love(Doha), it might come as that realization where you see the happiness and good of some one above yourself"
It would make me think that he has re-realization of pyar confession and Bon place, with no explicit reference
