Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 107

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

When they were leaving RC mansion we were so excited Indu thinking now Ani would realise what Bon means to him which maybe he couldn’t in the haveli because of the presence of so many people but exactly the opposite happened Ani assumed himself to be a free bird and wanted to get rid of zimmedari also.

I am not too sure Indu about marriage annulment I really now want it to get annulled but then if Ani has no relation with Bon he can’t do anything for her considering the time frame (1920) society won’t allow him to if Bon has no relation with him.So maybe it won’t happen. Maybe they could show separation for a while but then things could fall into place with the law stating further that the couples who are already married won’t be affected with this law.

UL: Even I sensed this. The role of how family and kaka especially was holding on to their relation, call him conservative but still. This was evident in Mini case too. Had he not accepted Bon as bahu next day and wanted to make her Grihalekshmi, Ani might not have looked in that direction. And was true up until HM,he said bahu banane thodi laya hai. to Surav. He might still develop a bond, but on concreting the patibabu belief both on Ani and Bon, kaka had a major role.On moving out with responsibilities, Bon presence does not just stick on to sharing happiness and child ike moments.The void he feels , with his ideals conflicting the new relationship demands from around and her , him distancing her ,added with the new exposure around clearly showed, actually what could have happened if they are not safely cocooned in the RC mansion considering age and the age gap of Ani and Bon (for any similar relation of that time). So the lesson for us and Ani is all is not walking on roses, there is a darker side too. Howmuch ever we felt RC household is restraining, it was a safe haven too..

Although, I did not feel explicity, Ani wanted to get rid of zimmedari. In his subconscious he still had this concept of marriage , how much ever he call himself progressive. Rememer he said ,ye shadi nahi ho sakta just coz of pheras, then why did he distance himself from Mini? he said shadi nahi karsakta to Mano saying gudde gudiya ka khel nahin,it will leave an impact and its for life time. So he has this laid in his deeper consciousness regarding marriage, which his conscious mind fear and resist to acknowledge. Even his shock and denial on self confrontation regarding he got into pyar was bcoz of the subconsciousness of him as married man

Originally posted by: faja

Yes, what her pati babu offers, which she defines as love or care is not under the tag of him being husband. Remember when KSJ probed, she felt herself khas to him.That is only her definition of love, which existed too. For this she might need a lil more maturity to see through the context of love btw spouse.

He mentioned insaniyat, zimmedari , even friend and shikshat wala lagav(but Ani too conveniently avoided elder brother or guardian or parent reference).But Bon is stuck on Pati babu. For now she can only be freed from this wifey obsession ; it was not a willful choice of her Pati babu , nor was right for her age too, So the annulment.

Even Kaka said u made burnt rice, made choola for her, was that not husand love?.Honestly for me, it was concern over kid not 'husbands love' which Ani would have done even if not Bon. Not denying his special bond with her though. But Bon should realize this, when he say over and over its not like other pati patni wala rishta. Rather than going pati babu mahan, even did fake marriage for me, she must think he even had to do that to prove he does not consider her wife in real sense. With annulment , she must switch to benam rishta.

Now, the tables turning, with the benam rishta how available will she be to Ani .The lines drawn by her and society in front of him, with which he cant scream now with confiedence Bon meri zimmedari hai,

konsi Zemmidari, bhai, kis nam ki right hai?

This would be thought probing for Ani

Both are taking each other for granted , Ani on Bon as a person and Bon on their relationship.This has to be shed.

Bon on the route to self respect and empowerment. Ani in his route to self realization

Stakes and hopes both are high on this track Faja. Until now Ani considered himself Bon’s be all and end all but after the marriage annulment when reality strikes and he realises that he has lost absolute control over her this will make him lose his mind. This track is necessary for Ani’s realisation about Bon’s place in his life specially after all the mess that he has created.

Initially I wasn’t much worried about Bon but after today she too has to realise quite a few things.

A relationship tag does not give one the right to own the other person. She has to realise that relationships have to be consensual just because two people are married it doesn’t mean both are happy. She needs to understand the true meaning of self respect and how to let go if the other person wants it that way. Most importantly she has to understand that she needs to study for herself first then for the sake of making someone else proud/happy.

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Stakes and hopes both are high on this track Faja. Until now Ani considered himself Bon’s be all and end all but after the marriage annulment when reality strikes and he realises that he has lost absolute control over her will be his turning point. This track is necessary for Ani’s realisation about Bon’s place in his life specially after all the mess that he has created.

Initially I wasn’t much worried about Bon but after today she too has to realise quite a few things.

A relationship tag does not give one the right to own the other person. She has to realise that relationships have to be consensual just because two people are married it doesn’t mean both are happy. She needs to understand the true meaning of self respect and how to let go if the other person wants it that way. Most importantly she has to understand that she needs to study for herself first then for the sake of making someone else proud/happy.

that would be her realisaton in this trcak and she would learn in later life on gorwing up, bon was studying for herself like she said for fulfilling patni dharm,i neglected my stuides and she loves education ,but ani reverse psychology made her insecure,she wanted ani again feel proud which every child wants to see in their loved ones eyes, whatver dialogues they gave bon today was just for mano getting coat becuase bon again and again said u cant give my patibabu back,u broke relation,being a kid thrown into negavtive vulnerablities,polygamy and all,she thinks just like she has right on her mom,she has on ani too,before this track bon supported ani in hira mandi,she gave him idea of educating girls,she even rebuked him for strictness,she was there with himin munshi trcak,she even foghts againts him for sampoo and him blaming her and kaka for accounts,she told why he has changed in mensturation,this new track introduced made her insecure,her above dialgoues were her emotional messy behaviour but on realising mano true nature,our bon would make a comeback now as mano is gone ,ab kis lead ko glorify karnege,whatve they showed in this trcak,they planned somehting else but had to wrap it up and since mano was bashed from starting,in order to show it as a sacfrifie,they ysed this else bon ki self respect, fierceness dikhaate toh jo move they took for polygamy and mano charcater sab aur bash hota,they wnated to give clean chit jo unhone kiya

some scenes are also not shown like director sir ka bts tha voh jo bon ka look tha open hairs mein without pallu jismein ani tha and they gave the recent interview woh nahi aaya

seeing low trps and lack of interest,they shoot party and wrapped up this track soon bon ki incosistency dikhaake they just gave mano a good exit

Originally posted by: Katy4566

that would be her realisaton in this trcak and she would learn in later life on gorwing up, bon was studying for herself like she said for fulfilling patni dharm,i neglected my stuides and she loves education ,but ani reverse psychology made her insecure,she wanted ani again feel proud which every child wants to see in their loved ones eyes, whatver dialogues they gave bon today was just for mano getting coat becuase bon again and again said u cant give my patibabu back,u broke relation,being a kid thrown into negavtive vulnerablities,polygamy and all,she thinks just like she has right on her mom,she has on ani too,before this track bon supported ani in hira mandi,she gave him idea of educating girls,she even rebuked him for strictness,she was there with himin munshi trcak,she even foghts againts him for sampoo and him blaming her and kaka for accounts,she told why he has changed in mensturation,this new track introduced made her insecure,her above dialgoues were her emotional messy behaviour but on realising mano true nature,our bon would make a comeback now as mano is gone ,ab kis lead ko glorify karnege,whatve they showed in this trcak,they planned somehting else but had to wrap it up and since mano was bashed from starting,in order to show it as a sacfrifie,they ysed this else bon ki self respect, fierceness dikhaate toh jo move they took for polygamy and mano charcater sab aur bash hota,they wnated to give clean chit jo unhone kiya

some scenes are also not shown like director sir ka bts tha voh jo bon ka look tha open hairs mein without pallu jismein ani tha and they gave the recent interview woh nahi aaya

seeing low trps and lack of interest,they shoot party and wrapped up this track soon bon ki incosistency dikhaake they just gave mano a good exit

how can bon belive on her returning shakhapola dissolves marriage,her husband married her i guess thye did not want bon to show anger to ani becasue else unhe clean chit nahi milta,this track could have gone in another direction and ani ko aur bash karte polygamy ke liya and manorama ko bhi,bon needs to realise marriage is something which is out of consensus and out of will but i guess they never wanted in this track for bon to ponder over her injustices like in marriage revelation turth, bon to show fiercess and sever ties with aniin polygamy jo women empoerment dikhaata but unke main motvies kuch aur the,marriage revelation in future and polygamy and bon relationship breaking jo usne rasams mein dikhaaya tha was commendabe and aura was praised and people loved and bashed makers more but they wanted to show ni rpeentance and justification isliye inconsistency laaye socha bon is a kid easily waive off ho jaayegi but ani nahi hoga and mano nahi hogi sirf isliye kiya

Originally posted by: Katy4566

yup and hope makers realise because in last track of mano they did not use bon potential and emotions like she was in chodi hui and hira mandi and people liked for bon perservrance and braveness ,they knew aisa dikhaayenge till last toh mano ka charcater jo alrrady bashed people wont love

hope ab kuch accha dikhaaye,for marriage annulment if it happens hope they show bon out of wife mode and realises she and ani has a true bond and how she was victim of child marriage and sati though she got a good family in form of ani but it was not man ka rishta for her and ani,ani thinking bon future not as barrisyer but as a youthful girl

Yes very well said... definitely bon will become barrister and stand on her feet and have a good career...but ani needs to look beyond barrister and also understand that she is not an experimental material....

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Originally posted by: Arvi_006

Yes very well said... definitely bon will become barrister and stand on her feet and have a good career...but ani needs to look beyond barrister and also understand that she is not an experimental material....

Correct hope makers shows bon growth as an individual and how she used to inspire us at such a young age before mano entry ,I have no grudges for Mano she was a good charcater but for her ,they degraded bon just ki audience use glory version mein dekhne but now they need to focus aura as a lead as people connect with her like Hira mandi, Greenwood,Munshi ,menstruation,molestation ,etc but for manorama u degraded bon who was a progressive,feminist and very truthful girl from inside just showing Mano and ani are mahaan

Hope makers u give our bon back ,they showed inconsistency in bon just ki mano ko bashing na mile as she was already there introduced and due to backlash plans were changed ,they thought bon kid hau but even after this bb got low trp of 1.5 jo Hira mandi pe 2 cross kiya , Munshi mein 1.9 because people loved bon constant growth

Only logic in this illogical track was that ke kabhi FREE GIFTS ki lalaach nahin karne warna VICEROY ho ya aam insaan bohut bhari badega. 😆

Mano action made the entire Roy Choudhari family a suspec😕t Bon kept saying this one will spoil the family name I wont let anything or anyone spoil my family name

Ya Mano ki body nahin mili aur upar se ani ka dialog, is ka kya matlab hai ??

May be want to bring her back post leap as with mini has become total vamp after killing saurab so Mano ko stand by pe rakha ho shayad. Personally mujhe to wo zinda chahiye aur badi bon khud ani Mano ko EK kare par jab ani mano se dur bhage. Bon bole barrister babu ap aur mano and bon aur new hero ek hi mandap main shadi karke new shuruwat karte hain😎