II WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU LEMONS II - Page 3

When life gives you lemons... Squint someone in the eye😆... That's so like Raghav Rao😎

On a serious note I can't help but agree with you... But the poor guy has his own baggage... I think we'll definitely see improvement once the writer's get what they're looking for...

I love Pallavi the most for her this character. She knows how to tame this bull called Raghav Rao. 😆

He completely destroyed her photoshoot but she made it happen with all the resources she has. She is not someone who is going to cry in the corner for whatever he do with her, she is someone who gives back in her own way. She always think about what to do next than why did these all happen with her. But one day one of them is going to lose the end. One of them is going to tired of this cat and mouse race. And then the love will happen.

Originally posted by: K_keechu

I'm yet to watch this episode but I feel that you are so apt to the points made here.

The only way to tame this bull is love and love only. He needs that. And I think the way amma and keerthi treating him is wrong. That's not how you tame your spoiled rich brat of a son. May he amma has tried for that before but I think she always blamed him for whatever happened in their family that she forgot that how the lack of affection in his life damaged his personality. I do agree that he is the creator of his problems but I do feel that his Amma plays an important role in that as well. If she accepted him forgiving his mistakes then her son wouldn't have turned into such bully.

Apple doesnt fall too far from the tree right? The temper and ego issues he has, have definitely come from his mother. She will also realize at some point that if she had handled him differently and learnt the virtue of forgiveness which is not always a sign of weakness, then she could have held her family together..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Idiot na bolo yaar.. thoda screw dheela hai.😆 Pallavi tight kardegi. But yes, he desperately needs someone and by someone I mean Pallavi to show him the error of his ways.. make him realise that temper, ego and impulsiveness are the reasons he has everything in life that money can buy, but not the things that can make him truly happy- his family..

His all screws are loose. 🤣 Pallavi is going to be crazy tighting them. 🤣🤣

Yeah, he needs to understand that. I really hope the ITV make these all things happen and the TRP doesn't interfere.

Originally posted by: __VIHU

When life gives you lemons... Squint someone in the eye😆... That's so like Raghav Rao😎

On a serious note I can't help but agree with you... But the poor guy has his own baggage... I think we'll definitely see improvement once the writer's get what they're looking for...

Absolutely!! 😆 however I feel baggage is somthing they both have.. Losing one's parents at a young age, she could have turned out like Amruta in the lack of parental guidance. She was lucky to have her brother but practically speaking brothers in most cases cant take the place of one's parents.. After a certain point it really is upto the individual, like Vijay Deshmukh had stated in his coversation with Milind kaka. Pallavi is inherantly compassionate and forgving which is mistaken as a sign of weakness and lack of self respect. But I think those are the biggest strengths of character. For instance how she helps Rahul's mother, and deals with Krishna's mother, or people like Sulochana and Amruta. Her attitude of looking past people's follies and focus on meanigful and more important things in life, is so commendable. The only time she gets affected is when Ayi Baba get upset with her because they are the closest to the feeling of having parents she has. Raghav really has a lot to learn from her.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Apple doesnt fall too far from the tree right? The temper and ego issues he has, have definitely come from his mother. She will also realize at some point that if she had handled him differently and learnt the virtue of forgiveness which is not always a sign of weakness, then she could have held her family together..

Yeah, like mother like son. They have issues with forgiveness too. 😆

Absolutely. Forgiveness is never the sign of weakness. In one episode amma had said to keerthi that she is not only his mother but their too so I think, she feels guilty accepting the son who killed her husband and son( as per the show) .

Originally posted by: K_keechu

I love Pallavi the most for her this character. She knows how to tame this bull called Raghav Rao. 😆

He completely destroyed her photoshoot but she made it happen with all the resources she has. She is not someone who is going to cry in the corner for whatever he do with her, she is someone who gives back in her own way. She always think about what to do next than why did these all happen with her. But one day one of them is going to lose the end. One of them is going to tired of this cat and mouse race. And then the love will happen.

That's the fighting spirit he admires in her secretly and sometimes not so secretly when he talks to Farhad about her. Her focus is always towards contructiveness, how to pickup the pieces, how to rectify, how to find a solution..she never gives up on trying which is really commendable. But I think, that very thing in her, her fighting spirit, is going to take a deadly blow this time when Raghav tarnishes her image and baba kicks her out of the house...

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Absolutely!! 😆 however I feel baggage is somthing they both have.. Losing one's parents at a young age, she could have turned out like Amruta in the lack of parental guidance. She was lucky to have her brother but practically speaking brothers in most cases cant take the place of one's parents.. After a certain point it really is upto the individual, like Vijay Deshmukh had stated in his coversation with Milind kaka. Pallavi is inherantly compassionate and forgving which is mistaken as a sign of weakness and lack of self respect. But I think those are the biggest strengths of character. For instance how she helps Rahul's mother, and deals with Krishna's mother, or people like Sulochana and Amruta. Her attitude of looking past people's follies and focus on meanigful and more important things in life, is so commendable. The only time she gets affected is when Ayi Baba get upset with her because they are the closest to the feeling of having parents she has. Raghav really has a lot to learn from her.

I often fall short when it comes to comparing Raghav and Pallavi... I can list both their virtues and vices but cannot draw conclusions regarding who needs to learn from whom ....

On Pallavi's front Raghav is impulsive and his volatile temper gets the best of him...

But with Amma... I think both are at equal fault... She misunderstands him when he refuses to account for his actions and she misunderstands him even when he does... Today she clearly said that you always bully Pallavi... Always??? I mean didn't the guy spelled out his intentions behind that pregnancy revelation to you...

I thought that you were improving a little, she says when he makes a mess... But why didn't you say it back when it mattered....

People won't appreciate good deeds but are always quick to rebuke the bad ones ....

She chastises him and then leaves him to do as he pleases... Why don't she ever genuinely guides him... She knows the power she holds over him but always ends up abusing it... It's been 10 years.. both of them really need to speak it out...

Raghav is no saint... I agree but when it comes to Amma and his relationship... I find him more willing to do anything to make amends.

Infact... I find Keerti's behaviour towards him peculiar.... She's the person who can see the situation more clearly than those two .. but I rarely find her trying to patch things up... I really want her intervene... She's so dear to both of them and can do some good for her brother...

Originally posted by: __VIHU

I often fall short when it comes to comparing Raghav and Pallavi... I can list both their virtues and vices but cannot draw conclusions regarding who needs to learn from whom ....

On Pallavi's front Raghav is impulsive and his volatile temper gets the best of him...

But with Amma... I think both are at equal fault... She misunderstands him when he refuses to account for his actions and she misunderstands him even when he does... Today she clearly said that you always bully Pallavi... Always??? I mean didn't the guy spelled out his intentions behind that pregnancy revelation to you...

I thought that you were improving a little, she says when he makes a mess... But why didn't you say it back when it mattered....

People won't appreciate good deeds but are always quick to rebuke the bad ones ....

She chastises him and then leaves him to do as he pleases... Why don't she ever genuinely guides him... She knows the power she holds over him but always ends up abusing it... It's been 10 years.. both of them really need to speak it out...

Raghav is no saint... I agree but when it comes to Amma and his relationship... I find him more willing to do anything to make amends.

Infact... I find Keerti's behaviour towards him peculiar.... She's the person who can see the situation more clearly than those two .. but I rarely find her trying to patch things up... I really want her intervene... She's so dear to both of them and can do some good for her brother...

I heard a line from a hindi poem once and it stuck with me forever . It said " bohot mushkil hota hai bade hoke bada hona" translating into saying that its not possible for everyone to act their age. Wisdom doesnt necessarily come with age. Raghav's amma is not the wisest mother. In her heart, she obviously wants Raghav to transform for the good and for them to be a happy normal family again... Which mother wouldnt want that? Her cryptic no so clear message for Raghav all along has been "try to be a good human being" not just for us but for everyone.. Remember, the time she was sick..she was ready to accept his help if he promised to behave for 48 hours or so. But her ways of putting that message across has been completely ineffective.. If she is able to forgive him for that one grave mistake he did in the past, she can be more open and clear about what she wants from him because he needs that.. an instruction manual on how to conduct oneself in a society in a respectable manner. Unless that happens, he will be like a loose cannon.. like he has been so far, hurting people around him in the process.

I agree, Keerthi can play a more proactive role in making Raghav understand what amma wants of him. And how he should go about doing what he should be doing to get them back in RR mansion

I hope they wont go in ‘kutumb’serial way!! the only difference will be what pratham did to gauri after marriage (he forced himself on her) raghav will do that with pallavi before marriage!! That will completely ruin raghav rao!! Hope they dont do this!!

I guess he might have kidnapped pallavi and told everyone that she spend night with him for money and but whats the truth is only both of them will know!!

So if this is the case then only the words said by pallavi in the promo make sense “tum paiso se sindoor kharid sakte ho suhagan nahi”.

And raghav will hate her because amma might have asked/ordered him to marry pallavi which he does not want!!!