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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Roch

Ye copy paste ka natija hain.


Its irritating to the point, were I wanted to slap not her but myself for watching this shit. It is toxic to a point where a man is insulting an elderly woman, his wife and later its going to be his mother.


Trust me I understand Virat's situation and i know people do behave this way in anger but he just wanted to punish her cause she went against him and his family. Not because he thinks she destroyed Devyani tai's life. Pray tell me how do i understand this behaviour. I just cant get that scene out of my head.

Yes there in that scene bw him and Pakhi, when she mentions him being upset about Sai sitting outside, he says "Sai ko uski galati ki saza mili hai. Agar usko mere aur mere faisle ki kadar nahi hai to main kyu chinta karun".. Also he was thinking about the morning, he said tumne kyu meri baat nahi maani , kyu mere parivaar ki baat nahi suni..


Regarding Pakhi, i never thought he would give her a free pass. He has been very clear to her, he wont have any feelings for her and for him she is his brothers wife.

Virat will always draw the line, let Sai be in the picture or not. So i get that it was not the concern when he asked you did not have dinner. A good scene but it will continue because this vile woman does not take no for an answer.

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Yes Virat needs to draw a line, whether Sai is in picture or notm whether Sai is at fault or not, Pakhi is not allowed to speak likes about her the way she did today. He surely knows Sai is not a gold digger, is willing to return all his money and yet he did not even move an eyelash on those pathetic words about her. I failed to understand there what he feels about those words. Does he think Sai is khudgarz and a gold digger?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I don't know what is wrong and if it is only me. I am not able to move past the previous episode and yesterday's was just a continuation of the act to me. To me, him stopping her to enter the house holds true even today.

Sai tried to talk to him, felt his betrayal and she wasn't given a chance. She would have apologised to him, had they not misbehaved like this.

She clearly said, had you asked me to leave, I would have left and that is how it could have been.

She could have apologised to Virat and Aai while at the doorstep, but I think that again would be a big bhakeda in their house and no one would like it including Virat if she had apologised to them alone. There would be no apology to have got Devi married from her and she is clear about it, which his family wants, she won't give.

Even then, she could have said sorry to Aai and Virat sir but I cannot ignore that Virat pushed it too much and may be only if one was in Sai's position, they might know whether or not they would apologise, but I would.


I am sorry but I could see Virat's pain when he spoke to Sai but after that I could see nothing.

It was not like Sai did not ask him to let her come in, even after he kept telling numerous times, there is no place for you in this house, she tried to let her in, not many would do that, she was at fault, a very big one, she understood his agony, she did that. There were a lot of wake up call for Virat.

In the hand holding incident, he went into a stupor, he realised what he did when his mom told him.

This time Ninad said how happy he was, he was ashamed, but that is all, Ninad said, I am not heartless to let you go out late in the night, all alone, that didn't wake him up, at the end Sai pointed out let me see how an adarsh son, a police officer and a person who took my responsibility closes the door on the face and yet that didn't wake him up. The door closed not just to Sai, but to me too for now as an audience who support Virat.


Whether she is responsibility or wife or whoever and whether she was right or wrong or failed, this is an uncalled behavior towards anyone.


If I feel Pakhi should be given a chance one day to correct a mistake, if I feel Virat should be given a chance to correct this mistake, Sai should have been given a chance which is not huge as what Pakhi is doing or what Virat has done. She might have failed in many ways but not in a way that she cannot be treated as a human or in a way that Virat would stop acting a human.


I told this on the day someone told me that Sai was worried, thinking about Virat, I said that she should be, she took this on herself. If, I had said because she didn't respect Virat, what can I say when Virat didn't respect humanity.

His pain and cries were not visible to me after the doors were closesd. From this point onwards, I might only be able to connect to his guilt and nothing else.


If Sai had done to this to Virat, I would have felt the same. I thought about the incident where she asked him to leave the house in GC, asked myself, she also did it, well there is a difference, wife or not, responsibility or not, Virat did not live in their Gc house, he had a place to live, Sai lives in CN, she was asked to leave from the only shelter she had. 👏

When he said jahaan se aayi thi, wahi jaayegi, when he told her, you will now know when you try to find roof for yourself, it clearly shows that he knows she would not be going to Pulkit's place because that is not her place. So he was depriving her of the only shelter she had.


I always knew what was the position of Pakhi in Virat's life and how he would never cross the line, though he had shows traces of love even after marriage, I could see strong emotions for Sai in a different way which he too didn't know, so to me that bas Pakhi was an obvious. He might ir might not have told if this happened in the arena can be a question, right now, though he is emotional, he has control to an extent where he can and would definitely not hear a word against his loved ones,especially his Aai.


He eats his food with his hands or asked to be fed someone I don't care. But if you want me to look at that scene, I am sure he didn't want to have his food, Pakhi entered his room, he probably might have thought she could have come for that, hence he wanted to ask her to keep his food. Also, because Pakhi taunted that he and Sai might have fed each other, he wanted to show that, nothing mattered to him and to convey that to Pakhi, he had asked her food.


Sai? What do I tell, she acted so cool the whole time, not a drop of tear, she is not a person who would cry to gain sympathy like Pakhi, she did cry the time when Virat spoke to her when she was about to leave last time, when she saw Virst crying, she was overwhelmed. Yesterday, her self respect was in question, she was insulted, why would she show her tears to such people. I loved her being strong and not breaking down in front of anyone. Accused is crying and not the victim.


Virat told his mom.in hurt, she knew what she was doing, poore hosh aur hawaaz mein kiya, I could feel his pain back then. If not for anything, his anger could have subsided, to stop him from doing what he did.

Duniyadaari seekh lo? Please man, Sai even then tried fo make him see only Pulkit, I wish he knew what that is, has a girl who is obsessed with him and has given him some hints, he has been ignoring, time will come when he will also learn duniyadaari.

Tumhare upar chath nahi rahega toh tumhe pata chalega, so Virat is doing it with full hosh aur hawaaz, should I consider it that way? That's great 👏👏.


P.s Asmi, I have shared what I have to, I really do not want get into a discussion about this. I am sorry if I do not reply to your comments.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I want to start from where he shut the door and screamed that his and Sai relationship is over.. He knew Sai is there and hence he kept on screaming to maker her hear as well.. His expressions where he showed the anger and the brink of just breaking down there while he kept on mentioning how Sai is just a bura sapna for them was marvellously done. Even after knowing what an AH he as been , you knew its breaking your heart as well.. Credit to the actor and not the character here.

Coming to the scene in the room , him getting those flashbacks was disheartening to see. I know right at this moment he thinks Sai was leading him on, was planning the whole time while he was trying to seal another stamp of love on their so called deal marriage. Yes right now he does think she does not value this marriage and he is definitely right if I look at it from Virat's point of view. No I am not trying to justify his act. He needs to wear that maala of his old shoes and sit in his office the whole day. Because more than anything like Sai mentioned, ACP VIrat Chavhan failed today.


Coming back to the scene he was trying to caress the blanket, as if they still have the feel of Sai from the morning. And then the moment he had his eyes on the plant, where he could have analysed Sai's feelings for him, Pathharlekha didi entered. Now this is one of the few scenes of them that I watched completely , probably because I had read Neerja's post in the morning and I am thankful to her that I did not skip the scene.. That torchure of expressionless face was awarded in the form of Virat's outrage.Pattarlekha has some serious registering issues, she does not understand simple words. Acha chalo kuch aur baatein karte hain and then jump back to the same person , who he has strictly told before and now as well to not discuss about. Even though the actor lacks expressing skills, the dialogues were written perfectly to show what she was trying to do here when she mentioned how he might not eat because of what happened and the taunt that kind kind of was understood by Virat when she mentioned how if she would have apologised by now you would be feeding her food "apne haathon se". He was losing it there itself. Nicely portrayed by Neil again.

I was extremely appalled at the way she went on and about Aswhini Aai and Virat's mother, extremely shameful and venomous. I get it why she did that, she knows Ashwini is the only one who can somehow influence Virat's decisions w.r.t Sai and she was trying to put a halt to any such possibility. Yet again her words that she does it because indirectly she uses Sai to dishonour the elders, comes from the fact that Virat had said the same for Aai. She has the audacity to speak those words, because she has heard Virat doing the same to his mother. That's why I believe he needs to stop talking like that especially to his mother in front of so many people. And he needs to aggressively stop Pattharlekha didi as well when she talks nonsense about his Aai and wife. The first part has been executed and I am happy , I did not have to wait that long. She needed it, she cannot take so much liberty in his life to talk nonsense about his mother. Thats where Virat also need to differentiate between Sai and Pattharlekha in his mind, how the former one reprimanded him from misbehaving his word and how the latter used the same words (that he was reprimanded for) against his aai to instigate him against Aai. Pattharlekha's hatred towards Sai has turned so venomous that she forgets that she is mother to the man she claims to love in her mind. Also should question her maturity and experience in life when she comes up with questions like ek hi ghar k log alag alag kaise ho sakte hain.. I am happy he said , isme sochne wali kya baat hai (IDIOT of highest degree).

I dont like him depending on the ladies of the house to get his food.. You f**ing grown up man child please go and fetch your own food. PLease for god's sake. you can do it, just try at once. Sorry for my rant here, but I have grown up in a house, where we sisters and brothers served our own food, served each others food , cleaned our own utensils and each others as well. So I hate when they show Virat depending on someone to get his food.



Anyway coming to this part of the episode which I liked a lot, apart from how Sai mentioned, she needs no taras(Go my girl). Pattarlekha wants to wipe out her memory of Sairat feeding each other , by sitting on the same bed and feeding and getting fed by Virat. She has springs in her steps since now she thinks Virat would be hers and with Samrat not in picture no one can stop them from getting close to each other . I wish the actor was good, the scenes would have been much more impactful. Anyway so Virat's reaction to her not eating food was not at all a concern, it was a reaction of being threatened to what she is trying to do here.. He had clearly told her to not wait for him even when Sai was there..

He realised what is to come if he allows this. She is treading beyond the rekha and she needs to be stopped. He realised as a husband to another woman and as a brother to the man who is this woman's husband he needs to put a STOP here and thats why his strict and desperate call that they would not have the food here and also maintained how having food in this room was only allowed for him with his wife. Yet again Pattharlekha failed expressing and I was confused on what she thought or felt when he mentioned that.

Since this was my views on Virat , I would limit it to him. Sai was the hero of the episode for me today, however Neil was exceptionally well as Virat today.

Special applaud to this guy for bringing that level of aggression towards the person who he is in love with in reality, as a part of a scene. Its difficult , I know that.


Edited : Today was not that day , where he should have expected his bhabhi or his aai to get him his food. Other days I understand .. It was a "too much to process" day for everyone and specially his Aai . So she could have been left today. Also the tone in which he said, ya toh tum mera khana lao ya main aai ko bolun was something I did not like. The women in CN are not treated equally even by Virat and somehwere we all know that and yet tend to ignore when we are in love with him. I am guilty of doing that as well. Anyway I have written a lot on Virat other than the food today and I dont wish this thread to be all about those lines..I apologise to whosoever I have hurt , questioned the love they share with their mothers and bhabhis heartily,. My intention was not question the pamper and love we seek for when we ask them to get our food. It to me did not look like for Virat today was that day to seek that love. And also Patralekha is not the one from who he seeks that pamper and love, that I am very sure off. Hence question on his words to Patralekha. Thats it.

I have appreciated his scene where he was fed by his Aai and their conversation and chemistry there. And I also demand for more such scene.. I am also looking for some disheartening and heartening scenes between the two, they share a great chemsitry.

Wow, a well written post asmi. 👏

Virat has drawn a line in his heart for Pakhi already, and has removed the line which he had created with Sai, but Virat just needs to be more expressive in these things at the correct time ,especially when someone is demanding reality. And I loved that he did it to an extent to didi today.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

I don't know what is wrong and if it is only me. I am not able to move past the previous episode and yesterday's was just a continuation of the act to me. To me, him stopping her to enter the house holds true even today.

Sai tried to talk to him, felt his betrayal and she wasn't given a chance. She would have apologised to him, had they not misbehaved like this.

She clearly said, had you asked me to leave, I would have left and that is how it could have been.

She could have apologised to Virat and Aai while at the doorstep, but I think that again would be a big bhakeda in their house and no one would like it including Virat if she had apologised to them alone. There would be no apology to have got Devi married from her and she is clear about it, which his family wants, she won't give.

Even then, she could have said sorry to Aai and Virat sir but I cannot ignore that Virat pushed it too much and may be only if one was in Sai's position, they might know whether or not they would apologise, but I would.


I am sorry but I could see Virat's pain when he spoke to Sai but after that I could see nothing.

It was not like Sai did not ask him to let her come in, even after he kept telling numerous times, there is no place for you in this house, she tried to let her in, not many would do that, she was at fault, a very big one, she understood his agony, she did that. There were a lot of wake up call for Virat.

In the hand holding incident, he went into a stupor, he realised what he did when his mom told him.

This time Ninad said how happy he was, he was ashamed, but that is all, Ninad said, I am not heartless to let you go out late in the night, all alone, that didn't wake him up, at the end Sai pointed out let me see how an adarsh son, a police officer and a person who took my responsibility closes the door on the face and yet that didn't wake him up. The door closed not just to Sai, but to me too for now as an audience who support Virat.


Whether she is responsibility or wife or whoever and whether she was right or wrong or failed, this is an uncalled behavior towards anyone.


If I feel Pakhi should be given a chance one day to correct a mistake, if I feel Virat should be given a chance to correct this mistake, Sai should have been given a chance which is not huge as what Pakhi is doing or what Virat has done. She might have failed in many ways but not in a way that she cannot be treated as a human or in a way that Virat would stop acting a human.


I told this on the day someone told me that Sai was worried, thinking about Virat, I said that she should be, she took this on herself. If, I had said because she didn't respect Virat, what can I say when Virat didn't respect humanity.

His pain and cries were not visible to me after the doors were closesd. From this point onwards, I might only be able to connect to his guilt and nothing else.


If Sai had done to this to Virat, I would have felt the same. I thought about the incident where she asked him to leave the house in GC, asked myself, she also did it, well there is a difference, wife or not, responsibility or not, Virat did not live in their Gc house, he had a place to live, Sai lives in CN, she was asked to leave from the only shelter she had. 👏

When he said jahaan se aayi thi, wahi jaayegi, when he told her, you will now know when you try to find roof for yourself, it clearly shows that he knows she would not be going to Pulkit's place because that is not her place. So he was depriving her of the only shelter she had.


I always knew what was the position of Pakhi in Virat's life and how he would never cross the line, though he had shows traces of love even after marriage, I could see strong emotions for Sai in a different way which he too didn't know, so to me that bas Pakhi was an obvious. He might ir might not have told if this happened in the arena can be a question, right now, though he is emotional, he has control to an extent where he can and would definitely not hear a word against his loved ones,especially his Aai.


He eats his food with his hands or asked to be fed someone I don't care. But if you want me to look at that scene, I am sure he didn't want to have his food, Pakhi entered his room, he probably might have thought she could have come for that, hence he wanted to ask her to keep his food. Also, because Pakhi taunted that he and Sai might have fed each other, he wanted to show that, nothing mattered to him and to convey that to Pakhi, he had asked her food.


Sai? What do I tell, she acted so cool the whole time, not a drop of tear, she is not a person who would cry to gain sympathy like Pakhi, she did cry the time when Virat spoke to her when she was about to leave last time, when she saw Virst crying, she was overwhelmed. Yesterday, her self respect was in question, she was insulted, why would she show her tears to such people. I loved her being strong and not breaking down in front of anyone. Accused is crying and not the victim.


Virat told his mom.in hurt, she knew what she was doing, poore hosh aur hawaaz mein kiya, I could feel his pain back then. If not for anything, his anger could have subsided, to stop him from doing what he did.

Duniyadaari seekh lo? Please man, Sai even then tried fo make him see only Pulkit, I wish he knew what that is, has a girl who is obsessed with him and has given him some hints, he has been ignoring, time will come when he will also learn duniyadaari.

Tumhare upar chath nahi rahega toh tumhe pata chalega, so Virat is doing it with full hosh aur hawaaz, should I consider it that way? That's great 👏👏.


P.s Asmi, I have shared what I have to, I really do not want get into a discussion about this. I am sorry if I do not reply to your comments.


I am sorry, I don't want to offend anyone's sentiments, this is my view about the whole thing.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

I don't know what is wrong and if it is only me. I am not able to move past the previous episode and yesterday's was just a continuation of the act to me. To me, him stopping her to enter the house holds true even today.

Sai tried to talk to him, felt his betrayal and she wasn't given a chance. She would have apologised to him, had they not misbehaved like this.

She clearly said, had you asked me to leave, I would have left and that is how it could have been.

She could have apologised to Virat and Aai while at the doorstep, but I think that again would be a big bhakeda in their house and no one would like it including Virat if she had apologised to them alone. There would be no apology to have got Devi married from her and she is clear about it, which his family wants, she won't give.

Even then, she could have said sorry to Aai and Virat sir but I cannot ignore that Virat pushed it too much and may be only if one was in Sai's position, they might know whether or not they would apologise, but I would.


I am sorry but I could see Virat's pain when he spoke to Sai but after that I could see nothing.

It was not like Sai did not ask him to let her come in, even after he kept telling numerous times, there is no place for you in this house, she tried to let her in, not many would do that, she was at fault, a very big one, she understood his agony, she did that. There were a lot of wake up call for Virat.

In the hand holding incident, he went into a stupor, he realised what he did when his mom told him.

This time Ninad said how happy he was, he was ashamed, but that is all, Ninad said, I am not heartless to let you go out late in the night, all alone, that didn't wake him up, at the end Sai pointed out let me see how an adarsh son, a police officer and a person who took my responsibility closes the door on the face and yet that didn't wake him up. The door closed not just to Sai, but to me too for now as an audience who support Virat.

Sai being how self respecting person she is, she gave Virat enough opportunities today to not become inhuman , to not spoil the relationship they have.Like she said, she would have accepted it if he had asked her with some respect.


Whether she is responsibility or wife or whoever and whether she was right or wrong or failed, this is an uncalled behavior towards anyone.


If I feel Pakhi should be given a chance one day to correct a mistake, if I feel Virat should be given a chance to correct this mistake, Sai should have been given a chance which is not huge as what Pakhi is doing or what Virat has done. She might have failed in many ways but not in a way that she cannot be treated as a human or in a way that Virat would stop acting a human.

Yes agreed , I would be open for a redeeming Pakhi, if I am open for a redeeming Virat. He crossed all level of humanity today. He did not flinch when Sai was called a gold digger.. Oh yes he is true Chavhan today.


I told this on the day someone told me that Sai was worried, thinking about Virat, I said that she should be, she took this on herself. If, I had said because she didn't respect Virat, what can I say when Virat didn't respect humanity.

His pain and cries were not visible to me after the doors were closesd. From this point onwards, I might only be able to connect to his guilt and nothing else.


If Sai had done to this to Virat, I would have felt the same. I thought about the incident where she asked him to leave the house in GC, asked myself, she also did it, well there is a difference, wife or not, responsibility or not, Virat did not live in their Gc house, he had a place to live, Sai lives in CN, she was asked to leave from the only shelter she had. 👏

When he said jahaan se aayi thi, wahi jaayegi, when he told her, you will now know when you try to find roof for yourself, it clearly shows that he knows she would not be going to Pulkit's place because that is not her place. So he was depriving her of the only shelter she had.


I always knew what was the position of Pakhi in Virat's life and how he would never cross the line, though he had shows traces of love even after marriage, I could see strong emotions for Sai in a different way which he too didn't know, so to me that bas Pakhi was an obvious. He might ir might not have told if this happened in the arena can be a question, right now, though he is emotional, he has control to an extent where he can and would definitely not hear a word against his loved ones,especially his Aai.


He eats his food with his hands or asked to be fed someone I don't care. But if you want me to look at that scene, I am sure he didn't want to have his food, Pakhi entered his room, he probably might have thought she could have come for that, hence he wanted to ask her to keep his food. Also, because Pakhi taunted that he and Sai might have fed each other, he wanted to show that, nothing mattered to him and to convey that to Pakhi, he had asked her food.

Makes sense this one..


Sai? What do I tell, she acted so cool the whole time, not a drop of tear, she is not a person who would cry to gain sympathy like Pakhi, she did cry the time when Virat spoke to her when she was about to leave last time, when she saw Virst crying, she was overwhelmed. Yesterday, her self respect was in question, she was insulted, why would she show her tears to such people. I loved her being strong and not breaking down in front of anyone. Accused is crying and not the victim.


Virat told his mom.in hurt, she knew what she was doing, poore hosh aur hawaaz mein kiya, I could feel his pain back then. If not for anything, his anger could have subsided, to stop him from doing what he did.

Duniyadaari seekh lo? Please man, Sai even then tried fo make him see only Pulkit, I wish he knew what that is, has a girl who is obsessed with him and has given him some hints, he has been ignoring, time will come when he will also learn duniyadaari.

Tumhare upar chath nahi rahega toh tumhe pata chalega, so Virat is doing it with full hosh aur hawaaz, should I consider it that way? That's great 👏👏.


P.s Asmi, I have shared what I have to, I really do not want get into a discussion about this. I am sorry if I do not reply to your comments.

Arey thats okay.. It was more of an appreciation of how Virat was played by Neil today than VIrat as a character.. I had thought of giving a point of view on Virat keeping aside this throwing out scene, could not give yesterday, so I could do it today.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Arey thats okay.. It was more of an appreciation of how Virat was played by Neil today than VIrat as a character.. I had thought of giving a point of view on Virat keeping aside this throwing out scene, could not give yesterday, so I could do it today.


Oh ok, Neil did and usually does a good job. The reason I couldn't connect to his pain yesterday was ofcourse because of the way Neil had potrayed the character yesterday. I did not watch the entire episode, but a few clippings, but from what I watched I didn't have to pay any attention on his acting not because I was lost in Virat the character, just his dialogues and the scene wouldn't have made any sense, I could go with the flow only because of his sensible acting, it was all very natural. I will have to watch in the big screen, but I have never had issues with his acting anyway.

I have watched Rono, this is like 😎. 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I kind of liked the episode. Neil did really a good job in the emotional scenes.


Highlight was the convo with Pakhi. Yesterday when he said to Sai not to disrespect Pakhi, I was like what’s wrong with you guy?! And even questioned if he has residual feelings for Pakhi.


After today’s episode I realised he mostly reacts based on situations and not people.


And regarding the food serving it’s a typical Indian male mentality I feel. Darshakon Don’t come with chappals to me!! Majority of men expect women to serve food and take care of the house. Nothing wrong in that but it becomes a problem when the women also gets out of the house and slogs her ass off! It’s a patriarchy stuff and we women are conditioned so much we don’t even realise we are part of the patriarchic system.

I get what you were conveying about Virat though. With god complex he has got too much of male entitlement issues as well.

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Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

I kind of liked the episode. Neil did really a good job in the emotional scenes.


Highlight was the convo with Pakhi. Yesterday when he said to Sai not to disrespect Pakhi, I was like what’s wrong with you guy?! And even questioned if he has residual feelings for Pakhi.


After today’s episode I realised he mostly reacts based on situations and not people.


And regarding the food serving it’s a typical Indian male mentality I feel. Darshakon Don’t come with chappals to me!! Majority of men expect women to serve food and take care of the house. Nothing wrong in that but it becomes a problem when the women also gets out of the house and slogs her ass off! It’s a patriarchy stuff and we women are conditioned so much we don’t even realise we are part of the patriarchic system.

I get what you were conveying about Virat though. With god complex he has got too much of male entitlement issues as well.


@bold we both had a conversation about this yesterday 😉

This was one of the main reasons, I wrote the post yesterday, Asmi brought me to notice that everywhere in the forum there is Virat Pakhi 😂😂.

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Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

I kind of liked the episode. Neil did really a good job in the emotional scenes.


Highlight was the convo with Pakhi. Yesterday when he said to Sai not to disrespect Pakhi, I was like what’s wrong with you guy?! And even questioned if he has residual feelings for Pakhi.


After today’s episode I realised he mostly reacts based on situations and not people.


And regarding the food serving it’s a typical Indian male mentality I feel. Darshakon Don’t come with chappals to me!! Majority of men expect women to serve food and take care of the house. Nothing wrong in that but it becomes a problem when the women also gets out of the house and slogs her ass off! It’s a patriarchy stuff and we women are conditioned so much we don’t even realise we are part of the patriarchic system.

I get what you were conveying about Virat though. With god complex he has got too much of male entitlement issues as well.

Exactly what I wanted to convey. Being a working woman myself I know how difficult it would be for me to do both the jobs.. Its the patriarchy that I was questioning . Thats the issue that I have seen a lot of women facing in too many households.. Have seen in one of the families while my stay in Delhi ..In freezing cold winters of Delhi, one is expected to get up and serve food, whenever the son/husband/in-laws come back or eat.. Not just that, prepare fresh chapatis kyuki sardi mei fresh chapati khane ka maza hi kuch aur hai.. Virat could not be as patriarch as such people, but he has an element of it. He has male entitlement issues.Not always though. No denying that fact.


But then I also think it could be like how lakshmi said, since she came in with the bahana of getting him food and when she wanted to continue on Aai bashing/aai liking Sai he gave her a final shut up/get out call using the same excuse she came in with.

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I am sorry, I don't want to offend anyone's sentiments, this is my view about the whole thing.

Hey,it's okay yaar,I didn't feel offended here,you just kept your point that how Virat's action spoke far more louder for him , almost a booming voice ,which unfortunately silenced his current emotions which he might wanted to show , and also his past self, whether good or bad. It's like Virat has to re write from here on.

But,what he is not realising is this blast will leave a voice which will keep ringing in his ears.

He wanted his hurt to speak, his crying heart and pain to show to Sai, but probably he got way too controlled by his emotions ,those emotions which Virat can never handle, but it was to such an extent that now they have burnt him too deep, probably also reaching his soul to an extent. And he ended up proving and dominating his point rather than showing his hurt. That's what has happened here. A burnt soul if I say here.

Not bashing here, I'm just saying ,and i have always said,emotional Virat is a dangerous Virat. That just showed itself in a very strong way ,that's it.

But,agreed Asmi, Neil did amazing ,cuz if what nonsense I am making is sense actually, then he was amazing today ,cuz letting out on this form, hatsoff.

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