I think he want Shaurya to solve his anger issues so that he can be a better partner of Anokhi...he was explaining this to Shaurya in yesterday episode.He don't want Anokhi to suffer because of Shaurya anger.
I think he also wants him to sideline his ego when dealing with relationships and Anokhi. His ego is his main enemy. Ahir also knows SS is good at heart otherwise. So, Aahir wants him to bend down for the sake of saving the relationship and not let ego destroy it.
Like in today's episode also SS was adamant about not saying sorry but when Anokhi came and told him she was waiting for him, I think we'll say him saying sorry in tomorrow's episode.