Originally posted by: laksh
My understanding is this. He is upset with Sai. She did something that he never imagined. Anyone who is in line with his thoughts at times like this is whom he will listen to. Anyone else who supports Sai, will be looked at as people who are blindly supporting her.
It is just like how a few audience feel. Some feel why are you supporting Sai when she is wrong. Some feel why are you supporting Virat when is wrong. And they feel this way, not only when Virat or Sai is wrong, they feel this way when they believe they are wrong even if they are not.
In the same way Virat right not witnessed wedding of his sister, he saw that Sai was supporting Pulkit. He is not able to move past that. He is not able to move past the betrayal feeling that has settled in him now. Hence anything that comes from Aai or anyone who support will look wrong to him. It will look as if they are Sai supporters.
Let's say if Karishma was there and even if she supported Virat, he is in a state where he would think that all these people have brainwashed Karishma too. He will not see that a person who has always been against Sai is supporting her. It will look as if she has got influenced by others.
Just like how he thinks Sai has got influenced by Pulkit.
I understand his feelings. Forget all ehsaan, what would any person think is that, he was all Sai had ever since Kamal left. They both have spent good and bad times together. He has supported her on many ways. He always thought he was somethinf for her even if she never acknowledged. Like andar hi andar he had some hopes that Sai might think him to be her husband or a friend even if she denies it. This hope has shattered.
The expectation would have been that whatever happens, she trusts him, she supports him. And not just she has not trusted him, has gone behind her back. That has disturbed him a lot.
The blessings part is because he is doing it for formality (to take it first from them) or because they would expect it from him. Whereas he knows that his mom doesn't even expect that. He always has her blessings even if he doesn't seek for it. She loves him a lot and he knows that.
He also knows that she would want him to give them respect the way it is expected.
He takes it at the end because, it gives him and his mom their time. They hug each other too. If he does that first and seeks others blessings, others will envy Ashwini and will start taunting her. Others will comment something spoiling the mood.
So he gives others their happiness aur aaram se loves his mom and takes her blessings without letting anyone interrupt their moment because they would all be at peace already š.
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