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Posted: 5 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: sammy17


But most other countries are not having the level of gang-rape issue that india has been having over the past few years. It's getting far more ridiculous. I agree with fruit custard when she pointed out why was sai roaming around in jungle and there is danger there too, but that stupidity was Sai's own that she can be blamed for, yaha toh her very mature in-laws are throwing her out at night and locking her out with nowhere to go, when fact is india has a huge rape issue and when they have a police officer in their house who is responsible for women's safety and a man who is a retired police officer. It is ridiculous! Sai is an impulsive 18 year old on more rescue missions than her police officer husband, but what is the excuse of her police officer husband and her retired army officer father-in-law and her kaku-saas who is the elder matriarch of the house who likes controlling the women of the house and like talking about what people will think?


Those women who are returning from night-shifts are returning where? Their homes! Here Sai has been thrown out of that home with no real home to go to.


Not all returning to homes, some are going to work as well.


Rape or Gang-rape is still a rape, a violation of girl's rights without her consent in a violent form. There's no use debating on how many did what, at the end of the day - crime is "rape".


Lets get the facts right, Sai is no longer alone in the city like the past. She could goto PD's house, if she wanted to. In our families, when we have light night weddings or such, they ask us to stay in their house - even if our house is not far away, it doesn't matter for them if one is a boy or a girl or if they have enough space to accommodate all or not. Why does everyone forget this simple fact ? Lets not even get into how many friends Sai has in the college, what's the use of friends - when they don't come in need - when you really need it.


At no point, I'm even appreciating Virat 0.01% for what he did by stranding her out in the night, facts are facts, period.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: swanlaked


One rape was reported every 16 minutes in India (National Crime Record Bureau (NCRB))


so ? Unofficial numbers are even higher.


Also do calculate it with the population we have. Now tell me, how does that come to even 5% of the Indian women population, forget about 80% ?


Now, lets go into rough stats from an old census - 662.90 million female population in India.

Now, lets assume 4 rapes every 1 hour, per day - it would be 96 cases. Per year 96*365 = 35,040 cases.

662.90 million % 35,040 = ?? Does it equate to even 5 % ? According to unofficial stats more than 10 million women work in the nights, be it farmers or BPO's or nurses or etc..


JFYI, rape doesn't mean - its just violation of a woman, men are raped too though many do not come forward fearing the embarrassment they would become in a society if they report them.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Sai goes to any extent to help the people she love. That is her nature and that landed her in trouble. Are you sure people are supporting her? Thank god.


do you not count yourself in people ?

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Posted: 5 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: basherz


so ? Unofficial numbers are even higher.






JFYI, rape doesn't mean - its just violation of a woman, men are raped too though many do not come forward fearing the embarrassment they would become in a society if they report them.


you're really trying to justify how throwing Sai out of the house and keeping her out at nigh isnt going to expose her to predators and in fact she can get raped

aap kuch zyada ajeeb nahi hai?

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Posted: 5 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: swanlaked


you're really trying to justify how throwing Sai out of the house and keeping her out at nigh isnt going to expose her to predators and in fact she can get raped

aap kuch zyada ajeeb nahi hai?


Rape isn't the only form abuse a girl can face & you can't keep banging the same door, that every girl who steps out at night is bound to be raped. My answer was only related to your 80% stats.


Now go & quote a single post/comment of mine, where I have justified Virat's actions. Feel free to stalk my profile & my comments.

Edited by basherz - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: sammy17


But Samrat or Mohit don't have the nerve to blame Sai like useless ACP bhaiyya, and I mentioned the family as a whole numerous times, which samrat and mohit are a part of. I singled out virat as the useless brother because he's the one who has the galls to stop his wife, the one person actually trying to do something for his sister when he himself does nothing for her, so of course I would single him out.


Sahi hai, sai too has not thought about devi tai medical treatment, and instead she thought about her happiness with the intention that maybe having Devi united with her husband who she has been talking about all this while, she might get better with time. That's more than what anybody in that house has thought about for devi tai who have left her unmarried, mental, untreated and neglected for years and would continue to do so if Sai didn't decide to do something for Tai.


Useless acp bhaiyya doesn't know about phuski pulkit's sachhai and he just asked sai to keep quiet till he reinvestigate the matter. But our mahanta ki murat medical student couldn't do that also and didn't took virat sir in confidence. Agree what she is doing, her intentions are right but she is only seeing it through her lenses and point of view as she always does. Useless bhaiya on the other hand too want Devi's happiness because he thinks devi is better in chavan mansion than with a cheater. So he is right at his place.

Thats the beauty, both useless bhaiyya and mahanta ki murat are dumbest people on earth but if we learn to ignore logic which itv expects from us then both are right at their own place.

But unfortunately some people just blindly support mahaan medical student ji and blames useless acp bhaiyya for everything and when some people try to put their opinion against mahan medical student then instead of respecting their pov people label them as misogynistic.....well i dont blame them...this is the current trend on social media... Either you are with majority or you the worst living person on the earth.

Edited by Bechain_Bulbul - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: swanlaked

90% of audience (as ive seen on social media) agree with u and support Sai but now wait and see how some of those 10% misogynistic people who normalize violence against women will come and attack you dont mind them

I wanted to ask calling members as misogynistic because they have a different opinion than the rest, playing women card to one's convenience and lastly pseudo feminism. Is there a word to describe such people? Can you please help me with the right word.
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Posted: 5 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: swanlaked

90% of audience (as ive seen on social media) agree with u and support Sai but now wait and see how some of those 10% misogynistic people who normalize violence against women will come and attack you dont mind them


Bold : u r these 10% misogynistic who is coming to attack TM .


If people don't agree to u then they r misogynistic ? Really.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9


What about she herself roaming in jungle whole night without informing any one in d family. Tab safety nhi thi .

Military forces were available in jungle for sai Joshi.

@bold🤣🤣 bang on...sahi pakde hain🤣

Tab mahan medical student ji ko veerta dikhani thi jungle mein kidnapper ke pas jakar to no safety worries...chalta hai...after all she the sai joshi😎 but virat ne gusse mein ghar ke andar nahi liya(btw jo bilkul sahi nahi hai and should be condemned) to sare safety issues ho gaye.


Anyways jane do....most of the people are sensible enough but those who are not...unke liye bas sabkuch ya to safed ya kaala...there is no grey. Aur ye white n black ki definition bhi unke according badalti rehti hai🤣. Its either their way or highway🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I wanted to ask calling members as misogynistic because they have a different opinion than the rest, playing women card to one's convenience and lastly pseudo feminism. Is there a word to describe such people? Can you please help me with the right word.

Its in hindi... It's called yeda banke peda khana🤣 or dedh shane log🤣

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