Does Sai in any way always bring's out Virat's best? - Page 2

True, Sai really does bring out the best in Virat.

Virat loves his family but doesn’t do anything about it, so when Sai sees someone being wronged she takes the initiative step to do the right thing and Virat supports her, eg Mohit’s case and now Devyani. Virat can’t initiate but can stand up for the right, like on mahashivratri, the family didn’t want Devyani to sit in the Pooja and Virat didn’t do anything about it but when Sai got Devyani to sit with them Virat supported her

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Look,not bashing, sorry if the topic name seems so. Actuaaly , reacting by a single scene ,not much.

So, although according to Virat and in general pov,as in morally, Sai's motive is absolutely right, but her path is wrong that's it. But,this scene is regarding where Virat says that he will now never allow to get devi tai trapped in that room was really heart touching.

So, somewhere or the other , even Virat senses and had sensed the negativity surrounding his dil ke acche gharwaale's deeds ,why was he silent is not the question and I don't want a riot because of me here. So,let's keep it aside, but as I said Virat also has dwelling thoughts regarding the things going on his house and he did aspire for changes in certain things, as in he did want his tai to be free, cuz his words felt as if he had this underlying desire for long. But this hidden desire came out due to Sai's actions.

The situation was tense, mood was tense ,but he extended support to tai in the best way one could in that house,by promising to give her freedom in that zillat. And I believe it was not the didi's vaada type promise here, he would have fought for this if tai would have agreed to him. So,Sai does bring out the Virat Chavan who somewhere always wants to come out in such situations ,but cannot, so Sai directly or indirectly triggers him.

What do you guys feel?

Taaging experts for their advice😆

Hey good post. Shristhi there onw thing common what ever discussions we had, that virat wanted acceptance from family, and somewhere it is linked through his childhood, I wont accept this that he had never encountered her mother being subject to rude behaviour in childhood,

you are right sai do bring out that hidden desires suppressed in him. But here yes he promised but he cant be with tai 24/7, I am not syaing that he doesnt feel for his sister he feels bad but here it was more like a lolipop given to a child. He sai so coz tai said she doesnt wants to go back, czo of the behaviour of the family, except sai no one saw her pain behind her sorrows, not even virat, that touched him, he ensured he will protect her sis but how,

Sai has pushed Virat to have a voice against his family.

Virat has grown up in that family, believing the head of the family is always right, it's not like he knew they were wrong and shut his mouth. He had been made to believe that everything they do has a valid reason. He had never been taught to question things. Not everyone is a rebel!

Virat and Sai have been brought up in different ways.

Sai, on the other hand, is a straight-forward, free spirited person, she has grown up to distinguish right and wrong, to raise questions. Like Ashwini once said "bilkul manmauzi hai", because she is, if she knows ki yeh sahi hai toh woh karegi, she will rebel against the one doing wrong. Fortunately or unfortunately, it's Virat's family in this situation, doing the wrong things. That family that Virat has always believed to be good. You can't just shaken up a man's whole belief system in a matter of few months.

We can't say that he knew and ignored, rather he was made to believe that they are doing no wrong. He just needs a push to find that his family can be wrong too, and only a strong person like Sai can do it. Virat works fine, when outside, but ab khudke ghar ki baat aa gayi hai, and here Virat will need some help to open his eyes.

Aisa nhi hai its only sai , virat himself also do things on his own I know people will not agree.

Virat saw Cgang insulting sai at grahpravesh realised it's wrong on her so it was he who asked sai to replied back with dignity not sai asked her.

It was virat who took stand for Sai's education again sai has no role in it ,

Virat said things should be changed in d household .

I can with guarantee say that if not sai if any other girl also would had married virat then also he would had taken stand for his wife .

I will not deny sai do play role of catalyst for virat to learn truth of Cgang reality in some cases I will not deprive sai from her credit & yes I accept sai had brought some changes but some r virat had done himself .

But currently even sai herself is not playing any role for virat coz she is kidnappinghiding truth from virat coz of pulkit she earlier was ready & I m failing to understand that.

Regarding devi tai it raise question why devi trust virat it's not only coz of sibling love what made her trust virat.

Mohit 2 is devi' brother but still she dont share d same equation with Mohit uska kuch to reason hoga.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Aisa nhi hai its only sai , virat himself also do things on his own I know people will not agree.

Virat saw Cgang insulting sai at grahpravesh realised it's wrong on her so it was he who asked sai to replied back with dignity not sai asked her.

It was virat who took stand for Sai's education again sai has no role in it ,

Virat said things should be changed in d household .

I can with guarantee say that if not sai if any other girl also would had married virat then also he would had taken stand for his wife .

I will not deny sai do play role of catalyst for virat to learn truth of Cgang reality in some cases I will not deprive sai from her credit & yes I accept sai had brought some changes but some r virat had done himself .

But currently even sai herself is not playing any role for virat coz she is kidnappinghiding truth from virat coz of pulkit she earlier was ready & I m failing to understand that.

Regarding devi tai it raise question why devi trust virat it's not only coz of sibling love what made her trust virat.

Mohit 2 is devi' brother but still she dont share d same equation with Mohit uska kuch to reason hoga.

No ,no ,I agree with you fruity ,that is why I said, Virat does sense the locha surrounding in his house, he is not blind here,but yes ,maybe work and with such elders it goes unnoticed or suppressed, but he is putting it into words now ,that's it. As in ,maybe he gets a bit inspired by Sai as she is muh phat and he is speaking up now.

thanks for tagging me dear!!! I was sleeping and the forum was the first place I came! Lol

I do feel both bring out the best in each other...

Its not just sai but even virat brining out the best in Sai...

That is what makes Sairat special.. they are flawed but they compliment each other beautifully! they don't try and change each other or force each other to do something... its more organic they themselves want to change to be better for the other.

I feel sai makes him see the situation in his house see with new set of eyes with different light .... Before that somewhere Kaku used to manipulate things as if everything was done for their own good and everyone is silent because of her in a way showing their acceptance including Devi... Remember In starting episodes Devi used to go inside immediately when Kaku asks her to do so... But sai entered the house, people became vocal about their suffering which is giving new light on situation... And Jo bhi kaho... Virat always stand by right once he got to know who is right...

Actually I felt angry at virat .. today he’s coming and becoming self righteous.. where was he when devi Tai was repeatedly locked up in room ..

why should devi Tai believe in him when he has done nothing for her .. in his capacity

Though I am not an expert, but Thank you for the tag dear!🤗

I always stan couples who bring the best in each other, yet don't shy away from discussing their worst fears with each other! SaiRat is this for me!

Not just Sai, I feel that even Virat did bring the best out of Sai❤️

I am not so good at words but I will try to put my POV :)

Like you said, I think he never actually thought of what's happening behind his back(sometimes in front of him) in that Niwas. I guess as a kid or while growing up, he did sense that something is not right with his aayi-baba and it's not so hard to see how his aayi is been treated by the so called elders. The negativity is oh so visible but is covered up by purane khayalat. However, he did try to handle it(the initial episode when he got his posting-how he handled aayi and kaku❤️)

But I think when Sai takes stand and speaks up, he get to see things from the POV of a third person(as in someone who has not seen this all the while). He even supporting her multiple times. This actually brings out the things that he has been pushing aside for so long!

Likewise, I feel that Sai learnt to give it back to the elders without disrespecting them. I feel that this is because of Virat.

I also think this is more to do with the connection these two share since the beginning❤️ Virat always does things for Sai which otherwise he couldn't have done. This is why the episode where Virat meets Sai disguised as a dhood wala is one of my favorite scenes!

and yes, these two always trigger each other😆

"Tumhaare dil mein pyar hai sabke liye" Virat told her the first night, they spent together. One thing that attracted him towards Sai. Virat is also one like this, has love for all. What lacked in Virat or how was Virat any different from Sai?

Virat is a soft spoken person, kind at heart, a person who works towards achieving peace and a person who likes to maintain peace.

Virat's words for Sai.

"Tum na kisi ke saath galat karti ho na kisi ke saath galat hote hue dekh sakthi ho".

Virat wouldn't do injustice to anyone, could have done it unintentionally, but can never do it knowingly. This is the first part of the above statement. But, what about the second part?

Galat hote hue dekhna? Virat can do it and that is the difference, dekhke andekha karna.

He can ignore some things, which, when objected would disrupt normalcy in the family, disrupt the peace. He prefers to stay quiet many times, even when something is going wrong, prefers to not raise voice against it, to stall issues or turn blind to a few things that are not right. Wrong is wrong, small or big. To him, if it can be tolerated, he would or would let his Aai to too. He would let go of things which are not too harmful. He chooses to act on issues depending on the magnitude of it.

He is a very patient person, has tolerance, withstanding abilities "sehenshakti". Why wouldn't he? His Aai is like that, who has tolerated many wrong doings. There is a saying, one who lets people to continue to do something wrong also has a hand in that wrong. One shouldn't tolerate atrocities subjected on them. If they do, they are equally wrong.

Tolerance, what does it mean? The ability or willingness to tolerate the existence of opinions or behaviour that one dislikes or disagrees with. (Ref: dictionary)

Not all issues have to be refuted, fought against or rebelled.

Tolerance doesn't mean tolerate wrongdoings, doesn't mean turn blind to it. Many in CN are conditioned to tolerate wrongdoings including Virat, especially when something wrong is happening within his house. As I have said, he choose to ignore or act depending upon the magnitude of the issue.

Sai might be arrogant, rude, impulsive, not well behaved at all times, chooses to refute or fight back or rebel even for not too big issues that can be ignored, that can be handled tactfully, that ca be dealt with a calm mind. However Sai, if conditioned, if taught, can learn not to do these, over a period of time with a proper guidance.

But there is one trait that cannot be changed in Sai, what she can develop is tolerance but she can never tolerate any wrong doings. Small or big, if it is wrong, she will raise voice against it, fight against it and if needed would rebel too and will do it always.

This quality in a person can be an inspiration to others and here it is for Virat. Though he has the ability to raise voice against wrong doings, however small the mistake is, he would choose to maintain or achieve peace. Virat is impressed with this quality in Sai.

The first line that I have mentioned is like a fundamental thing because both of their heart is at the right place, love for all, he also cannot do any injustice to anyone, but the other part which is making him incomplete in a way is

"na hi kisike saath galat hote hue dekh sakthi ho". That gap is filled due to the presence of Sai in his life. It is not only this, there are various other emotions that she brings out of him. He can be himself with her without being judged. There are a lot more emotions buried within him, lot of other good qualities and they come out because of Sai.

Sai might learn a few things from him, she is not there yet, is in progress, she will have to work on many things, she is not as experienced as Virat in life, wasn't born and brought up in a house like Virat's. Absorbing all the changes will or has taken time for her. Hence to bring in changes within her, based on the exposure she has got after marrying Virat, is taking time.

Whereas for Virat, he had many qualities already in place due to his Aai, his house, his family, his age, experience and exposure. I an going to talk about one of the few things, that lacked in him, in this post. It was to ensure to stand up for right always, to fight back against wrong, however small it is.

Fight back doesn't mean literally fighting, standing up against it , raising voice against it is enough. And this quality as I have mentioned above, Virat has been absorbing from Sai.

"Kharbooje ko dekhkar kharbooja rang badalta hai" Bua's words.

Bua was shocked when Virat supported Sai by speaking against his Dad, asking him to let Sai handle Devi, when Devi threw a doll saying the doll was her pati.

Bua was shocked and surprised when Virat supported his Aai on the day everyone kept looking for where Sai was (she had been to Pakhi's house). She shared with Ashwini that Virat supported her and spoke against his Dad who spoke ill about Ashwini. Changes started to develop within Virat slowly after Sai entered his life.

He started to put forth his views, raise objections when things went wrong, stop people bad mouthing his Aai, started to fight for what is right, rebelled to bring in changes in the house by supporting Sai in her education, standing up for Shivani Bua or Mohit or Sai.

This is the same person who has never or hardly ever raised voice against his Dad or Kaku. He might have stood for what is right, but might not have fought against what was going wrong, not always.

One can question if only Sai can bring in this quality within him. Not all girls are Sai.

There are people who are good at heart, have love for all but would like to mind their own business, would like to do what is good for them and not do anything that would jeopardize their position in an inlaws house. They would act conscious and always be careful that they do not fall into problems while doing something right or while standing up against that is wrong.

This is where Sai stands out.

Sai's actions, her goodness, her nature to stand against anything wrong with no fear reminds me of a few lines from the famous poet Mahakavi Bharathiyar. Below is the translation of the poem and not the actual poem. I have mentioned where and how she is wrong above, all she needs to do is work on them, bring in those changes within her and correct herself.

Fear I have not , fear I have not,

Even if all the world opposes me,

Fear I have not, fear I have not,

Even if they judge me as the worst,

And tell things bad about me,

Fear I have not, Fear I have not,

Even if I am fated to live by begging,

Fear I have not, Fear I have not,

Even if I loose all my wealth due to desires,

Fear I have not, fear I have not.

The original lines from the regional language :

அச்சமில்லை அச்சமில்லை அச்சமென்ப தில்லையே

இச்சகத்து ளோரெலாம் எதிர்த்து நின்ற போதினும்,

அச்சமில்லை அச்சமில்லை அச்சமென்பதில்லையே

துச்சமாக எண்ணி நம்மைச் தூறுசெய்த போதினும்

அச்சமில்லை அச்சமில்லை அச்சமென்ப தில்லையே

பிச்சை வாங்கி உண்ணும் வாழ்க்கை பெற்று விட்ட போதிலும்

அச்சமில்லை அச்சமில்லை அச்சமென்ப தில்லையே

இச்சைகொண்டே பொருளெலாம் இழந்துவிட்ட போதிலும்,

அச்சமில்லை அச்சமில்லை அச்சமென்ப தில்லையே

Sorry about the long post. Sorry that I couldn't reply on the same day that you had posted.