Pagdandiya ki Aafat - Page 8

Originally posted by: AreYaar

The "Pagdandiya ki Aafat" moment😆

This was hilarious. Instead of typical hero being mesmerized by seeing his heroine in candle light our BS got scared 🤣. The way that these 2 manage to have light hearted bickering after emotionally draining discussions is ❤️.

Imlie asking him if she is 'bargat ke ped ki chudail' for him to get scared & his quick rejoinder that she is 'pagdandiya ki aafat' was rofl😆. Imlie's look after that was meme worthy😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Caps on the second scene😆

It almost felt like his mischief mode got activated cuz he took it as a challenge when Imlie said she's leaving....and Imlie ne bhi full biwi waale gusse mein DIKHAA ke bola ki main JAA rahi hoon😆

Once again amazed how these 2 quickly transition from bickering to flirting in 2 secs. Imlie telling him that she will leave in a typical gussa biwi mode & BS immediately stopping her from leaving with his flirty ' hum andhere se dar gaye toh' & going close to her to fluster her was 😆. He knows she is affected by him & uses it to stop her from leaving.

The way he was watching her after she sat down is really the cutest part of this scene to me😆....and Imlie with that little shy smile on her face while sneaking surreptitious glances at him too😆

I liked how he made her sit beside him on the bed. This is level up from him allowing her to enter his room to now being comfortable & wanting her to be more close to him as a partner.

Imlie also just sits with him as if it is no big deal😆. So however much she wants to sacrifice, she still can't control her own feelings for Adi as well. Him looking at her sitting besides him was too cute. Talking with her, holding her hand, is just too natural for them.

Then Adi quickly changes the topic to why she was crying listening to Rupi Di's song & Imlie candidly confessing that Adi is the sun in her life was . But then her telling him that now he needs to set in her life again irritated him & pat came the rejoinder "toh kya hum soon Jaye". She replies that no. The sun never sets but needs to brighten up the life of someone else pachkoed Adi's face😆.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

This was hilarious. Instead of typical hero being mesmerized by seeing his heroine in candle light our BS got scared 🤣. The way that these 2 manage to have light hearted bickering after emotionally draining discussions is ❤️.

Imlie asking him if she is 'bargat ke ped ki chudail' for him to get scared & his quick rejoinder that she is 'pagdandiya ki aafat' was rofl😆. Imlie's look after that was meme worthy😆.

Bargad ke ped ki chudail is so freaking hilarious but so relatable too caz we all.have heard those stories from.our ancestors 😆 hahaha at adi ka retort ke bas ped hi ki kami hai baaki toh sab tha I her draaaoing her and catching him offguard 😆

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I love how they both know that they are in love with each other but still struggling with actually admitting openly. Adi is ready to declare his own feelings as well as hers😆. Itna confidence😎😆. But Imlie is currently opposing him for Malini's happiness & both are unhappy with not being able to enjoy their own love. So just concluding the discussion with Adi's sarcastic "chai pee lete hai"😆.

And that makes their relationship rather beautiful thag they don't need to say it.. I hate the typical I love yours I'd rather them understand like this...waise bhi I like it better in hindi or urdu then the cheesy I love you haha .. just a personal preference. So.when adi asks her tum humse ouar nahi karti and she shuses him or when he says about hum tumse and she shuses it I find it so much more meaningful mere dil ko woh zyada lagta hai and impact zyada aata hai

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

this continuation *sigh* 😭🥺 one can see how visibly hurt they are even if they both are pretending to go along with the flow the pareshaani the restlessness the uncertainty woh gham taking over eating them pretty much no matter how much they try to sort and find happiness for all.. yet they are surviving sailing through caz they have each other.. I esp.liked the last few caps where they aren't even looking at each other yet are the silent support system for the other just the pillar to lean on just enough support to hold the other from bikhrooing and that is all that they need .. bas itna sa saath while.they go and take upon the storm.

Meant to reply to this kal, but getting to it now....Word on the bold.

Which brings me to another notable contrast....Adi-Imlie, even after disagreeing many times on various things, never come across as being distant from each other. As you pointed out here too, they are not even looking at each other in the end, they are looking in opposite directions but one never gets the sense ki inke rishte mein doori aa gayi hai simply cuz they are disagreeing or at a stalemate.....there is a togetherness even if they don't agree.

What a stark contrast to Adi-Malini where every disagreement is treated like it's the end of the world, "Aap mujhse door jaa rahe hain" is the instant conclusion to jump to any time there is an argument.....as if without agreement on every topic, there can't be any togetherness.

This is why Adi-Imlie are what they are.....they are in sync even when they are not in agreement😊.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

For adi his relationship is Done and Dusted and ab bas ek paper pe hi hai I.e if It was registreed in first place.. He seems to have said it a pakka Bye in his head.. deapite imlie ke various efforts he just can't acknowledge it for token sake too ke abhi divorce nahi hua way main bhi nahi kar paa raha yeh acknowledge... DId anyoen else notice how this time all his COurtesy that he usually showed to Chaturvedis was out of the window usually thoda bohat token lihaaz kar leta tha but iss tiem it was on another level of ho gaya chalein ab.. i can't be bothered..

He's making it VERY obvious 😆.....if only the Ts and Cs CARED to notice😆.....but I guess Adi ki general garam khopdi reputation makes them think ki yeh bas apna usual khadoosness dikha raha hai, aur kuch nahin😆

@Pam: Yeah, that's what I meant too....ki Adi itna directly is saying things like you can't turn back the wheel of time and make things like they were before....but aage se Ts ka koi khaas reaction hi nahin aata....lol they've given up even asking him where he was those 4 days....maybe they think Malini came back home means that issue got resolved....lol but they can see right in front of their eyes, the tension and arguments b/w AM....phir bhi deliberate blindness rakhni hai😆.....all they do is guilt trip Adi ki tum theek se baat nahin kar rahe Malini se rather than trying to ask him on their own ki kya baat hai, where were you those 4 days, what are you feeling?

Originally posted by: Lodestar

He is already behaving carelessly in front of others doing the bare minimum to keep off the suspicions from rising because he actually doesn't care if the truth does come out😎😆. He is ready for the truth to come out, face the consequences, so he can move forward with Imlie in his life. But he also wants Imlie to be ready for the consequences. Because if she is not ready even to admit that she actually wants to be with him despite the consequences that they would face, then she would be ready to easily sacrifice when they will face the pressure from Malini, Tripathis & Chaturvedis. Hence his attempts to samjhao her & get her on the same side of the argument as his own.

But now with Malini asking him for a baby, BS's already abysmal level of patience is going to evaporate rapidly & he is going to go full nuclear. He will blast on Malini for sure, but he will not listen to Imlie at all. He is going to do something reckless & force the truth to come out. Fun times are ahead for us watching BS phailaoing more raita in order to sameto the current raita😆.

@bold: Yep, that's definitely what it looks like for now. He's ready to face the truth and its consequences but he also wants Imlie to be on the same page with him so that they can face those consequences together. Imliya however can't let go of her basic sacrificial nature so easily....so tough times ahead for Babusahib on that front😆.

Speaking of his carelessness, lol waise room ka door was open and anyone could have walked in to see Adi-Imlie sitting and chatting on the bed....but neither of them thought about that, because once again....jab mann saaf ho, toh first thought mein kuch chhupaane ka occur nahin karta. Adi wanted to stop her from leaving, wanted to spend time with her, so he did what he wanted to and made her sit beside him....Imlie also sat down despite all her other conflicted emotions...because she wants to be with him. Us moment mein dono ne nahin socha what they will say if someone comes across them....lol....in the moment, they just gave in to the need for each other's company, the need to talk to each other.

Re: recklessness.....lol yeah ab toh woh default hai with Adi....he's likely going to get more reckless in other ways too as we are seeing with this upcoming sindoor incident....he's just determined to express to Imlie that she has the only right on him as a wife now. Meanwhile if Malini makes the demand for a baby, it may serve as the second stage of reality check for Adi just like this hug incident....like he used this incident to clarify to Imlie that there's nothing b/w him and Malini anymore, the baby demand will push him further into the stance that only Imlie has any such rights on him and he cannot give Malini anything that a wife expects.

I am sorry if I am asking the wrong question in the wrong thread and you can PM me if you want it to be removed but I really want to know your thoughts on “Aditya should tell the truth” statement that people keep making

Isn’t that a given from day one? We know that and nobody is denying this fact that he needs to tell the truth. But the show is all about how a truthful person is being truthful without telling the whole truth. Or have I got it all wrong? Its not that he does not want to tell the truth or he is keeping it hidden purposely so that he can have one woman on the side. He is pretty clear that he needs to tell the truth but its the circumstances, Malini herself, her past attitude that are stopping him from doing it. Isn’t the current track all about his truth and his kashmakash of not being able to tell it? And after telling the truth, main theme of the show is done and then what is purpose of this show?

Other thing is why is the truth after the PD track only Aditya’s responsibility. Isn’t it Malini’s too being the modern “aaj ki” woman that she is? Or are we supposed to consider her “humari beech ki dooriyan” as a valid question? Or her playing games and hiding things valid ways of saving marriage? Sorry to say but I really need more than that to put the whole blame on Aditya’s doorstep for the present state of their relationship. Again, not denying that Aditya needs to tell the truth and he is the only one to be blamed for the current mess but other than this fact, is there any reason why Malini should be consider a saint or victim for the current circumstances of their relationship especially after the PD track.

A thought worth pondering on.....if you don't claim your haq in time, does that mean your haq is gone forever?

Imlie is Adi's wife....she married him with all proper rituals in front of many witnesses. She had full rights on him as a wife but she hasn't claimed them yet....does that mean those rights are fully gone since he married Malini?

Is the logic here that all rights of a wife have automatically transferred to Malini for good and Imlie no longer has any rights as Adi's wife? So her spending any time with him anywhere is "gross"? 😆......I guess it really is very hard for people to process anything that doesn't come in the straightforward package of "This is wife, this is ex wife, this is girlfriend"😆.

Kaash Adi-Imlie would make it easier on everyone by being robots who don't feel anything until they get the "social sanction" to feel it.....despite the fact that they are married😆.

Originally posted by: pamk06

I am sorry if I am asking the wrong question in the wrong thread and you can PM me if you want it to be removed but I really want to know your thoughts on “Aditya should tell the truth” statement that people keep making

Isn’t that a given from day one? We know that and nobody is denying this fact that he needs to tell the truth. But the show is all about how a truthful person is being truthful without telling the whole truth. Or have I got it all wrong? Its not that he does not want to tell the truth or he is keeping it hidden purposely so that he can have one woman on the side. He is pretty clear that he needs to tell the truth but its the circumstances, Malini herself, her past attitude that are stopping him from doing it. Isn’t the current track all about his truth and his kashmakash of not being able to tell it? And after telling the truth and show is done and then what is purpose if this show?

Other thing is why is the truth after the PD track only Aditya’s responsibility. Isn’t it Malini’s too being the modern “aaj ki” woman that she is? Or are we supposed to consider her “humari beech ki dooriyan” as a valid question? Or her playing games and hiding things valid ways of saving marriage? Sorry to say but I really need more than that to put the whole blame on Aditya’s doorstep for the present state of their relationship. Again, not denying that Aditya needs to tell the truth and he the only one to be blamed for the current mess but other than this fact is there any reason why Malini should be consider a saint or victim for the current circumstances especially after the PD track.

LOL no, not the wrong question at all. I'm finding it quite amusing to see the tide turning since the last few days with how uncomfortable people have suddenly gotten simply cuz Adi is expressing his emotions for Imlie😆......it's interesting to view vis a vis the impact of psychological conditioning.

People want clear solutions basically.....lol and woh nahin mil rahi toh Adi is being made the scapegoat😆. Sabko chahiye ki woh aaraam se "guilt free" Adi-Imlie ka "romance" enjoy kar sakein....but kambakht Adi-Imlie and their complicated lives....they aren't making it easy 😆.

If anyone actually bothered watching the storyline dhang se than fixating on "OMG, Adi-Imlie had a scene in candlelight, OMG Adi brought balloons for Imlie"😆, they'd see that Adi is constantly stating the clear need to state the truth and is trying whenever he can to bring it out.....he is not leading Malini on, he has stepped back from her and is constantly trying to figure out a solution with Imlie. The truth by this stage is even harder to reveal.....no one denies that is the one solution to resolve all of this....but just cuz characters struggle to reveal the truth doesn't make their emotions "gross".

People for some reason want to twist this into claiming that Adi-Imlie are deliberately "cheating" Malini as if they are both enjoying sneaking around behind her back. I find it strange that people expect Adi to behave like a robot who will not express any emotions for Imlie until everything is cleared up.....they are both in a very bizarre situation but they are not cheaters....they are both struggling with not wanting to hurt someone and wanting to reveal the truth....but at the same time, they are married (married first btw), they are in love with each other....why will they not express those emotions too at the bare minimum?

And let's talk about the truth....there isn't only just ONE truth in play here. The first truth is the truth of Adi-Imlie's marriage....which ofcourse is the biggest base point for the storyline. The other big truth is the truth of Adi himself....the man who has discovered for the first time in his life what HE actually is....what HE actually wants from his life. So if people talk about the truth, why be so selective? If Adi is expressing his truth to himself, to Imlie.....how is that the wrong thing and only other truths are right?

Again, no one is saying that Malini doesn't deserve to know the truth.....but at the same time, this presumption that Adi isn't trying to tell the truth, isn't trying to figure a way out is also faulty. And yes, Malini is not in some vacuum here....she herself isn't really trying to get to the truth, but hiding behind these lame games and guilt trips. So all the characters are contributing to the delay in the truth coming out.....yet somehow only Adi-Imlie are being considered the "cheaters" cuz how dare they express their emotions without resolving the Malini issue.😆

As I said, ultimately everyone wants to feel comfortable watching vanilla "romance"😆....but Adi-Imlie are not a typical comfortable journey.....their beauty lies in how they manage to have a purity about them even in the midst of such uncomfortable complications. I don't personally get the outrage over their recent scenes, but hey that's just me *shrugs*.....lol I'm finding it fascinating how they are navigating these complex emotions and so far the makers are still balancing it well despite how people want to mislabel these recent scenes😆.