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Posted: 4 years ago
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So!!!


I agree that Pulkit is spineless but but but....


He is 10000000000000 times better for Devi tai than her family... We can all argue that family is family and all but the fact is that sometimes family is worse for us than someone else. Her family is toxic for her and that is the truth..


Tai deserves a fair chance at being happy... just look at the way her face lit up seeing the decorations, and more importantly knowing her child is ALIVE!


Honestly, even though Sai broke Virat's trust I am not upset you know why..

because she sees Tai as a human and not her illness... she is the only one who considered what tai said about being married and having a child. Everyone else brushed it off saying yeh toh kuch bhi bolti hai...



A person has been wronged by her entire family... yes entire!


Fight me on this but it doesn't change the fact that VIRAT, AAI, SHIVANI BUA, MOHIT etc all believed kaku's story... no one ever tried to dig deeper...

No one ever tried to make sure that tai is getting the proper treatment despite tai verbally saying how her aai is bad....


Why does one always be defined by their mental illness, why do we reduce a person to the cpability of their brain... Would we do the same if she was missing a limb!?


Time and again Tai has said clearly that ninad kaka, omi kaka, and my gandi aai will do something to me... that is not delusion, that is fear...

She has been a victim of honor killing (they didn't kill her physically but killed her mentally)


Tai has been tortured and she DESERVES happiness...


Sai understands the consequences of her decision. But for her Tai's safety matters more.

You might counter by saying why couldn't she wait for Virat to reinvestigate, I would have agreed to this if the kidnapping had not taken place... She sees what kaku is capable of... She has no proof and knows virat will not believe her. She also knows kaku is capable of pitting it all on her as she did when sai wasn't able to find Pulkit... they blamed her for Tai's condition....



Sai genuinely cares about TAI and for her is tai's safety is being with pulkit then that is what is right...


Tai has a fair chance now to become better, she has a fair chance to go to a doctor and heal herself, try to get back those 10 years of her life that were ruined, reunite with her daughter who was taken away.


Staying in chavan Niwas she will never get the help she needs... Kaku will never let that happen...



So for Sai putting her own relationship at stake for the sake of Tai's happiness is the right move... She did something that many can't...


I might not like pulkit for putting the onus on SAI but he too has suffered enough... If I were in his shoes I would probably react in a similar manner especially after being kidnapped...

Though I still feel Pulkit should have gone to Virat but again, and this is the truth, Virat turns a blind eye towards what his family says.... Even during alta track when kaku started off that sai didn't put alta he was ready to give it off to her without listening to her side...

Both virat and Sai are flawed but the difference here is Sai is thinking about TAI and her happiness, which was evident in today's episode. The smile and happiness on tai's face was heartwarming yet heartbreaking.



I will say it again, your mental illness doesn't define you and it surely doesn't define Tai... she is being given medications by her own mother who does not want her to get fine because she knows if tai recovers she will expose them and speak up against them!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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If we are considering Pulkit for devyani, then yes, he is not spineless. He waited for her and accepting her with open arms, with same or let's say even more love. I just have a problem that he could be a game changer for Sairat if he reveals the truth. But, as he is bearing all but not ready to take action, and knowingly or unknowingly he is sacrificing Sairat for a few days, but still, just disappoints me a bit, maybe I took the shiv tandav bgm a bit too seriously I guess. 

Loved the post by the way💕

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

If we are considering Pulkit for devyani, then yes, he is not spineless. He waited for her and accepting her with open arms, with same or let's say even more love. I just have a problem that he could be a game changer for Sairat if he reveals the truth. But, as he is bearing all but not ready to take action, and knowingly or unknowingly he is sacrificing Sairat for a few days, but still, just disappoints me a bit, maybe I took the shiv tandav bgm a bit too seriously I guess. 

Loved the post by the way💕


see i understand the it will affect sairat relationship...


but there is no relationship without trust and both sai and virat need to learn that... this will be their learning lesson.... it will only make the relationship stronger and them grow closer.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Totally agree with you about the entire family who wronged her. Even if they believed Kaku's story, why didn't they try to make Devi become normal again. I have seen no efforts from Virat to get help for her or talk to the doctors.


When he came to know that Devi was wronged by his family and she had a dream of a big wedding even then his family was more important than his sister's happiness. If you can't organize a big wedding at home than do elsewhere. Sai was right. He treated his sister like a sauteli behen.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Interesting to see the whole scenario from a different perspective😏(I don't know why I put that smirking emoji 🙄) Very convincing👍🏼 Liked the way you took things into consideration.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I was the one thanking Pulkit with separate post for not ruining Sairat holi 😉

jokes apart... i do agree, how much ever we complain about him for not standing up for himself and putting everything on Sai's head,,, if we keep that aside, he truly loves Devi and he did't moved on in this 10 years and doing everything as per her wishes now... no doubt he will keep her happy and take care of her and will also brings all the happiness she deserved.. it will be so good to see Devi being happy over there with no restrictions and living like others.. i liked how Madhuri gave Devi the positive vibe after she been introduced to her... So now Devi got her own family back ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Pulkit is a good guy but its sad that he is alloeing Sairat relationship to be destroyed for his n devis sake. Sai has done so much for him so when he can see that virat is against his marriage with devi, shouldn't it be pulkits responsibility to prove himself innocent. He has all these connections so it cant be that hard! Poor Sai is bearing the brunt.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Totally agree with you about the entire family who wronged her. Even if they believed Kaku's story, why didn't they try to make Devi become normal again. I have seen no efforts from Virat to get help for her or talk to the doctors.


When he came to know that Devi was wronged by his family and she had a dream of a big wedding even then his family was more important than his sister's happiness. If you can't organize a big wedding at home than do elsewhere. Sai was right. He treated his sister like a sauteli behen.


yep... even when sai asked him if he didn't feel the need to dig deeper he brushed it off by saying chodo past ki baatein... your sister has been wronged and you don't want to know the entire truth...

the sangeeta deshpande letter was another incident, why could he have not gone and asked pulkit the truth!


even courts hear both sides before coming to a conclusion and passing a judgment....

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I loved the shots today of Pulkit - Madhuri - Devi - Sai standing together at the wedding.


They looked like a family - and by family I mean a real family who truly do love each other and care for each other, not like the Chavans who are a joke of a family 😡

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Svt611

So!!!


I agree that Pulkit is spineless but but but....


He is 10000000000000 times better for Devi tai than her family... We can all argue that family is family and all but the fact is that sometimes family is worse for us than someone else. Her family is toxic for her and that is the truth..


Tai deserves a fair chance at being happy... just look at the way her face lit up seeing the decorations, and more importantly knowing her child is ALIVE!


Honestly, even though Sai broke Virat's trust I am not upset you know why..

because she sees Tai as a human and not her illness... she is the only one who considered what tai said about being married and having a child. Everyone else brushed it off saying yeh toh kuch bhi bolti hai...



A person has been wronged by her entire family... yes entire!


Fight me on this but it doesn't change the fact that VIRAT, AAI, SHIVANI BUA, MOHIT etc all believed kaku's story... no one ever tried to dig deeper...

No one ever tried to make sure that tai is getting the proper treatment despite tai verbally saying how her aai is bad....


Why does one always be defined by their mental illness, why do we reduce a person to the cpability of their brain... Would we do the same if she was missing a limb!?


Time and again Tai has said clearly that ninad kaka, omi kaka, and my gandi aai will do something to me... that is not delusion, that is fear...

She has been a victim of honor killing (they didn't kill her physically but killed her mentally)


Tai has been tortured and she DESERVES happiness...


Sai understands the consequences of her decision. But for her Tai's safety matters more.

You might counter by saying why couldn't she wait for Virat to reinvestigate, I would have agreed to this if the kidnapping had not taken place... She sees what kaku is capable of... She has no proof and knows virat will not believe her. She also knows kaku is capable of pitting it all on her as she did when sai wasn't able to find Pulkit... they blamed her for Tai's condition....



Sai genuinely cares about TAI and for her is tai's safety is being with pulkit then that is what is right...


Tai has a fair chance now to become better, she has a fair chance to go to a doctor and heal herself, try to get back those 10 years of her life that were ruined, reunite with her daughter who was taken away.


Staying in chavan Niwas she will never get the help she needs... Kaku will never let that happen...



So for Sai putting her own relationship at stake for the sake of Tai's happiness is the right move... She did something that many can't...


I might not like pulkit for putting the onus on SAI but he too has suffered enough... If I were in his shoes I would probably react in a similar manner especially after being kidnapped...

Though I still feel Pulkit should have gone to Virat but again, and this is the truth, Virat turns a blind eye towards what his family says.... Even during alta track when kaku started off that sai didn't put alta he was ready to give it off to her without listening to her side...

Both virat and Sai are flawed but the difference here is Sai is thinking about TAI and her happiness, which was evident in today's episode. The smile and happiness on tai's face was heartwarming yet heartbreaking.



I will say it again, your mental illness doesn't define you and it surely doesn't define Tai... she is being given medications by her own mother who does not want her to get fine because she knows if tai recovers she will expose them and speak up against them!


You are right siya, and yes for tai's sake this would be small price, she deserves happiness, but this could be done in a different manner, if looking at the benefits they are lot and soon we shall see the same

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