Originally posted by: Indira12
I guess we won't get any clarification scene for those love confession scenes. Rachna's interview might be a indirect statement from the makers. But what amuses me is the fact that makers find nothing wrong with Ani's actions. If Ani was to fall for Manorama why did they show scenes in the beginning that conveyed a different message - like Mini's diya getting burned by Bon's one, Ani's temper getting controlled only by his 'wife' Bon, etc? There are a hundred scenes and ITV cliches till now that projects the idea of Ani-Bon being together in the end. Then why showing Ani's REAL love for someone else? Or do the makers plan to ultimately bring Rudhita as the end-game? Cause if that's the case it will be extremely gross after all this drama.
Even if they wanted to show a different side of Ani, why preaching 'pehli nazar mei zindagi bhar ka pyaar'? They are literally glamorizing the idea of love at first sight, which is nothing but a bluff. If they made Ani's 'love story' a little believable, people won't have have this much problem. But the chose to show all the ACTUAL consequences of love with Bon, but 'falling in love' with Manorama. The problem is not Ani falling for someone else, the problem is with the WAY Ani fell for someone else.
Ani's falling in love is wrong because he already loves Bon (that's what we were shown). But if we ignore the fact and consider it just as our misconception for some time, then too the whole process and execution is wrong. Him falling in love with a lady he JUST met is not really a nice thing for a character like ARC. Someone please say this to Rachana and the makers that fans do not dislike her and Ani's story because they love Rudhita. It is because of this fact that we were made to believe something else and were shown something else, out of blue. Plus, the way it was shown was very unconvincing which adds to the disappointment. If they really wanted to do something like this, they should have shown it in a much more believable way.
If Manorama is the kind of girl Anirudh has dreamt of, then what was there for Mini? Not for once did makers show Ani's monologue regarding her feelings for Mini after she got exposed. Very cleverly they sidelined that. If they were so keen on showing the likes and desires of Ani, why did they removed the character of Saudamini in the first place? Cause honestly, Mini's character and Ani's (whatever) feelings for her were quite justified, much more than this newly found love interest.
In the beginning they showed Ani having feelings for Mini because of a image he had about her in his mind. Now Ani loves Mano because of her bravery. Why does Ani always need a reason for love? Love does not need a reason. Yes he can like her for her bravery but cannot love her. There is a difference between like and love. But makers obviously cannot differentiate between those things and are hell-bent on showing a hundred reasons for Ani's so called 'love'. What if Mano becomes dull? What if she forgets her mission and becomes a wife and bahu? What if her bravery gets dim? Won't Ani love her? Will he leave her just like he left Mini after her real face came in front of him? Am sorry but that purely directs to the fact that Ani's love is shallow cause it is based on certain 'factors' and when those factors go away, his 'love' too diminishes.
Anirudh is young and can have feelings for love in him. Agreed. Then why is it wrong for Bon? Because Bon is a kid and therefore should not meddle with these feelings? Then it wrong for Ani too because he is married. Yes, what Ani feels is natural and cannot be controlled. But isn't that the case with Bon too? Bon's reaction is natural too as she too is having adolescent changes. Plus Bon is doing her studies too. She could have been explained about what exactly was wrong with her actions but there was no as such 'serious reason' as to why Ani needed a second marriage to make Bon realize.
But no, Ani's feelings are justified and Bon is the one committing a crime. Was Bon really this? She was so upset when she got the news of Ani-Mini's marriage. She literally fell unconscious after witnessing such a traumatic experience on the wedding day of Ani-Mano. And the next day she behaves completely normal? If young kids like Bon are made to go through such torture, there are such drastic changes in their behaviour. Do the makers even have an ounce of idea about mental injury or mental trauma? Just using fancy ideas like 'reverse psychology' in their tracks does not do the the work. Bon's character is literally forced to make it look like she has accepted Mano as choti patni and does tricks to oust her from the house. Why so much of change in Bon's character? So that Ani's actions are justified. A kid-like jealousy can be understood but Bon is not like the kids of her age. She was shown to be different. She was shown to have a maturity way beyond her age that was very relevant during Munshi track and Sampoorna's track. Now Bon is being made to behave like a NORMAL child whose actions are solely based on jealousy so that makers can portray that whatever Ani did was right.
If Bon's idea of love is wrong, Ani's one is wrong too. Gaal laal hona, saanse ruk jaana are the symptoms of infatuation and attraction, not love. Makers showed that Bon's cheeks did not turn red because she did not love Ani, but Ani's cheeks turned red because he was in love with Mano. However in both the cases the idea of love was wrong. Love was when Bon's dil ki dhadkaan stopped after she saw Ani injured. But I don't expect makers to show these things in the end because they have decided to show Ani's love as REAL love only. That's what I could infer from the director's captions and Rachana's interview.
I now feel Ani's love confession came because if it would not have happened, then it won't have been termed as a "sacrifice". Makers want to show that Ani is sacrificing because he is not acting upon his feelings for Manorama even when he can because of Bon's ujjwal bhavishya. He could have confessed his love for her but he did not because of ujjwal bahvishya. They want to show how hard it must have been for Ani to stay with Mano and not speak about his feelings for her even when she is front of him, the whole day. So much of a sacrifice for a stranger Bon who has not done a single thing for him, or even if she had, it is nothing in front of what Ani is doing.😭
But if Ani is really in love with Mano and even the makers think it is very much justified, why show Ani saying things like jeene ki wajah for Bon? Why showing Ani imagining dancing with Bon when he is dancing with his love? What sense does it makes? Ani has already got his "ZINDAGI bhaar ka pyaar", he should never ever fall in love with Bon. That would make his already-butchered character go more worse. Just show a headstrong Bon who shows Ani the real meaning of zimmedari.
Makers should come live with fans because after showing so much illogic, the lame excuses they present is so🤬. They should face the fandom's questions. I really want to hear the answer to this!
And no, 'the scenes between Ani and Mano has not been made very subtle because it should not come out so much in the open', but because it would invite troubles for the show and a lot more bashing than now.😊
Sorry for this long bak-bak. I really could not hold myself after reading Rachana's interview. They are putting up so much of invalid things and on the top present these lame justifications for their actions.👎🏼I feel so angry and hurt.😒
you have my heart dear..You just poured out whats in my heart so effortlessly, agree to every single statement
Foced to accept that here Bondita being called 'jeene ka vacha' means the literal meaning of purpose of his life which was directionless in her absence. Not the hyped and the romanticized meaning we attribute to it of how important she is to him. Anirudh the person always needed challenges or 'purpose' to move ahead and anchored in life be it being the gold medalist or being lover boy to childhood love or an aspiring feminist.Bondita is literally that mishal for him. Mini was right "pata nahi kab konsa fitoor chadta hai"..As long as his fitoor was in our favour we cheered..now its in the other gear. Bondita's existence make him feel his existence for a purpose and that actual holi dance with Bondita itself was for what even if on her insistence. The dream of him celebrating holi is actually for the audience (an assurance that rudhita might still have hope,stay here), but still it can be said that man become aadat se machboor..that habit if given up leaves a void for a while and eventually vaccum get filled by other.Ani once had only Bondita trusted him, hear him out and stood with him, now there is a new found comfort zone with Manorama . Here all the 'subtleties' show how it is going to be filled with the other.
Even as the story unfold, I try to reevaluate how I perceived the whole development of their rishta, and if the entire thing was misinterpreted by the shipper mind or not. RTM 21 still could not get a valid reasoning. What ever it may, even if accept everything we felt was dhoka of eyes, the 'exceution' of his new found love was the biggest blunder."The problem is not Ani falling for someone else, the problem is with the WAY Ani fell for someone else. " So damn true if they needed focus shift on Ani's feelings ..there were a hundred other ways. They butchered him brutally.
.And if Bondita's gaal laal was not blush so was Ani's ,his cheeks were painted by the colour of her dupatta not from his inner feelings. So if one portrayed wrong other equally wrong, if one stupid the other equally stupid.
I now feel Ani's love confession came because if it would not have happened, then it won't have been termed as a "sacrifice".
Ani in his senses can only choose the ideal scenario for him, for he believes himself as the personification of his principles. He underplay his emotions, mostly oblivious to his own or misinterpret his feelings to match with his ideology. Ani's so called sacrifice underlined his adherence to his priniciple , remember his bhashan on love and zemmidari , he chose his zemmidari which is 'ideal' for his belief..
Bondita showing the real meaning of zemmidari is my dream, the only way to wake him up from illusions
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