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Posted: 4 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: AreYaar


LOL AC-Adi ka TASHAN at the dining table was next level....aaj mera bheja is too fried toh bas a couple of quick caps hi liye






LOL oh sabse funny was Adi pointedly expressing sabke saamne ki AC respect ke laayak nahin hai🤣....and Didi was acting so shocked like apni maa ke kaand dekhne ke baad and seeing the MANY times Adi has shown his contempt for her, Adi would actually respect her mom kya?😆.....is sabke baad bhi SHE chose to remain in this relationship with him cuz PRESUMPTIONS....presumption khud se ki meri mom bakwaas karti rahegi aur Adi sehta rahega forever.


Kaafi bahu type evil looks dene ke bajaye kuch kiya tho nahi iss musibat ka😆. But kaafi style hai bandhe ka dirty looks dene me bhi.🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: AreYaar


LOL AC-Adi ka TASHAN at the dining table was next level....aaj mera bheja is too fried toh bas a couple of quick caps hi liye






LOL oh sabse funny was Adi pointedly expressing sabke saamne ki AC respect ke laayak nahin hai🤣....and Didi was acting so shocked like apni maa ke kaand dekhne ke baad and seeing the MANY times Adi has shown his contempt for her, Adi would actually respect her mom kya?😆.....is sabke baad bhi SHE chose to remain in this relationship with him cuz PRESUMPTIONS....presumption khud se ki meri mom bakwaas karti rahegi aur Adi sehta rahega forever.


Vijay Dinanath Chauhan....Hain😆


With this pose even I really was thinking k "Baja Baja baja baja dhol baja re"😆 but he went on to satyagraha mode but chale woh bhi kaafi tha 😆


What I was bit disappointed was when Malini was sunaoing itna😭 sara to my birdie🤗he was there chup chaap💔


Now what I am really afraid of and feel after tomorrow's interaction Imaliya would say BS to move on with Malini😭and forget about their relationship💔and also she might try to go back as well or also shift to hostel firse


I don't know how and what BS will do to keep Imaliya with him


Aaj ka fuski bomb dekh k mere ummedon pe thanda pani fir gaya 😆bura wala 😆 mera grey BS dekhne ka Arman 💔


And Imaliya you need to speak for your self 🤗and think as well🤗

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Posted: 4 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I just want to smack the faltu bhashan baaz DC and his Amma roz itne bade bade bakwaas ke bhashan dete hain imlie is like malini yada yada yet they can't be bothered to show basic hospitality and courtesy and woh bai kahan for khana...so.mucb for.mehmaan nawaazi


Dusra now that I have cooled down a bit I am wondering if didi ka extra pathetic behavior and not having a care for her good behavior is result if pandit ji ki prediction that made her extra OTT vile ya it was the suppressed hate for so long

I think it was because Aditya has been making Imlie his center of attention rather than Malini. She is not used to it and inspite of her attempts Aditya has been focused on Imlie for the past few days... she can bear anything but not having his attention, not being his only focus l, she just cannot digest it .... he is her crutch and she can feel him slipping away, hence the whole room drama to get him to that guilt level where he starts doing moon jaap.... She was mad at Imlie because she thought she had almost made a breakthrough but alas sab Mehnat went into water 😆


I really do not know why Dev keeps inviting Imlie if he cannot show her any courtesy or make sure that she is given the respect that he keeps claiming that she should have... at the dining table too, he and amma did not even care that Imlie was not at the table. It’s really a mystery that what are their intentions if they cannot protect or fulfill the claims they keep making. 😡


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamk06

Yes it was me but I have no idea, how are they going end up with balloons after the crapfest of today... I so freaking hope that Adi does not buy them to manao Imlie....today calls for a serious conversation between them without all those unnecessary things and I hope we get that tomm.... but Imlie is going to push him to Mahaan Didiz 😡


You caught up on the episode?


Abhi toh shuru hui hai Imlie ki mahaanta. If he is even unable to get past his own guilt, there is no way he does justice to Imlie. Toh I’m hoping he does some amount of about turn tomorrow. Lekin whatever dard is coming his way, will be well deserved. Khud ki guilt mein aake, how did he overlook how Malini was treating Imlie in that moment? Until his guilt over Imlie does not come back, he will not be the Aditya we want to see unfortunately.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar


@bold: Do you really think that's a misunderstanding?😆.....seems to me like the writers continue to want to show that Malini does indeed love Adi and he's the only culprit in all this cuz he "fell in love with someone else".....lol the need to paint Malini as the bechaari victim in all this is so great that I'm now doubting they will ever show anyone acknowledging that she doesn't really love Adi either....it's emotional co-dependency that is now turning into an unhealthy bitter obsession.


Adi's guilt trips are nothing new.....but today's felt particularly contrived after the way he's been the last few epis.....heck the way he was in just the previous scene not even willing to keep up the appearance of sitting with Malini at the dining table when everyone was asking him....so then that same guy suddenly went so phuss in guilt over this much that all he could do was stand and watch as Malini treated Imlie like a servant? 😆

Agree with you on the over guilt trip of Adi today but the last scene left a distaste in my mouth ,the guy who stood with a talwar in one hand for Imlie suddenly is all quiet when didi decided to insult Imlie over opening the door without knocking.I agree that Imlie was wrong but it's just the way Malini corrected was the problem, you don't talk like that to your choti behen lady, you addressed the issue as if she was your servant. And what happens to Imlie’s pride? this was the same girl who doesn't want to work as a naukarni at Adi’s house but ever since she came back, she went back to her old self and acting like the naukar!There is nothing wrong with being a naukar but Imlie was against being one for the past two weeks so, why is the sudden flip?She was better off at the hostel

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Relax guys. Week mein ek baar Adini writer ka din hota hai jo sabse worst hota hai for Adilie fans. Iss week ka manhoos time chala gaya,get ready to see surprise for the next day.

Earlier CVs tactic was three days Adini,3 days Adilie then it shifts to Five days Adilie remaining one day manhoos diwas for Adilie fans. There is no particular day to stamp inauspicious day but it surely falls in between seven days.

Malini,no black no white. Aaj se we will witness her inherited selfishness, evilness and cunningness traits. Devil mom ki evil beti.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: jj0812

Agree with you on the over guilt trip of Adi today but the last scene left a distaste in my mouth ,the guy who stood with a talwar in one hand for Imlie suddenly is all quiet when didi decided to insult Imlie over opening the door without knocking.I agree that Imlie was wrong but it's just the way Malini corrected was the problem, you don't talk like that to your choti behen lady, you addressed the issue as if she was your servant. And what happens to Imlie’s pride? this was the same girl who doesn't want to work as a naukarni at Adi’s house but ever since she came back, she went back to her old self and acting like the naukar!There is nothing wrong with being a naukar but Imlie was against being one for the past two weeks so, why is the sudden flip?She was better off at the hostel


I will just answer the bold caz that is what I have a concrete answer for..you clearly didn't understood it...it is not matter of pride now it is more a matter of facade and keeping your cover. She cannot blow.it by making adi do special things for her and make adjustments making everyone more attentive..she has herself said it ke even though you want to you can't caz this is the situation we are in.. and also clearly you missed his she is not our servant she stays here with us...it was his roundabout way to get that label.off her and noone objected caz truth hai.. she isn't their servant anymore but she cannot put question marks obviously it is as simple as maintaining status quo

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: jj0812

Agree with you on the over guilt trip of Adi today but the last scene left a distaste in my mouth ,the guy who stood with a talwar in one hand for Imlie suddenly is all quiet when didi decided to insult Imlie over opening the door without knocking.I agree that Imlie was wrong but it's just the way Malini corrected was the problem, you don't talk like that to your choti behen lady, you addressed the issue as if she was your servant. And what happens to Imlie’s pride? this was the same girl who doesn't want to work as a naukarni at Adi’s house but ever since she came back, she went back to her old self and acting like the naukar!There is nothing wrong with being a naukar but Imlie was against being one for the past two weeks so, why is the sudden flip?She was better off at the hostel


@bold: What does this have to do with Imlie's pride? 😆 Aap bhi nahin samjhi Imlie ko phir toh....ek hi toh dhang ki line boli Adi ne last scene mein to speak up for Imlie and woh bhi aap nahin samjhe?😆.....Imlie isn't doing any of these things as a servant....as Adi said in that last bit, she does all these things out of a sense of apnapan and large-heartedness for everyone, but more than ever at C house also cuz she gives Malini that kind of regard that she even gives Malini ki mom all this regard even though the woman mistreats her. That doesn't make Imlie a "servant"....she is just that good a person and when a person who is that good and selfless - doing things for so many people without any expectations.....how can you not help but feel bad for that person being mistreated as she was by Malini today.


So no, I didn't see any flip in Imlie....she is very much herself even now....the reason she went back to her old self at Adi's house was simply to provide a cover to not have the family suspect anything has changed between her and Adi, lest it cause more questions.


Ek toh waise hi bechaari ke saath aaj itna bura hua, upar se log use galat bhi samajh rahe hain.....sad, man😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Yeah I guess we really shouldn't be surprised by HER delusions....but we can't help but be disappointed in Adi also continuing to coddle these delusions even now of how supposedly "perfect" this lady is....if she's so perfect, why do you get so irritated with her so many times, Adi? 😆.....and no, it's not just cuz of Imlie.....what will it take for you to realize Malini never understood you all this while either?


It does not make another person "bad" simply if you acknowledge that that person also played a part in a relationship falling apart. This is what Adi either refuses to see in his own guilt or he can't bear to face cuz it would mean having to face the magnitude of the lie he was living in his life for so long with Malini.

exactly my question.. when is he going to come out of the guilt to see that he alone was not responsible for this relationship... if he was not in love as he is claiming, didn’t Malini never question him about it? I refuse to believe that a woman intuition can be so dormant in someone that she just could not sense his aloofness in their relationship.

I think he needs to start seeing the real Malini, the one that we see with all her insecurity and only then he will realize that their relationship was doomed from the beginning. They were equally responsible for its current state...yes he needs to atone for the lies but also acknowledge the shortcoming of his current relationship.

I think he has acknowledged that he has been lying to himself about his feeling for Malini but his guilt about this very lie is what is making him blind to everything else.

Word on the bold... that going to be another Oh damn moment 😆


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Didi was taunting Imlie for saving Adis life. Like he will do it by himself😆. He just give up on life if she don't acts or she is not around😆

During marriage he wanted to die😆

when Imlie asked y did he saved her If Imlie had died in gun shot he said he would have killed himself😆

When Imlie was in hospital Adini talk. If anything happen to imlie😆

Adi got shot he said to editor it was better he died 😆

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