The two-faced guilt trap - Page 5

Originally posted by: Krantikari

Haan ji.😆

LOL Babusahib tashan thoda zyaada kar liye in the last few days, ab bhukto.😆 If he thought that she wouldn't push back against him after his recent behaviour, then he obviously never understood Malini. I think he has an ideal image of Malini in her mind and that's what he still uses to judge her...like today he called her shaant. Even though otherwise he's probably aware of her clingy nature & need to be coddled, I think he doesn't think she is fundamentally flawed. Toh right now I think that's what is stumping him and throw in his guilt in to the mix and he doesn't know how to deal with her. Babusahib right now is flying in the clouds LOL, he has no awareness of the gravity of the situation that he is in. Nor does he know how to deal with it.

I hope he's going to pushback against Malini's treatment of Imlie soon though, it would be against his character not to.

The main issue is guilt, KK....his own "sin" is so much greater in his eyes that he thinks even acknowledging one flaw in Malini or acknowledging her part in this mess will somehow be "unfair".....lol today also he was saying this only that she is so nice, she never changed, she was always clear about loving him but he was the confused one who didn't understand himself so it's all his fault only.....lol he wants to give her a total free pass as if she was some passive princess that he somehow "tricked" into having a relationship with him for 7 years.....lol

Yeah let's see if he atleast manages to find the guts to stand up for Imlie if Malini treats her like this again.....I'll believe it when I see it😛

@AY indeed I too was disappointed with Adi in the last part.Ek taraf to aap keh rahe ki aap rehna chah rahe Imlie k aas pass to stand to len specifically uske (malini ) saamne jiske saamne lena chahiye to let her know k family hai woh bhi aise kese ap restrict can her n prescribe rules for her to abide by specifically pertaining to ghar walon ki privacy??The taunts of the other person(malini) hurt more when the person(BS)you have hopes from does not protect you right there n instead stands still like a statue even when you are subjected to apologize infront of him !

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I was having a blast with adi's behavior rodl the way he didn't bother to take the gift and riled didi up right away the tripatbis his shaklein banana at chauturcedis maze se leaving the table eye rolls at AC didi ki taraf dekhna bhi nahi in the kitchen convo and when she said I will go eat with who value her him going ok imlie start your food haha or ehen imlie said they are her friend hi being cool just eat then it was zabardast even his cringe at didi toot padhoing on him but then he said the crap.in his head and made me go screw you.. and then the lame imlie pe bakwaas.

He better now do something amazing or am done with him too lol

LOL AC-Adi ka TASHAN at the dining table was next level....aaj mera bheja is too fried toh bas a couple of quick caps hi liye

LOL oh sabse funny was Adi pointedly expressing sabke saamne ki AC respect ke laayak nahin hai🤣....and Didi was acting so shocked like apni maa ke kaand dekhne ke baad and seeing the MANY times Adi has shown his contempt for her, Adi would actually respect her mom kya?😆.....is sabke baad bhi SHE chose to remain in this relationship with him cuz PRESUMPTIONS....presumption khud se ki meri mom bakwaas karti rahegi aur Adi sehta rahega forever.

Adi did take somewhat of a stand today for imlie. It was woefully inadequate, he should have blasted both ac and malini. Sincerely hopes he makes up for having forced imlie to move into his house for his selfish reasons.

Originally posted by: nim_var

+100 bold

I am bracing myself for more of mahaan Malini who becomes abla and lachaar.

Jitna haq se Aparna tells Imlie, she does not have the same haq on her other bahu.. lol

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And I am not gonna lie i hated it.. as much as I love aparna I hated them only schooling imlie as if they don't know who does badtameezi so I liked adi sticking up for her and her too ke hum kya late rehte hain but that was just not necessary today

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL AC-Adi ka TASHAN at the dining table was next level....aaj mera bheja is too fried toh bas a couple of quick caps hi liye

LOL oh sabse funny was Adi pointedly expressing sabke saamne ki AC respect ke laayak nahin hai🤣....and Didi was acting so shocked like apni maa ke kaand dekhne ke baad and seeing the MANY times Adi has shown his contempt for her, Adi would actually respect her mom kya?😆.....is sabke baad bhi SHE chose to remain in this relationship with him cuz PRESUMPTIONS....presumption khud se ki meri mom bakwaas karti rahegi aur Adi sehta rahega forever.

Rofl at her aaj hi isse meri maa main kami dikh rahi hai well didi he ab hi realized how awesome his other Amma is so obviously isse aur his badtameez lagengi tumhari Amma

This was too fun and how he left the table 😆

I would have spammed myself caz I was having a blast with adi ke reactions

But chalo thanks for these hahah they are still so worth it..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Bas wohi dekhna reh gaya hai ab🤣.....Didi cracked the whip and he's ready to jump, haan?😆.....what difference will it make even if Adi confronts Malini after this....he won't be able to rebuke her for anything other than the usual, "Aapki mom ne Imlie ko naukar banaya".....does Adi have the guts to point out that even MALINI is treating Imlie like a servant? Lagta toh nahin.

Imlie will say NO to Adi tomorrow....short and simple😆.....and then probably some more gyaan on how she doesn't want to come in between him and Malini😆....is sabke baad toh full chance that Imlie may try to leave again😆.

Sach mein phir ghar chod ke jayegi. 😭😭

For the first point, wasn’t she the one who asked in front of everyone why is he talking about her mother this way and then she thinks ki why is he talking like that in front of everybody....

Then as Aditya came and decided to sit with his wife because she was not given the respect she deserves, then couldn’t Malini do the same thing as uske husband ki baat uski Maa nahi maan rahi thi...thus not giving him the due respect

Third, is your mother house the place to do such a sensitive discussion knowing how your family is going to react if things go out of control..like parents are so sensitive to a daughter hurt from her husband but nahi she does not want to care about anyone but her own Dukh ... if she waited for weeks couldn’t she wait till the night to do it.

Malini lashed out at Imlie because she is blaming Aditya over protectiveness for imlie for the dooriyan between them... Hence today I was actually blaming Aditya for the mess he has created... Malini jaisi bhi ho she does not deserve his silence and Imlie does not deserve the crap she got today which was indirectly due to his over protectiveness and his inability to balance things between zimmedari and pyaar. .

Aditya is still being focused on his own guilt. and still not seeing Malini real self .. but atleast the first layer of Malini is off. Hopefully he will start noticing it but for now unfortunately Imlie and Aditya are going to blame themselves for her current breakdown.😈

I wish imlie ne usse vachan mein nahin Banda hota but phir bhi ITV hain they are going to pull it like the rubber band..,

Originally posted by: ITVfan2020

Sach mein phir ghar chod ke jayegi. 😭😭

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Waise, it does like they end up in a mela thingy on the way back? Was it just me who saw people movement behind them? 😆 Who was it who mentioned mela? Was it Pam?

Yes it was me but I have no idea, how are they going end up with balloons after the crapfest of today... I so freaking hope that Adi does not buy them to manao Imlie....today calls for a serious conversation between them without all those unnecessary things and I hope we get that tomm.... but Imlie is going to push him to Mahaan Didiz 😡