Dont think Sai's impulsive actions can be equated to "not giving a damn about" virat and not "prioritising" him. Yes shes wrong to do everything on her own but in her head she has her reasons. She tried to involve virat many times but something or the other happened to prevent that from happening. But she cares a lot about virats feelings, and his family too- thats why she feels devi tai is now her sister . This whole situation could have played out differently in a less messy way yes, but to say that Sai doesn't care/prioritize virat is not fair. She is just finding her footing in this relationship. She's having a tough time because she is fighting her heart. She doesn't believe that virat can ever have feelings for her so she is distancing herself but really she cant. She is only 19 and going through too much right now. But she has trust that virat will sort out all the mess when it happens. She knows that her step is messy, risky but she feels like eventually she is on the side of the truth - she has first hand seen bk gang criminal actions!- so she thinks virat will eventually unearth the truth. She knows he will be angry/upset but thinks that when he knows the full truth, he will forgive her. She said that in her mindvoice- kaash aap bhi mujhe maaf karenge.
So Sai has placed virat on a pedestal. She cares a lot. More than she demonstrates. Theres a reason for her walls. She's being brash in devkit matter but unfortunately thats her nature. But i dont think that means she doesn't value virat.
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