Babusahib struggling with choppy waters - Page 14

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, and it's making her look manipulative actually no matter how much the makers try to whitewash her actions and paint her a bechaari.

As you said, it's making her look two-faced cuz she's trying to give the impression to Adi and the family that she is being the bigger person and "forgiving" Adi's mistakes but internally nothing is resolved and she's not even trying to resolve it in good faith.....aise underhanded taunts about "main khud dawaai le lungi" and all ka kya matlab hai if you truly came back to try and solve the problems in your relationship?

Simply showing her token regrets about "Oh why did I check Adi's phone, I should have trusted him" are not enough.....the bechaari bahu act may work with the Tripathis who are dumb enough as it is....lol but it's not going to work on us as the audience.

As you said, this isn't a new Malini coming out...this was all always under the surface...it's now been triggered to become more obvious cuz Adi isn't giving her the usual level of coddling assurances that she had become used to bring him to heel in many ways.

Ultimately they will never make her the typical negative/grey character....but all these weird twisted things they are currently showing with her are just as tiresome in a different way....lol matlab insaan waise achha ho sakta hai but insecurity mein kitni twisted cheezein bhi kar sakta hai to try and hold on to someone.

I really do not know what they are planning to do with her but, she is just coming out as manipulative, calculative person in regards to her relationship with Aditya. That is her center and as she is seeing that its getting threatened, she has no qualms of using anybody or hurting anybody to make it right be it the T's or the C's. Its very underhanded and may be she is not realizing that she is doing it in her quest to have Aditya to herself but its definitely happening. In all other senses, she is nice but not when its came to her this one relationship and may be that's a grey shade. I was actually surprised that she was ready to question and hear Aditya's answer about the dooriyan because she generally prefers to run away as she continued to do after they came back home, no communication, no questions nothing.

As you said, it really is tiresome and compared to her approach, Imlie's is so refreshing. She was confused to when Aditya landed in PD, but her question were so direct like "why are you here", "what is your sachai", "what are you trying to do" and though little later, but her questions did force him to answer and give clarity to both of them about his own stand where their relationship is concerned. This makes a relationship more open and interesting because there is no hidden agenda , only honesty from both sides. 😊

One relationship full of lies, the other full of truths😛...

Originally posted by: Lodestar

About Mun Adi special nahi hai.. there is a scene before where she is pisses at adi idk when and why but he calls her moon and she goes iska baq aap kho chuke hain caz humarw sabse kareebi humein pyar se yeh bulate hain in her pouty tantrum throwing way.. 😆 I just remember that and then i was like who.. not your mom not dad not dadi nobody excer adi we have seen but ok I will take your word ke your kareebis call you that 😆 so maybe woh iska pehle ka nick hi tha

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Yes. Now that Adi is not immediately trying to placate her doubts & worries, she is going into even more suspicious mode & hence all the snooping about. But I bet you even if she finds something suspicious, she will ignore it. She may become more passive aggressive but will not bring it up herself. Because if it actually comes out in open then she will fear losing Adi. So unless & until Adi himself clearly tells her the truth, she will be ignoring anything that she discovers on her own.

No she always prefers to run away, because she does not have the guts or the strength to face the truth. Even though she might realizes that things are not the same, she will keep putting it under the carpet and prefer to be in status quo rather than taking steps to fix or find out the issues. Her insecurity will increase she will keep finding excuses to justify things or do drama like the hunger strike so everything just comes back to its original state.

So as you said, till Aditya does not take the initiative to actually spell it out to her, she will not believe any of the signs. This goes with the that infamous trust convo that they had where she said ki she will stop trusting only when he tells her to stop trusting him....**shaking my head here** I highly doubt that she ever trusted him though😆

Also, Imlie will be her biggest supporter in this drama giving duhaai of Didi's "haq" which will hopefully push Aditya to blow up because according to him, Imlie has the first haq. Its going to be a one side triangle. Imlie to Malini, Malini to aditya and Aditya to Imlie 😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

About Mun Adi special nahi hai.. there is a scene before where she is pisses at adi idk when and why but he calls her moon and she goes iska baq aap kho chuke hain caz humarw sabse kareebi humein pyar se yeh bulate hain in her pouty tantrum throwing way.. 😆 I just remember that and then i was like who.. not your mom not dad not dadi nobody excer adi we have seen but ok I will take your word ke your kareebis call you that 😆 so maybe woh iska pehle ka nick hi tha

I remember this scene... this was after the outburst at AC house, she was in that black nighdress in their room where she told him not to call me "Moon" and he no more has the right to do it.

Originally posted by: pamk06

I remember this scene... this was after the outburst at AC house, she was in that black nighdress in their room where she told him not to call me "Moon" and he no more has the right to do it.

Phew so I am not imagining it right 😆 good.. which means she had it all along before adi too

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Bailbhuddhi filming romance karta tha ke yeh cheesy baatein bolne se love zyada deep hoga..aisi baatein jo isse matlab bhi shayad nahi pata tha bas flow main nikalti thi Funny thing is iss sab ke baad bhi.malini bolti thi yeh romantic nahi hai aur kitna cheese chahiye madam ko I am curious to know yeh sach main kahan se seeks ke aata tha aisi faltu extra ott romantic baatein..waise if I am correct toh yeh jhumka scene main imlie bhi thi ssatb shopping pe.toh shayad usko dikhane ke liye extra bakwaas kar raha tha

Oh is it? LOL did they take Imlie along for this shopping trip before the shaadi? Mujhe detail mein yaad nahin itna khaas from that time.....but yeah shaayad vaguely thoda idea hai ki Malini as usual was moping around about something so to cheer her up, he laid it on extra thick in his scene.....shaayad Imlie hogi kahin background mein aur Adi ka dikhaava mode autopilot pe chal padaa hoga😆

But really I also want to know kaunsi special classes se training lekar yeh sab bakwaas bolta tha Malini ko😆....cuz otherwise he's shown consumed with his work all the time and no patience for general romantic stuff.....so yeh sab kahaan se aata tha iske dimaag mein? 😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Sach main 😆 he was like jaldi karo man I don't have time for this bakwaas boriya bistar uthao chalo.. his patience was on all time low with malini ji.. so he hardly reached on her cheesy mera khyal rakho time statements too..

Ek toh 🤪 at her mera dil karta hai koi khayal rakhe..behan kitna khayal rakhe koi start se sab aapki hi chakri kar rahe hain kabhi aapne khayal rakha kisi ka but nahi..

@ bold lol adi ke liye yeh itni baymaaiyani ho gayi hai ke kyon aayi kab aayi kaise aayi kaise gayi he is really not intrested in finding out.. and offering solutions 😆 any other day he would have atpeast asked ke yeh kya tha aise toh nahi chodna chahiye tha ghar but at this point he was like do hell with ya..

I can't stop laughing at his calling her zimmedari over and over in his head now even in that bed scene 😆 ke PD main mera pyaar hai and yahan zimmedari hahah

LOL it's a typical pampered child mentality.....jitna marzi pamper kar lo, kam padega. Sab log iska khayaal rakhne mein hi busy hain ek hafte se but isko Adi ko jataana tha isliye usi ko bol rahi hai.....lol and aisa bhi nahin ki he hasn't rakhoed her khayaal otherwise for so long....phir bhi such a low taunt just cuz he left for 2-4 days?

Adi ab kya kisi aur ko solutions offer karega jab usko apni solution nahin mil rahi😆.....so yeah, he was least interested in responding to her cues....token effort bhi nahin tha to dial up the fikar even though yeh itni mariyal hokar padi thi bed pe. Imlie ke case mein woh khud hi apni illness downplay karti rehti hai har baar and he keeps fussing over every little scratch on her😆......Didi ko koi samjhaao ki jitna cling karogi, utna hi haath se chhutega sab.

Haha the pyar and zimmedaari flip was apparent from the hut scene only na....ab jaake aur definitive kar diya hai writers ne....par humne toh us scene mein hi pakad liya tha😛😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, and it's making her look manipulative actually no matter how much the makers try to whitewash her actions and paint her a bechaari.

As you said, it's making her look two-faced cuz she's trying to give the impression to Adi and the family that she is being the bigger person and "forgiving" Adi's mistakes but internally nothing is resolved and she's not even trying to resolve it in good faith.....aise underhanded taunts about "main khud dawaai le lungi" and all ka kya matlab hai if you truly came back to try and solve the problems in your relationship?

Simply showing her token regrets about "Oh why did I check Adi's phone, I should have trusted him" are not enough.....the bechaari bahu act may work with the Tripathis who are dumb enough as it is....lol but it's not going to work on us as the audience.

As you said, this isn't a new Malini coming out...this was all always under the surface...it's now been triggered to become more obvious cuz Adi isn't giving her the usual level of coddling assurances that she had become used to bring him to heel in many ways.

Ultimately they will never make her the typical negative/grey character....but all these weird twisted things they are currently showing with her are just as tiresome in a different way....lol matlab insaan waise achha ho sakta hai but insecurity mein kitni twisted cheezein bhi kar sakta hai to try and hold on to someone.

It is worse then typical negative character caz unke motives toh seedhe hote hain na ke bas bura banana hai.. yahan yeh haathi ke daant khane ke aur dikhane ke aur is really not gonna work..it is like taking them all for a ride..

Acha hona and suspicious hona sure ho sakta hai but uske itne ache se conceal karna ott sweet banke like a manjha hua Kalakar that is the part that is bothering me.. I understand she has been shakki all her life but then stick to it what is his shak ke right after she goes Nahi nahi and then back.. either own up thay you checked the phone caz you were scared so were snooping ke he might have a girl in his life .. and you did it out of that not like kisi aadmi ne phone uthaya toh sab theek .. pretend to be all goody good in front of family and then underneath be a bitter mess holding grudges.. behan bol do honestly family ko ke haan main aa gayi caz I want to give us a chance and with time things will resolve they shouldn't worry too much we will work on it..(even if you won't ) that is much better and atleast ek honesty toh hai isme not being manipulative and main sabse achi thing.. itna maan lene se malini didi aap buri nahi ban jaayengi na lol

Originally posted by: pamk06

Shift and what a shift and you were so right that he will just go 0 to 100.....😆.. We kept expecting that it would be a slow ride but well, I think we just expect the unexpected from him.

So true, till he believed in his feelings for her, he was totally committed to her and he never even entertained the thought of Imlie. Now that he knows that things are different, that his feelings are different, he cannot do the things that were so natural to him in the past. He was just there because he has not choice. He knows what he wants and what he does not want but does not know how to fix it so he just wants to stay in limbo....Totally agree, only Imlie's return can given him the motivation to start moving forward. When he sees her in front of him and realizes what he is missing then he will step out of his "majdaar" that he wants to fall in 😆

I think we will again have one more conversation with editor saab because his words have a good impact on Aditya. Unki wajah se PD pahuch gaya, unki wajah he still stuck on the "naav" thing and hopefully unki wajah he will know how to fix things. Imlie will be the motivation, editor the advisor, BBSB's life is all set. 😆

Haha yes, between Editor Saab and Imlie, Adi ka full motivation center ready hai.....he keeps getting a push from either of these two to get reality checks about what he wants in life😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Phew so I am not imagining it right 😆 good.. which means she had it all along before adi too

But we have not seen anyone calling her "Moon" other than Adi. So who are all these other kareebi people she is talking about. Achanak se kisi character ko introduce karenge kya who will be calling her "Moon" jiska aaj tak isne ziqra bhi nahi kiya😆.

Lol....I thought that statement during the fight was just a spur of the moment big declaration that she usually does for impact ainvayein😆 to make Adi feel more bad...but humare BS bhi unique prani hai jo Malini se itni khari khoti sunne ke baad bhi aaram se Imlie ko fikra main daant rahe the aur has bhi rahe the🤣

Anyways if its a nick name from before then all our theories ka bye bye😆 But mujhe abhi bhi yahi lag raha hai ki Malini ne hi Adi ko ye nick name bolne kaha hoga to match his name but ye bolke ki already uska yeh nickname hain. She is twisted like that😆.