Originally posted by: Shristhi2002
I guess we are not much bothered here about the off screen relationship much here,as offscreen ,nobody wishes ill to them and we are still happy that they are happy together.
But,what is happening here is ,we are again and again somewhere feeling threatened. As you said the character here is not as they are (a particular someone) trying to justify. So,one we are not able to connect with her as she is as the character,so we get irritated . But she is forcing us to accept the offscreen things as the onscreen as well,since didi is not deviating here, we who are trying to separate it, are not allowed properly. So,what happens is we get blasted,but unfrotunately since it happens due to the offscreen pov justification of the onscreen character personality,it runs in all direction. And as I said,since we feel threatened here which ultimately results in bashing, and accusing but as I said someone does it in a offscreen basis, both of them get dragged here,even though the other might be totally innocent. And our brain plays additional brain games with SM and all,and we have a emotional outburst. So,someone has to deviate that onscreen and offscreen shouldn't be blended,cuz you are also dragging your other into this without their wish and will. 🤦♀️
Exactly!!! she is trying to gain sympathy for a character for which no one can feel sympathy because pakhi is the one that brought this on her!! Honestly, sai is impulsive but what about pakhi isn't she impulsive as well... especially when she blocked his number and jumped to the conclusion that he cheated on her!!
How does one relate to a character like that, who says she only wants friendship but lusts for her devar and has a problem with her devars relationship with his wife!!!