Jealous waale Babusahib - Page 21

Why should AY leave her own thread or other members who regularly contribute and make this thread so rich in content?

I hope people realize it takes time and effort to open a thread day after day with substantial content and keep the discussion going on (not just 2 lines). Most of us thoroughly enjoy these discussions and it makes the show so much more enjoyable to watch! So many times I miss nuances and subtle points that the other members in this thread point out and I go "Uh! So that's what they were trying to show!". If someone is putting the time and effort and wants to maintain a certain kind of atmosphere in her thread, is it too much to ask the other members to respect that?

Thank you so much, AY for providing a wonderful platform for such in-depth analysis. It's an absolute pleasure to read the discussions that go on here and enjoy different perspectives!! As a silent member said a few days back, the content in this thread is exceptional.

Being super hyper about every single thing and making frivolous comments in someone's thread when she is clearly not comfortable with it, not sure how that shows maturity.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Pam, thank you for atleast having the guts to address the problem directly rather than trying to make this a generic issue as others here have. Everyone in this forum knows who spreads the negativity here but I’ve been put on the receiving end of slander here today with others questioning my motivations too. So I’m thankful that you could understand my intent in trying to keep substantive discussions alive whatever little I could.

As for continuing the threads, I’ll have to think about it. Maybe I’ll know once I watch the episode tonight. Lol. I do enjoy having meaningful discussions with you guys here too but it’s sad when others don’t step up to do their part to keep the atmosphere positive here. I can only do so much on my part. If a positive/substantive atmosphere is to be maintained, then negative posts shouldn’t be encouraged. Sadly I don’t see that happening much in this form. It’s discussion for the sake of replying for most 🤷‍♀️. And I don’t have the energy to participate in that. I need meaning to participate.

As you can see from the replies, AY, we all eagerly wait for your threads!! ❤️ It's like a meeting place for us! 😛 Please don't take it from us! 😔

It has become a routine for me that I watch the episode, then come here. By the time I watch it, it's usually pretty late night here, so I don't always have the energy to participate after a long day, but I definitely enjoy the discussion here immensely!! 😳

Originally posted by: Kaede

I thoroughly respect your concerns.. because your concerns are mature. You don't hate me for the sake of hating me. Your points are totally valid but my intentions are never to spread negativity. It's just that I am oberpossessive of adilie.

The creator of the thread called me kutte ki dum. Now see how mature your precious thread maker really is. I don't want to talk to her either. I talk with other forum members and I have all rights to do so. Shes not owner of if. Well I don't care about her. Whenever I have spare time I come to if. From two days I have time so I am on if. I actually disappear from if for a long time. So don't worry. This pseudo nature person will remian to entertain you guys. 😂

Phir bhi aap yeh thread mein post kar rahi ho? Doesn't make sense at all... Also, I believe she said that, only after she requested you specifically multiple times in polite terms, to not bring regional references in her thread. Having said that, isn't it better to stay where you are welcome rather than where you are not welcome.

I understand your concern about Adilie and they not being the endgame but why not discuss that in the thread that is for that purpose. People interested would definitely discuss it there with you and share their opinions accordingly to their heart's content. In this thread, we are still in the phase of "Aditya's downfall into love land". We or at least me have been waiting for it for a long time and I would like to experience it for a few more days from every possible angle and every possible view till we move on. 😛 Hope you understand.

Please AY don’t stop your threads,it’s the only one place where we got your in-depth analysis and logical opinion of yours and others who really love this show and want to exchange views in positive manner.it’s the only thread for silent reader like me ,who can get daily entertainment by reading and seeing caps.it really help me to understand the characters and their act and elevate my watching experience .don’t let the negativity win,please.We are with you who really care and value your hard work. Thanks 🙏

Sorry to hear AY and all you ladies have had to go through this negative vibe this weekend. I am yet to catch-up with the show and the analysis post. But wanted to say from my side and Dadi that’s she absolutely loves your analysis and being in her 70 thoroughly enjoys the caps to the meaningful conversation it has become our daily read and support mechanism to watch the show. The freedom to discuss such complex issues and with and open freedom is what has made your thread so refreshing. You have made us feel part of the family which otherwise is hard to find. She feels this is the only place where she and I can share what we feel and be told to see it from another perspective too.

The reality is some will just come to destroy what others have. Don’t let there negativity ruin what you have achieved so far. Just know your loved and support and even if late people will come to show there live. Imlie was always a show that was going to test relationships, emotions and social norms. Not sure why we cannot have the freedom to share what we feel. You have achieved it so well with these balanced threads where reality is discussed with fiction. As it’s said before the road may be full of thorns but we shouldn’t let them bother us for we know what we share here is to spread simple joy.

As my dadi says to me daily love is a choice it doesn’t see age or right and wrong. The world is a place for all where we all we thread our own paths it’s our learning that’s makes us whom we are. I love that you have brought this to the forefront through the episode analysis everyday. So a big thank you.

You and the others have done this so beautifully. Will keep supporting you and these threads. 🤗

@AY

Please don’t stop your threads , it’s a humble request . Just because of few negative ppl , please don’t punish the people who enjoys your analysis and discussions happens in your threads. You post your thread around 10:00 pm my time and I keep on refreshing the page since 9:30 pm. Some of us wait for your thread to open and join the analysis and read different povs. We enjoy the caps you post in thread and we do appreciate your hard work maintaining your thread with healthy discussion, it’s like a safe haven for some of us who don’t wanna open any other negative threads on the forums . Once again I request you to not stop posting your threads.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Pam, thank you for atleast having the guts to address the problem directly rather than trying to make this a generic issue as others here have. Everyone in this forum knows who spreads the negativity here but I’ve been put on the receiving end of slander here today with others questioning my motivations too. So I’m thankful that you could understand my intent in trying to keep substantive discussions alive whatever little I could.

As for continuing the threads, I’ll have to think about it. Maybe I’ll know once I watch the episode tonight. Lol. I do enjoy having meaningful discussions with you guys here too but it’s sad when others don’t step up to do their part to keep the atmosphere positive here. I can only do so much on my part. If a positive/substantive atmosphere is to be maintained, then negative posts shouldn’t be encouraged. Sadly I don’t see that happening much in this form. It’s discussion for the sake of replying for most 🤷‍♀️. And I don’t have the energy to participate in that. I need meaning to participate.

🤗dear, the problem was driving me crazy with all the spamming on the forums with "one line" post or question ending with some kind of "***lie". Its was becoming so difficult to find other meaningful posts that I like to read just to get a different perspective. I was holding it in because forum hain and as someone said, its democracy so was Ok because it had not reached this thread but well someone just does not understand. Then, today was almost the case of "ulta chor kotwal ko datte" kinds. It really took an effort and I tried to be nice and hope that the message is now understood. Last time we got a reprieve of almost a month, hopefully this time its longer. 😛

Well as you can see from multiple posts, most of us value this thread because it provides the platform to contribute and read the hidden meanings that this show is offering. Its very rare to see such a show on ITV and then to meet the like minded people, who understand and can give a different perspective that we find through this thread. Lets not allow the view of a couple of people, spoil that for us. I know most of us just tend to ignore the negativity rather than addressing it because sometimes on SM thats a safer option and just hope that it get cuts in its roots by promoting the positive message but well as I said some people just do not get the message. Hope that we can continue the meaningful discussions.🤗

PS: keeping my fingers crossed that today is a good episode.

Guys, thank you all for the kind words :) My intention really wasn't to cause stress to the people who enjoy the threads.....I can understand this has become a routine for the readers just as much as it has become routine for me to write these. I just felt like stepping back today for a bit.

I guess this topic has dragged on long enough today so I won't drag it further either. I won't hesitate in making a thread if tonight's episode provides some eventful fodder😆.....and it's likely it will :) So fingers crossed.

Originally posted by: pamk06

🤗dear, the problem was driving me crazy with all the spamming on the forums with "one line" post or question ending with some kind of "***lie". Its was becoming so difficult to find other meaningful posts that I like to read just to get a different perspective. I was holding it in because forum hain and as someone said, its democracy so was Ok because it had not reached this thread but well someone just does not understand. Then, today was almost the case of "ulta chor kotwal ko datte" kinds. It really took an effort and I tried to be nice and hope that the message is now understood. Last time we got a reprieve of almost a month, hopefully this time its longer. 😛

Well as you can see from multiple posts, most of us value this thread because it provides the platform to contribute and read the hidden meanings that this show is offering. Its very rare to see such a show on ITV and then to meet the like minded people, who understand and can give a different perspective that we find through this thread. Lets not allow the view of a couple of people, spoil that for us. I know most of us just tend to ignore the negativity rather than addressing it because sometimes on SM thats a safer option and just hope that it get cuts in its roots by promoting the positive message but well as I said some people just do not get the message. Hope that we can continue the meaningful discussions.🤗

PS: keeping my fingers crossed that today is a good episode.

Thanks, Pam🤗

Not to burst your bubble but your polite words are likely wasted from what I can tell😆. If politeness worked, then my many polite requests would have worked long back. This isn't about that clearly. It's up to the members here to decide what kind of discussions they want to give oxygen to and that's what will flower. 😊

Anyways, as I said, let's move on. Hopefully we have some good content to discuss from tonight's episode soon.

Why so quite about today’s epi. Is it bad ?🙁

Originally posted by: Tulips123

Why so quite about today’s epi. Is it bad ?🙁

You will be surprised.. am.shook actually and still not able to process any bit and piece I have seen

All I know is krantikaari just will be very happy and lots of forum walas