Duty vs Right - Page 5

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

kaku ka bas chale tho woh kudh pakhi didi ko apne khandho pe bitake ghar chod aaye... but age cooperate nay kartha na..bechari kaku..😆

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

I blame Patralekha and Virat equally. But I completely agree the hurt that Samrat felt must have come more from Virat. Patralekha did it to be with Virat. So she thought only about that. And Virat claims to have done it for Samrat. He is his cousin, jaan se pyaara. He should have been more thoughtful.

He didn't think of the consequences. Maybe he believed so much in his and Patralekha's maturity that they will never let Samrat know.

Exactly my point. Samrat deserved to be the one to decide for himself.

main equally tho nay but 70 -30 blame doongi.. cuz as i said i think practically mostly, so if i was in samrat's place main yehi soch thi after knowing the truth that 'pakhi tho phir bhi parayi thi..mere bhai ne mere saath ithna bada dhoka kiya' cuz he hardly knows her so usse umeed bhi kya karega samrat..he would feel that '30%' betrayal from pakhi cuz shaadi is is big deal and uskeliye he can simply divorce her as he has a choice but bhai ki baath dil ko chubti..

but as this is TV show and samrat is a mahaan praani. when samrat comes back he will be 5n with all this and will only want to divorce pakhi but sai and virat won't let him do so.

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

arey, ye kya bol diya aapne, Bhavani Patralekha ko apni nazron se door kaise hone de sakti hai👀

yeah na..then she may join pakhi didi and be like...aa le chale tumhe..taaron ke sheher mein..dharti pe yeh duniya..hume pyaar na karne degi🤣

Originally posted by: linakusharberry

nah nah viru kaku peh kaku seedha bahar

bahar nay..upar..

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Originally posted by: Chandu_500

main equally tho nay but 70 -30 blame doongi.. cuz as i said i think practically mostly, so if i was in samrat's place main yehi soch thi after knowing the truth that 'pakhi tho phir bhi parayi thi..mere bhai ne mere saath ithna bada dhoka kiya' cuz he hardly knows her so usse umeed bhi kya karega samrat..he would feel that '30%' betrayal from pakhi cuz shaadi is is big deal and uskeliye he can simply divorce her as he has a choice but bhai ki baath dil ko chubti..

but as this is TV show and samrat is a mahaan praani. when samrat comes back he will be 5n with all this and will only want to divorce pakhi but sai and virat won't let him do so.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

bahar nay..upar..

🤣🤣

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

I already knew no one will agree on Virat so it's fine😆. And as I replied to another post, I am not 100% firm on my stance on Virat and hence have given different possibilities for the supposed sacrifice.

But I don't blame Patralekha more than Virat. For me they both were equally wrong. Even if we think Virat did this with a good intention he did snatch away Samrat's right to the decisions of his own life (what my post is about). Both had the chance to tell him the truth and they both chose to keep him in the dark. All I can say is a person should have the right to make decisions of his own life. Both snatched away that decision from Samrat for their own reasons.

@bold I agree but Virat did what he felt was right at that moment. I don't deny that he kind of spoilt Samrat's life in a way but that wasn'this intention.

He thought he was sacrificing for his brother but never thought if the girl will ever be able to move on or not and how Samrat would feel when he comes to know that Pakhi and he loved each other.

Virat is a very emotional person and he thought and could see how happy his brother looked. He has heard it many times from Samrat that he likes Patralekha a lot. So, to him it was more like snatching away that smile from his brother's face, that happiness that he was hoping for. He didn't want to shatter his brother's dreams.

Virat failed to see/understand that it would have been good if he had told his brother the truth rather than keeping him in dark.

But there are a couple of things:

Virat and Pakhi hardly shared any kind of relationship

He was about to propose her but never did

He only met her on the day of haldi and confessed his feelings only when he was confronted by Pakhi

So technically speaking Virat was more like another groom who liked Pakhi and whom Pakhi liked. Love actually never blossomed between them. There was no relationship between them. So, he thought that they were not at any stage in their relationship that it was important to let his brother know. If, if they had started to speak to each other, he had confessed his feelings to her before he left and then they lost contact and then again found her like this, I think Virat might have informed Samrat. Because this scenario means that they are committed.

As per the scenario that was shown in the show, they were not committed to each other. There were expectations, hope to start something but it never began. So I think he thought that there was nothing much to share and hid it from Samrat.

He never realised how much him and Pakhi had actually got emotionally attached to each other. Though they never spoke to each other about their feelings, they had it in their heart, they dreamt about each other. But can these be considered being in relationship?

As per him, they were not in a relationship and I think that is why he felt it was okay to do it.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

yeah na..then she may join pakhi didi and be like...aa le chale tumhe..taaron ke sheher mein..dharti pe yeh duniya..hume pyaar na karne degi🤣

Zara zara behekkta hai

Mehekta hai...

Aage apko malum hi hoga😆

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

na na, don't get me wrong. I also understand that if I were in his place I would have blamed my brother more and would be hurt because of him more thinking that Patralekha is parayi. So I completely understand where you are coming from. But when I decided to blame them equally, I thought about what they did; instead of how Samrat will feel about their individual actions. Let's think about it this way. If Samrat instead of blaming them blames himself and feels guilty that he came between those two unknowingly and they couldn't Unite because of him, that wouldn't lessen the weight of what they did. So I blamed them equally for what they did even though I think Virat should have been more thoughtful as he is the one who was related to Samrat not Patralekha.

yeah makes sense 👍🏼

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

aur taron ke sheher mein jane ke baad

Zara zara behekkta hai

Mehekta hai...

Aage apko malum hi hoga😆

🤣🤣