Originally posted by: Indira1211
Ok...many of you girls are saying Bondita should get a new guy, have a fling, remarry, etc,..But let’s be realistic in that era ..a hundred years ago women stuck it out in their marriages..and in lots of those marriages the men were monsters..with their cheating, second wives, abuse , etc. but In Bonditas marriage she knows of all the sacrifices, fights and efforts Anirudh put in just for her..she values her husband and thinks he’s a good man...which he is. So firstly I don’t think Bondita will walk out of her marriage as she has those values instilled in her where women valued their vows and didn’t walk out of their marriages, secondly she knows that the society of that era looks down at women who left their marital homes..and thirdly Bondita cares deeply for Anirudh, even though she’s young she’s attached to Anirudh and she’s possessive about him...So I want Bondita to put up a big fight,..she must throw whatever tantrums she can and say she will not allow Anirudh to bring Manorama into the house even to point where she threatens that she will quit schooling or falls sick.. then Anirudh must admit that his marriage to manorama is fake and hopefully then we will see the end of manoramas track.. I don’t believe Anirudh has any deep feelings for manorama ...he’s first priority is Bondita...if he truly loved manorama he would want to be with her..but he’s distanced himself from her.. So i hope it turns out this way.
You have brought up bon's personality very beautifuly.. yes she has her values n morals...
About bon's second marriage we know na it's not possible.. i think everyone wants ani just to bridge the differences somehow.. n be happy with bon forgetting society's pressure.. that pressure can be channelized towards educating the society along with bon..
PS :no intention to hurt anybody..
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