Okay, so the adarshvadi ITV naari has to reform the ML. But honestly, I don't want him to reform. Is it so necessary to judge the guy basis his work? Is it so wrong for Raghav to want that his mother and sister will accept him as he is because frankly, I don't see anything wrong with that? I mean a job is part of my life, does not define me. So, whatever past baggage he has, uske ilawa, distancing oneself from someone based on their job, is incorrect. I guess that is the point Raghav is trying to make but is incapable of explaining considering his own handicap at expression and also his tactics are very underhanded. He lacks tact.
It's much like Pallavi's widow truth. It is a fact about her but does not define her, or her life. So if Raghav does not care that Pallavi is a widow and still loves her for the person she is, then why can't Pallavi also do the same. What is the dire need to reform him? Yes, she can be the bridge of communication, which Raghav lacks in a way. And Raghav can give the gumption she lacks in some areas. But apart from that, I don't think there is a single thing that they need to change about each other. Infact, I have observed, Pallavi has judged him more for his behavior than his work. The way he behaves is her problem most of the time.
This is why I always stress the fact that RaghVi needs to discover that they are enough for each other. Cause both families in both cases want them to behave or act in a certain way. Raghav seeks approval by rebelling and Pallavi by adjusting. But why do either man? If a family at the end of the day cannot accept you as you are and sits and judges you, then what is the point of the family then. Their families need to understand them and not vice versa all the time.
