Stop showing mahan Anupama

I think it’s high time they should stop showing mahan Anupama. With this now serial is getting boring. Anupama has the guts to shut up Rakhi Dave who speaks logical things than to take stand for her or her son Samar in front of Baa or vanraj. It’s irritating now.

Anupama did take stand for samar when anupama and vanraj come from mausi and vanraj saw samar proposing nandini and shouted at samar so anupama did question vanraj and take stand for samar

I agree 100%

They are literally showing her as a doormat. Baa keeps uttering rubbish but she takes it. Her son toshu clearly does not respect her but she takes it. Her ex husband is living with his girlfriend and she shown looking after her..She had somewhere lost self respect.

And anupama is not mahaan . It is her personality that she cant dii respect elder and she will not help other in their trouble ( it is totally imposible that she will not help other in trouble if website go by her natural personality)

Is serial mein sabhi apne personality ki wajah se behave karte hain . Bas apne personality ki wajah, rakhi apne personality ki wajah se toshu apne personality ki wajah se pakhi apne personality ki wajah se so is anupama

We cant accept koi apni personality 100 percent change kar lega. Situation ke according uske person ke character mein 30 , 40 percent change ho sakta hai but uska jo natural nature kabhi nahin jaa sakta . Yahi anupama ke saath hai

Anupama ne kai baar stand liya hai . She has told baa ki aap mujhe woh karne ko mat kahiye jo main nahin kar sakti when baa ask her to quit job

She did take stand when pakhi, baa and vanraj forcing her sign the paper to taketake blame on herself that she is responsible for school fire accident just to save pakhi . Anupama did not sign paper

Anupama did not eat cake from vanraj birthday neither in new year nor in birthday B

So many time anupama did take stand

Yes she does not taunt like rakhi kyonki anupama rakhi nahin hai

And anupama is not mahaan . It is her personality that she cant dii respect elder she will not help other

Is serial mein sabhi apne personality ki wajah se behave karte hain . Bas apne personality ki wajah, rakhi apne personality ki wajah se toshu apne personality ki wajah se pakhi apne personality ki wajah se so is anupama

We cant accept koi apni personality 100 percent change kar lega. Situation ke according uske person ke character mein 30 , 40 percent change ho sakta hai but uska jo natural nature kabhi nahin jaa sakta . Yahi anupama ke saath hai

Anupama ne kai baar stand liya hai . She has told baa ki aap mujhe woh karne ko mat kahiye jo main nahin kar sakti when baa ask her to quit job

She did take stand when pakhi, baa and vanraj forcing her sign the paper to taketake blame on herself that she is responsible for school fire accident just to save pakhi . Anupama did not sign paper

Anupama did not eat cake from vanraj birthday neither in new year nor in birthday B

So many time anupama did take stand

Yes she does not taunt like rakhi kyonki anupama rakhi nahin hai

[/QUOTE I don't understand she can shut nice Peopel like raaki and kavYa and tehy don't insult her even raaki doesn't do it anymore but she is so mean to them and siluporting vnaraj against samar is too much she her self knows how much truth samara words are alshe is stopping it from coming out. Writers have really started degrading he echatcter I'm sure more people are critizing anupamaa than vnaraj

But in general if they show Anupama accepting vanraj saying that he and Kavya will live in same house and not taking any stand then she is totally wrong. Because in that case vanraj will get everything, he likes Anupamas food and her taking care of family and gets to maintain relationship with Kavya openly.

But I don’t agree Anupama takes stand. She is constantly listening to Baas taunts and even Vanraj tantarums. Vanraj might be going through bad phase but in real life situation one does not worry for a person who betrayed you from so many years and treated you like maid. Even for Samar her stand was not that strong. Samars point is correct. The one who has left home, doing opposite of what he is opposing that too in this age and left his relations has no right to say such things. And from what right baa is not accepting this when she is constantly in love with her so called king type son even after knowing his affair.

So Anupama needs to oppose correctly rather than to hide behind her mahanta saying wants to keep peace, does not want to affect baa and Babuji and all.

So why is she not taking a stand for samar and nandini? Why is she indirectly playing with samar's self respect by forcing him to apologize to vanraj? All the places where she did take a stand was only for her mahaanta. She refused to sign the papers to show mahaanta. Most of her deeds including asking samar to show respect to vanraj is her mahaanta. Otherwise she would demand respect from toshu and paakhi when they insult her

I know Anupama Rakhi nahi hai but iska matlab yeh nahi ki aap ghar main apne sautan ko rehne do when she is totally fine. Anupama ke according Kavya ke saath bura hua but aap usko 1-2 din support karoge poore zindagi nahi. And what is this that she is accepting vanraj condition ki voh nandani ke ghar kavya se milne nahi jayega isliye kavya yahan rahenge. At that time Anupama ko bolna chaiye tha. Moreover, Now during mahashivratri there is no issue with Kavya. As per precap it seems sab vanraj ke behaviour se dar jayenge even Anupama and will allow them to stay in this house. This I am totally against. Agar aisa hua then Anupama ka character yeh bahut kharab kar denge. In that case Baa and Bapuji also needs to strictly kick their son out.

Iske baad toh aisa ho jayega vanraj is enjoying with his gf and Anupama unke seva kar rahe hai.

I guess it depends how u want to view her character but for me she is shown too mahaan...it’s unbearable to watch. She got kavya in her house when nandini was just round the corner?! Why? I hope they don’t show Vanya and Anupama living together and Anupama cooking their favourite dishes and looking after them. When Vanya have babies she might be shown as their aaya

We see that anupama shut rakhi but it is anupama who use to give respect rakhi many time but rakhi use to taunt her for not knowing english not doing simple graduate ignoring anupama giving respect to her

Anupama many time gave respect rakhi but rakhi never value her respect just because anupama is just 12 th pass?