Two Helpless Hearts - Page 14

As innocent as sleeping on his arm was to us viewers it was totally a huge slip up on their part given their history.. and they can't be doing those slip ups right now given their situation caz it inky brings them closer when they are trying to deal.with the complexity of their bond and learn to. Live their lives alone esp imlie which is why she termed it as paap.. and for him too for all the other need for him to be around her it was out if the line caz it physically put them in a too personal space ...

Meanwhile I read the argument that they had sat on a bike he had lifted her sure they have done all that but doing that all in public domain is not as controversial as them sleeping by handholding in private with all the pull they feel for each other and with the baggage that makes it harder for them to digest caz the shaadi baggage will make it harder for them to consciously do any of that for a long time even if subconsciously they start accepting that

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

As innocent as sleeping on his arm was to us viewers it was totally a huge slip up on their part given their history.. and they can't be doing those slip ups right now given their situation caz it inky brings them closer when they are trying to deal.with the complexity of their bond and learn to. Live their lives alone esp imlie which is why she termed it as paap.. and for him too for all the other need for him to be around her it was out if the line caz it physically put them in a too personal space ...

Meanwhile I read the argument that they had sat on a bike he had lifted her sure they have done all that but doing that all in public domain is not as controversial as them sleeping by handholding in private with all the pull they feel for each other and with the baggage that makes it harder for them to digest caz the shaadi baggage will make it harder for them to consciously do any of that for a long time even if subconsciously they start accepting that

@bold - and harder for us to digest as well. I do not want them to cross that rubicon yet. The emotional attachment is already pulling them in directions they do not fully comprehend.

Also, never felt the need anyway. Jaise the bike takkar was different but right, whenever they hold hands because they want to, it should be right as well. Uske bina bhi we are getting a story that is complete for AdiLie.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Good you brought attraction up...I was going to put it in my post and then did not.... Imlie, atleast, I can see with emotional sickness and gudgulli etc that there is awareness but thoughts on when its going to prakat for Aditya? Right now he is such a mess in his head and his first thought always is Malini.... There is an deep emotional connect with Imlie but he is still seeing her as a responsibility (I dont want to say bacchi and I am not able to find the right word)......Will it go hand in hand with his emotional awareness of her or will it just come as a bolt of lighting?

I think the emotional attachment from Adi is already morphing into a deeper fascination and by extension an attraction towards Imlie....or he wouldn't be watching her like this:

There is actually an interesting premise to explore with these two about the nature of how attraction can develop....the usual expectation is that it starts with the physical attraction being notable...but I think it has all taken a more roundabout path with these two....there has been an emotional attraction from almost the beginning that has only deepened with time and I think it is transitioning to a physical manifestation now because Adi is physically doing things to hold her closer, be closer to her...refusing to let go of her potli, refusing to let go of her cycle....it's all growing from there only bit by bit.

Obviously he will keep trying to deny it consciously and will keep trying to dismiss her as a bacchi....but then this guy is also currently using her studies as a cover for why she needs to come with him back to Delhi😆....so he will keep on making excuses to deny how much he is growing to need Imlie in every way.

It's not going to be a straight path for Adi to realize his attraction towards Imlie I think...it will keep getting draped in either irritation/scolding/jealousy/possessiveness etc.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Good you brought attraction up...I was going to put it in my post and then did not.... Imlie, atleast, I can see with emotional sickness and gudgulli etc that there is awareness but thoughts on when its going to prakat for Aditya? Right now he is such a mess in his head and his first thought always is Malini.... There is an deep emotional connect with Imlie but he is still seeing her as a responsibility (I dont want to say bacchi and I am not able to find the right word)......Will it go hand in hand with his emotional awareness of her or will it just come as a bolt of lighting?

Seeing how they’ve treated Aditya so far, it will be gradual subconsciously and a dam burst that he will not understand one day. The thing with such emotional connections is once you turn it into a core support system, everything else gets associated with it automatically too. I would rather have makers emphasize more on the latter than the former since I feel we do not need it anyway in the face of such strong affiliation that they are already displaying. He needs her to be close already.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

As innocent as sleeping on his arm was to us viewers it was totally a huge slip up on their part given their history.. and they can't be doing those slip ups right now given their situation caz it inky brings them closer when they are trying to deal.with the complexity of their bond and learn to. Live their lives alone esp imlie which is why she termed it as paap.. and for him too for all the other need for him to be around her it was out if the line caz it physically put them in a too personal space ...

Meanwhile I read the argument that they had sat on a bike he had lifted her sure they have done all that but doing that all in public domain is not as controversial as them sleeping by handholding in private with all the pull they feel for each other and with the baggage that makes it harder for them to digest caz the shaadi baggage will make it harder for them to consciously do any of that for a long time even if subconsciously they start accepting that

Well, I wouldn't really call it a slip-up either😆.

They are battling forces bigger than themselves right now....while I understand why they themselves got awkward and felt it was wrong to be consciously this close....at the same time, they will keep on getting drawn to each other helplessly....that is their destiny.

As we were discussing earlier, their comfort level is growing....it's not like they are consciously trying to do something....they are just naturally falling into that pattern....irony yehi hai ki even though they are married, they will consciously keep feeling the weight of the Malini baggage in their relationship and they will always guilt trip after any moment of getting close to each other.....lol

Carrying her in his arms is different cuz that can still be written off as an emotionally charged moment in their eyes when one of them was half-unconscious....lol....but this was both of them fully conscious and so close...that is why they got awkward.

Adi is the one who is yearning more to be around her right now....his need is tangible....and obviously even though right now it's the emotional side coming out more, it's all inter-related....he doesn't just want her as a mannequin in his life....he wants all of Imlie.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Seeing how they’ve treated Aditya so far, it will be gradual subconsciously and a dam burst that he will not understand one day. The thing with such emotional connections is once you turn it into a core support system, everything else gets associated with it automatically too. I would rather have makers emphasize more on the latter than the former since I feel we do not need it anyway in the face of such strong affiliation that they are already displaying. He needs her to be close already.

@bold: Very true....an emotional connection supersedes any other connection....once you have an emotional connection, everything starts getting built around that and associated with it too.....that does seem to be the case here with Adi-Imlie as well.....given the depth and intensity of the emotion between them, in some ways, they are already beyond the questions and signs of attraction....it will never manifest in a typical way between them.....it's on an organic path right now wherein they are sort of just falling into a mould together without consciously feeling every shift.....pata bhi nahin chalega kab it will all get rolled into one big mix - emotional attachment, support system, need, attraction, love....it will all be so intertwined that it will be hard to tell each characteristic apart.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

@bold - and harder for us to digest as well. I do not want them to cross that rubicon yet. The emotional attachment is already pulling them in directions they do not fully comprehend.

Also, never felt the need anyway. Jaise the bike takkar was different but right, whenever they hold hands because they want to, it should be right as well. Uske bina bhi we are getting a story that is complete for AdiLie.

Definitely… hence the SRK hug promo was seeming so out of sorts with where they are now....I am glad they skipped that completely...That's one main reason that their emotional journey shines so much because it not crowded with cliches ….…. and every step is highlighted and applauded.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

As innocent as sleeping on his arm was to us viewers it was totally a huge slip up on their part given their history.. and they can't be doing those slip ups right now given their situation caz it inky brings them closer when they are trying to deal.with the complexity of their bond and learn to. Live their lives alone esp imlie which is why she termed it as paap.. and for him too for all the other need for him to be around her it was out if the line caz it physically put them in a too personal space ...

Meanwhile I read the argument that they had sat on a bike he had lifted her sure they have done all that but doing that all in public domain is not as controversial as them sleeping by handholding in private with all the pull they feel for each other and with the baggage that makes it harder for them to digest caz the shaadi baggage will make it harder for them to consciously do any of that for a long time even if subconsciously they start accepting that

One might call it a slip up, but for me this scene was an extension of the comfortness that is developing between them.. I liked it more though for the aftermath which again highlighted that comfortness..... Both though acknowledged it was wrong in their minds, they did not let the awkwardness come in between...They were both still in the mind space of their emotional struggle between them and were more focused on resolving it or coming to terms with it. That's the beauty of this show, the emotional journey..😊

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think the emotional attachment from Adi is already morphing into a deeper fascination and by extension an attraction towards Imlie....or he wouldn't be watching her like this:

There is actually an interesting premise to explore with these two about the nature of how attraction can develop....the usual expectation is that it starts with the physical attraction being notable...but I think it has all taken a more roundabout path with these two....there has been an emotional attraction from almost the beginning that has only deepened with time and I think it is transitioning to a physical manifestation now because Adi is physically doing things to hold her closer, be closer to her...refusing to let go of her potli, refusing to let go of her cycle....it's all growing from there only bit by bit.

Obviously he will keep trying to deny it consciously and will keep trying to dismiss her as a bacchi....but then this guy is also currently using her studies as a cover for why she needs to come with him back to Delhi😆....so he will keep on making excuses to deny how much he is growing to need Imlie in every way.

It's not going to be a straight path for Adi to realize his attraction towards Imlie I think...it will keep getting draped in either irritation/scolding/jealousy/possessiveness etc.

Very nicely said...and thank you because I would not have seen this expression without these pictures....😊

Yes, generally there is a physical attraction then a emotional attraction but in Aditya case, he is so devoid of an emotional attachment with anyone that it holds a different kind of fascination for him....He has always been very physically lenient with her but now its has a different flavor to it or an aggressiveness as if he is afraid that the emotional attachment will go away if he lets go. I guess it started with the bike scene where she refused to keep her hand on his shoulder. It did affect him a lot and I guess, one could say that their physical connection would always be an extension of their emotional connection.

So, yes with all things Aditya, his attraction which is connected to his emotions is also going to be suppressed and its manifestation is going to take the form of strong emotions of irritation/ scolding/ jealousy/ possessiveness and he would be again asking himself "What am I saying and why am I saying this". 😊

Can someone explain what is Adi expecting from imlie? Iam confused. There is a scene where he is asking her “do you want me to leave? “ she was silent. He got angry and wanted to leave. I don’t understand what Adi wants her to say. He is under impression that marriage is invalid. He wanted her to stay away from him. He consider proximity as paap. Does he want her to say please don’t go Adi? I cannot understand what does Adi want her to say I will come with you to Delhi or something else. It’s confusing. His words are not aligned to his action