Anirudh Roy Choudhury AT#43~Tumhari Zimmedari Mere Jeevan Ka Laksh Hai - Page 61

Originally posted by: Doc.love

I try to empathize with everyone Nimzyyy...kisi ne mere sath kuch ghalat bhi kia ho tou bhi I try to put myself in their shoes and try to see ke usne aisa kyun kia hoga. Mien aik waqt ko Sampoorna tak ke motives ko understand ker sakty hun. Kitni bhi illogical kyun na ho, power-hunger mien baday baday loag buht kuch ker jatay hain. So, I can understand her as well.

I could understand Mini also. Usne kia kiya, kyun kia... samajh aaskta tha. Ghalat kia ya sahi, thats not the debate. Mager banday ka motive tou understandable ho na.

Yahan...Aniruddh ka mujhe motive hi samajh nahi aarha.

Matlab yar... What?

Aap ne aik sadak se aik insan ke bachay ki responsibility ly ... aap ne tabb tak uski responsibility achay se uthai jab tak usne aap se kuch demand nahi kia.

Lekin jaise hi usne apke samnay apni koi demand rakhy apni masoomiat mien,

aap aik damm flip ker gaye? Aap jo baday baday daway kerte thay, aap aik stupid sa societal pressure nahi tolerate ker sakay? Itnay weak thay aap?

Jis bachay ki aap ne responsibility ly thy, aap ne aik second nahi lagaya usko apne galay se utaar ker beech bazaar mien completely humiliate kerne mien.

Without even a 2nd thought?

Yar mien tum sab ke points ki buht respect kerty hun, mager mien ISS Aniruddh se na hi empathize ker paa rhy hun, na uske liye koi hamdardi jaag rhy hai mere dil mien.

He will reap what he has sown.

And I am looking forward to that!

P.S. Yar... Please koi offend na hona... Mager mien sach mien hi Aniruddh ko abh samajh hi nahi paa rahy.

Yeh kaisa admi hai yar?

Originally posted by: nims23

Yes he lost a hard fought battle with his temper but in a way circumstances were also not in his favor. Kaka could have easily stopped all this happenings but he did not and once the hell broke, ani was unstoppable-he tried so many times .. he took a break before uttering Any harsh words but in the end he lost his control over his mind .. he lost his own battle .

Yes he is going to regret a big time!! And we are in to see his redemption.. Bon is as much as hurt as ani but right now Bon has so many people on her side- first one is ani himself and Kaka too! Even koeli bihari as well as batuk .. but what about ani? He is at fault in everyone’s eyes!! Even Kaka wont be any help to get him out of his guilt .. !! So let’s see how the makers handle this very fragile situation !!

Ani is an impulsive person. He does everything at the heat of the moment,including his marriage. But still I cannot forgive the way he revealed everything to Bon. I agree Bon was being groomed in a wrong way, everyone feeding her nonsense. It is natural that Ani freaked out. But that doesn't give him right to humiliate her in front of everyone. Atleast he could have asked the guests to leave before telling everything. Now technically he made her a chodihuyi aurat again in front of the society. 1920s patriarchal society will accuse only Bon for not keeping her husband happy. The worst thing is Bon will be feeling guilty to ruin Ani's life. Now when Ani will show care her guilt will increase. She may not share her emotions with anyone anymore. I don't know how will makers redeem this emotional damage done to her.

My Ani-Bon shipper heart is completely broken. I don't want him as Bon's prospective future love interest after his recollection of AE as pahali nazar mein huye zindagi bhar ka prem and him caressing the bandage and cheeks at night. He can be her guardian. I want someone for Bon in future whose only love will be her.

P.S. I'm sorry if I offend anyone with my views

Originally posted by: GinniAARAFAN

👏sahi kahan par hume aisa lagta h hum use jagah hote to aise nahi karte par jo use waqt use situation mein rehta h uska alag nazariya hota hai hamara alag... Ab Anirudh pehle se hi aisa hai uska kuch samjh mein nahi ata 🤣

Haan...admi hai ya pyjama?

I have always wondered this. 🙊😆

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Haan...admi hai ya pyjama?

I have always wondered this. 🙊😆

Originally posted by: GinniAARAFAN

🤣 ahi nasa mein research chalu hai kya hai woh yeh bahut badi charcha ka vishay hai😆

NASA??😲

Alien samajh rhe hain kia isko? Kisi aur planet se ayi makhlooq?😆😆

Waise aliens bhi pareeshan hojayeinge iss banday ke dimagh ko le ker tou. 🤪

Originally posted by: Doc.love

I try to empathize with everyone Nimzyyy...kisi ne mere sath kuch ghalat bhi kia ho tou bhi I try to put myself in their shoes and try to see ke usne aisa kyun kia hoga. Mien aik waqt ko Sampoorna tak ke motives ko understand ker sakty hun. Kitni bhi illogical kyun na ho, power-hunger mien baday baday loag buht kuch ker jatay hain. So, I can understand her as well.

I could understand Mini also. Usne kia kiya, kyun kia... samajh aaskta tha. Ghalat kia ya sahi, thats not the debate. Mager banday ka motive tou understandable ho na.

Yahan...Aniruddh ka mujhe motive hi samajh nahi aarha.

Matlab yar... What?

Aap ne aik sadak se aik insan ke bachay ki responsibility ly ... aap ne tabb tak uski responsibility achay se uthai jab tak usne aap se kuch demand nahi kia.

Lekin jaise hi usne apke samnay apni koi demand rakhy apni masoomiat mien,

aap aik damm flip ker gaye? Aap jo baday baday daway kerte thay, aap aik stupid sa societal pressure nahi tolerate ker sakay? Itnay weak thay aap?

Jis bachay ki aap ne responsibility ly thy, aap ne aik second nahi lagaya usko apne galay se utaar ker beech bazaar mien completely humiliate kerne mien.

Without even a 2nd thought?

Yar mien tum sab ke points ki buht respect kerty hun, mager mien ISS Aniruddh se na hi empathize ker paa rhy hun, na uske liye koi hamdardi jaag rhy hai mere dil mien.

He will reap what he has sown.

And I am looking forward to that!

P.S. Yar... Please koi offend na hona... Mager mien sach mien hi Aniruddh ko abh samajh hi nahi paa rahy.

Yeh kaisa admi hai yar?

Ayesha! I understand how you feel. And in no way am I justifying Ani's behaviour. Doing what he did in yesterday's episode was a terrible thing to do.

I feel the only reason I can empathize with Ani is because I have reacted like this in the past. For a person with a temper, the fight against your temper is a daily affair. And I remember being frustrated at age 22, trying to explain to a boy why I don't want to date him. And this was without societal expectations thrown in the mix. Aise me it is not easy to explain to a fellow 22 year old, let alone a child.

Like I mentioned, in yesterday's episode I relived my own outbursts and I could clearly see Ani fighting his temper and failing spectacularly. But he fought so I can't be angry.

I am just disappointed that he lost and devastated for Bon.

Ani and Bon are not perfect people. They good people trying to make the best of their situations but not always succeeding. They fail, they learn and they grow. But isiliye I keep saying that BB is not a love story or a social drama, rather it is a bildungsroman.

Shamelessly requesting ki yeh post bhi padho tum.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/barrister-babu/5211318/barrister-babu-a-bildungsroman-at-heart

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Ayesha! I understand how you feel. And in no way am I justifying Ani's behaviour. Doing what he did in yesterday's episode was a terrible thing to do.

I feel the only reason I can empathize with Ani is because I have reacted like this in the past. For a person with a temper, the fight against your temper is a daily affair. And I remember being frustrated at age 22, trying to explain to a boy why I don't want to date him. And this was without societal expectations thrown in the mix. Aise me it is not easy to explain to a fellow 22 year old, let alone a child.

Like I mentioned, in yesterday's episode I relived my own outbursts and I could clearly see Ani fighting his temper and failing spectacularly. But he fought so I can't be angry.

I am just disappointed that he lost and devastated for Bon.

Ani and Bon are not perfect people. They good people trying to make the best of their situations but not always succeeding. They fail, they learn and they grow. But isiliye I keep saying that BB is not a love story or a social drama, rather it is a bildungsroman.

Shamelessly requesting ki yeh post bhi padho tum.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/barrister-babu/5211318/barrister-babu-a-bildungsroman-at-heart

Areyy sure sure...mien abhi padhty hun tumari post. I must have missed it somehow. 😕

🤗

I respect your POV completely though. 🤗

Originally posted by: Arcturus_S

Ani is an impulsive person. He does everything at the heat of the moment,including his marriage. But still I cannot forgive the way he revealed everything to Bon. I agree Bon was being groomed in a wrong way, everyone feeding her nonsense. It is natural that Ani freaked out. But that doesn't give him right to humiliate her in front of everyone. Atleast he could have asked the guests to leave before telling everything. Now technically he made her a chodihuyi aurat again in front of the society. 1920s patriarchal society will accuse only Bon for not keeping her husband happy. The worst thing is Bon will be feeling guilty to ruin Ani's life. Now when Ani will show care her guilt will increase. She may not share her emotions with anyone anymore. I don't know how will makers redeem this emotional damage done to her.

My Ani-Bon shipper heart is completely broken. I don't want him as Bon's prospective future love interest after his recollection of AE as pahali nazar mein huye zindagi bhar ka prem and him caressing the bandage and cheeks at night. He can be her guardian. I want someone for Bon in future whose only love will be her.

P.S. I'm sorry if I offend anyone with my views

ani impulsiveness led to bon marriage but the way he brought truth anf then left sampoo to take charge, it showed he is the victim of everything because society will blame bon fior her boldness, tarks and he could have rebuked society and kaka for everything and what kind of hubby wifey relationship he was telling to her, he bound her to same societal expectations, he should have told society and kaka for keeping so much expectations that bon felt like this, i think this will be done by bon to society and kaka for their stupid beliefs `and what they made ouyt fo her, if after this ani marries ae, everybody would blame bon only for everything and how she ruined ani life, she till now selfelssly gave efforts to make re;ationships

this emotional damage will create a scar in her heart plus on realsing whatver she went through, bon wont be able to bear, i hope makers show aura in this way rather giving her ott dialogues and ,maing her cry,

i want aif ani loves e ae but not marry her impulsively atleast not rn as it will break bon self dignity,make jer otusider and feel all relations are snatched as now by what rights she will ask ani for stuidies, help ,bon said when no one kept her hand on his, ani supproted and hel her hands firmly, ani is the zameen with which she wants her sky

ani should realise bon does not love him , she is just swayed by his kaka and societal beliefs

yes i want a person in bon life who can repair bon heart, who loves bon unconditinally, their relations are not by marriage but by the love showing society what is true love beyond any aspect

Originally posted by: Doc.love

I try to empathize with everyone Nimzyyy...kisi ne mere sath kuch ghalat bhi kia ho tou bhi I try to put myself in their shoes and try to see ke usne aisa kyun kia hoga. Mien aik waqt ko Sampoorna tak ke motives ko understand ker sakty hun. Kitni bhi illogical kyun na ho, power-hunger mien baday baday loag buht kuch ker jatay hain. So, I can understand her as well.

I could understand Mini also. Usne kia kiya, kyun kia... samajh aaskta tha. Ghalat kia ya sahi, thats not the debate. Mager banday ka motive tou understandable ho na.

Yahan...Aniruddh ka mujhe motive hi samajh nahi aarha.

Matlab yar... What?

Aap ne aik sadak se aik insan ke bachay ki responsibility ly ... aap ne tabb tak uski responsibility achay se uthai jab tak usne aap se kuch demand nahi kia.

Lekin jaise hi usne apke samnay apni koi demand rakhy apni masoomiat mien,

aap aik damm flip ker gaye? Aap jo baday baday daway kerte thay, aap aik stupid sa societal pressure nahi tolerate ker sakay? Itnay weak thay aap?

Jis bachay ki aap ne responsibility ly thy, aap ne aik second nahi lagaya usko apne galay se utaar ker beech bazaar mien completely humiliate kerne mien.

Without even a 2nd thought?

Yar mien tum sab ke points ki buht respect kerty hun, mager mien ISS Aniruddh se na hi empathize ker paa rhy hun, na uske liye koi hamdardi jaag rhy hai mere dil mien.

He will reap what he has sown.

And I am looking forward to that!

P.S. Yar... Please koi offend na hona... Mager mien sach mien hi Aniruddh ko abh samajh hi nahi paa rahy.

Yeh kaisa admi hai yar?

Kuch demand nahi kia.... When Aniruddh brought her home after marriage, he was devastated. No one was talking to him and he didn't want to perform some post marriage ritual. Bon went to him and asked him after this ritual, I can bring my mother here. He has put all his turmoil aside and sat in the ritual. Went to Bon's place to request her mom as well.

Ani asked Bon to stay in a guest room, but Bon insisted on staying in his room and he let her and left his room.

She asked him to hold his ears and apologize to her mother

Handiya bhar ke rashgulle.......

Bon thought she had a right to ask Aniruddh for anything and she did till date. In return, she gave him and his family everything she could.

Society pressure and weak man: Initially his whole family was against him and he got to know the bed wetting problem. If he had been weak, he would have left her back then. But didn't.

When he made a mistake and she landed in brothrel, he went on his knees and asked for her forgiveness in front of the prostitutes. He can easily ask for her for forgiveness personally. He didn't take any easy route.

In her naivety and society influence what Bon asked is an utterly wrong thing and unfathomable.

His own kaka made him eat some weird laddoo, what happens if he had touched her inappropriately or he couldn't come in time to save Bon on that night. There are certain things a man can handle and certain things he can't explain or handle. Didn't he made the pandit leave or try to explain kaka over and over again.

He is been taking shit from the day he married Bon. Sometimes fighting with the society, sometimes with his family, sometimes with Bon due to her lack of knowledge and sometimes with himself coz he doesn't know how to handle it.

Just because he took her responsibility, people expect him go handle all pressure silently without succumbing to it or losing himself. Pattar par bhi bar bar vaar karo, vo tuttha hi hai. Aniruddh phir bhi insaan hai.

Aniruddh didn't humiliate her. He was trying to tell her that her thinking is wrong. Their relationship is different. But when he couldn't explain it to her, he lost it and lashed out. It is wrong and harsh but there is no humiliation. It was sampoorna who humiliated Bondita. Agreed Aniruddh's weak moment gave her the right to hurt Bon openly.

Bon being a kid and unable to understand: Yes, but during those times, girls were deprived of childhood and were forced to grow up. The makers were trying to show how wrong it is at different levels. As long as she is under the warm shade of Aniruddh, Bondita will not understand the gravity of these situations. The truth is harsh and unbearable but Bon needed to know so that she can get the resolution from her own hardships and truly become an inspiration for other women.

Aniruddh cried at the end not for himself but for failing Bondita, hurting her and letting her know the cruel truth and making her loose her innocence.

Always an Aniruddh fan girl.... Not to offend anyone... Too much rant..

Originally posted by: pratyay

Kuch demand nahi kia.... When Aniruddh brought her home after marriage, he was devastated. No one was talking to him and he didn't want to perform some post marriage ritual. Bon went to him and asked him after this ritual, I can bring my mother here. He has put all his turmoil aside and sat in the ritual. Went to Bon's place to request her mom as well.

Ani asked Bon to stay in a guest room, but Bon insisted on staying in his room and he let her and left his room.

She asked him to hold his ears and apologize to her mother

Handiya bhar ke rashgulle.......

Bon thought she had a right to ask Aniruddh for anything and she did till date. In return, she gave him and his family everything she could.

Society pressure and weak man: Initially his whole family was against him and he got to know the bed wetting problem. If he had been weak, he would have left her back then. But didn't.

When he made a mistake and she landed in brothrel, he went on his knees and asked for her forgiveness in front of the prostitutes. He can easily ask for her for forgiveness personally. He didn't take any easy route.

In her naivety and society influence what Bon asked is an utterly wrong thing and unfathomable.

His own kaka made him eat some weird laddoo, what happens if he had touched her inappropriately or he couldn't come in time to save Bon on that night. There are certain things a man can handle and certain things he can't explain or handle. Didn't he made the pandit leave or try to explain kaka over and over again.

He is been taking shit from the day he married Bon. Sometimes fighting with the society, sometimes with his family, sometimes with Bon due to her lack of knowledge and sometimes with himself coz he doesn't know how to handle it.

Just because he took her responsibility, people expect him go handle all pressure silently without succumbing to it or losing himself. Pattar par bhi bar bar vaar karo, vo tuttha hi hai. Aniruddh phir bhi insaan hai.

Aniruddh didn't humiliate her. He was trying to tell her that her thinking is wrong. Their relationship is different. But when he couldn't explain it to her, he lost it and lashed out. It is wrong and harsh but there is no humiliation. It was sampoorna who humiliated Bondita. Agreed Aniruddh's weak moment gave her the right to hurt Bon openly.

Bon being a kid and unable to understand: Yes, but during those times, girls were deprived of childhood and were forced to grow up. The makers were trying to show how wrong it is at different levels. As long as she is under the warm shade of Aniruddh, Bondita will not understand the gravity of these situations. The truth is harsh and unbearable but Bon needed to know so that she can get the resolution from her own hardships and truly become an inspiration for other women.

Aniruddh cried at the end not for himself but for failing Bondita, hurting her and letting her know the cruel truth and making her loose her innocence.

Always an Aniruddh fan girl.... Not to offend anyone... Too much rant..

Well written Pratyay (Name?). As I keep repeating. Ani lost a battle today. Not against society, but against himself, against his temper. His thoughts are not at all wrong, but his temper was what made him lose it spectacularly. Ani is not perfect, he is young, he is impulsive, he makes mistakes, he fails, he loses. But he realizes his mistakes, he learns, he grows.

Hopefully this track teaches Ani what Bon means to him and how to better control his temper.

Also a fellow Ani fan. I end-up relating to him more than Bon.