I agree but we are yet to see what actually happens for me to comment on this. So I am going to leave the future episodes for now before I can comment on them.
I was writing a post about this wedding, but I couldn't complete. It is a serious one and I need enough time and be able to think right before I can post it. I might post it today or tomorrow. It talks about how it should have been and how even the wrong people are right in some ways and how Virat and Sai are incorrect.
Below is just a synopsis of what the post will look like.
So far I think Pulkit, Sai and Virat all of them are wrong.
It is Pulkit's wedding, he should be ensuring to give information to Virat because he is marrying his sister.
Also given the fact that in the past there were hurdles in their life, what is he doing that the family don't create another set of hurdles in his and Devi's life?
It looks like he has instead transferred responsibilities to Sai and is expecting her to fight his battles.
When he was not even welcome in CN, he sent across gifts to Devi? Did he think they are going to let their daughter accept it?
It is all fiction and that is why it looks so insensible. In real life this is not how a wedding takes place.
Sai knows Pulkit but doesn't know him well enough that she can trust Devi's life with him.
But when Pulkit visited their house, all the family members who are for this marriage vouched that Pulkit used to live with them and they know him and he is a good guy. Didn't Aai tell this? Didn't Virat apologise to him for what his family had done to him in the past?
How is Sai supposed to understand all this as? As an approval? And that he is really a good guy. Even when she shared about Harini to Virat, she told him that Pulkit sir only told me that he got her with many difficulties.
She did say "only" very clearly.
No objection or doubt raised by Virat?
When Virat said let's not dwell into the past, Sai nodded her head and agreed with him. So if Virat had said let me investigate or verify Pulkit and his history, is Sai going to stop him?
Why did he not do it? He said to Pakhi yesterday that Sai ne jaanch padthal ki hogi. If Sai is not supposed to go by face value, what is Virat doing? What jaanch padthal? Did he ask Sai how she had verified? What was the basis on which she says Pulkit is his sister's husband?
The thought that he could be already married never even entered him. Sai misunderstood him to be married and then when it got cleared , she is under an impression that one issue was cleared. Again she is wrong because she is only going by Pulkit's words.
I too had the same doubt before Pakhi pointed out yesterday. Why did none of them think that he could be marrying her to take revenge.
During Amay's incident Virat said chotey chotey kandon par right? Is it not now especially too chota to take up the responsibility of marriage? And that too of his dear sister who is not even keeping well.
Amay's incident was blown up because of Virat's insecurity too and that cannot be ignored. This guy went to college just to check on a student, to check his height, that is how illogical and fictional it is. Why is he not doing it now? Visiting his college or his house?
In the above quoted text, I also do feel that she doesn't apologise for her mistakes which I am very upset with. The remaining part, I will probably address it in the post because she is a complex character and not an easy one to be understood.
Her characterization is such that
- She is a good at heart person
- Trust worthy
- can go to any lengths for someone's happiness (I am yet to get a clarity on it but I feel for anyone, even Virat said that Sai will do it even for Pakhi and not just Devi, that is how I think she is)
- Selfless
- Honest
- Impulsive
- Short tempered
- Arrogant
- full of attitude person yet
- Kind
- Caring
- Affectionate
- Loving
Her relationship with Virat has always been confusing. I would not say she doesn't respect him or value him, she has many times but we are not able to see it all the time. Something is amiss and I am not able figure it out.
Before I enter the below, let me tell you that it is not at all for you, it is just my view in general. You and me have been interacting quite a lot and it is really good to know others point of view. I learn from others and it is interesting to listen to other's views too. There can many things we might have overlooked, so it is always good to come to a conclusion taking everyone's views into consideration.
As much as I like Virat, I cannot ignore that he is also at fault. So just like how I would not like Virat to be blamed for everything, I also cannot agree when Sai is blamed for everything.
All I am saying is blame should be for a mistake committed, not with a prejudiced view.
Well I am more of a Sai phankha than Virat.. Yet there are some attributes of her that I have issues with.She never apologizes to Virat owed an apology for Sai bringing that deal out in open infront of the family and calling him Pakhi's toy. Downright insulting. During Amey I gave her the benefit of doubt, keeping in mind her lack of experience and age, but this was too much. Also she does not question her decisions or her attitude towards Virat at times. In Pulkit's case since the guy is right she would again not question her impulse and decision.. My only issue with her character is not her impulse and short temper, but her arrogance and ego when it comes to Virat. Otherwise I agree to what you have spoken about Sai. She like Janki says is a dewdrop. When she cries with angry expression, I lover her valor ..her spirit her belief in herself, and when she cries because of hurt and heartbreak my heart goes out to her..
Virat has been an irresponsible IPS officer as far as the abuse both mental and physical posed on Sai by his family is concerned. He is also being an irresponsible brother to Devi right no. No two thoughts.You dont brush everything that your family does under the carpet to avoid confrontation.
Like a few days back I had put on Janki's topic.. Copying it here..
I dont really know whom to blame more among the two.. I mean with Sai I feel that her age and impulse and also her " I know it all" attitude is to blame.. The fact that every time she takes a stance against the Chavans.. she turns out to be at the right side, has encouraged her this attitude. The fact that Chavan's are mostly at the wrong side keeps her going with that attitude.. Sai also I believe has an ego issue, we have hardly seen her questioning herself on her behaviour with Virat, having a self talk. Her apology is till something that I am looking forward to .. If not Virat ..self realization would have been enough for me at this stage... But then to some extent I can still give Sai a benefit of doubt in this case..
But Virat ..Virat to me right now is extremely questionable..He is an IPS officer...ACP at that.. He is supposed to be tactful , intelligent and someone who explores all dynamics of a situation to reach a conclusion. Going with what he knows of Pulkit through his family members , I gave him a benefit of doubt, before he knew about Harini. But when he gets to know Pulkit has a daughter and she is supposedly Devyani's as well , which Sai is not sure off, should he not go and get it investigated,. Him being an ACP would make it pretty easy to get the details in minimal time. Also how can he just brush the abuse that Sai had to endure all the time under the family being orthodox. Sai would have been hit hard, had he not come in between. And his "Baba shobha deta hai aapko" was so flat.. Even though he kind of got pulled into Pulkit topic, should he not have later reprimanded his family for behaving that way with Sai. Is it not the kind of domestic abuse that would be getting reported to him at his police station on a daily basis?He keeps brushing the abuse both mental and physical that his family has been making Sai go through.. His Kaku wanted to break Sai's leg and his father raised his hand on her.. And all he cares about is a friendship between his love and wife?
Sai is somewhat still in character however IPS Virat Chavan's character is somehow something that I can't relate to at all.. at this moment..
For Virat's character I blame the CVs because they have deviated from what has been established in the beginning about him, you see jazbaat aur farz alag alag cheez hain.. and police ka dimag criminals se do kadam aage chalta hai ...
and for Sai i am actually questioning Sai, because Sai is consistent as of now.
Laksh I dont mind the discussion.. đ You see I am not being prejudiced about Sai or even Virat.. I am actually saying how both of them would be responsible for the separation.. And not just Virat specifically or Sai specifically..
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