Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 60

Hi everyone! Its been so long since I posted on here! How is everyone?

I saw Monday's episode, and honestly I really do not get why Ani is getting bashed left, right, and center. I loved Monday's episode, it was very ingrained in teenage angst. I loved Ani, he was alarmed that Bondita had a crush on him and was wanting to get close to him. His plight on making Bondita understand was beautiful, my mom when I was 13 told me that any "love" I felt now is not love rather infatuation of the idea of love, and looking at Ani I think he was trying to get at the same thing. My mom said falling in love is more beautiful when both parties are in equal footing and independent so that they fix their issues together. I today finally I realized why Ani reverted back to calling her his responsibility, in this era we realize a crush is normal for teenagers. But in that era this normal crush from being in the presence of someone and having them think about you was accepted as love to start an entire family. What Kaka and the others say is completely wrong, but it is accepted as right because they are married. This is why Ani is so against it, he realized that no matter what he thinks this wrong of attraction towards a child, the entire world sees it as right as they have called it spousal love. Even Bondita doesn't realize that what she is feeling is not spousal love, she is being fed wrong information by the society around her, and her bodily changes are making it so that she is not willing to listen to Ani. Gosh that world was cruel, how many girls were taken advantage of because of their ages makes me truly sad. I am really glad that Ani is still the voice of reason and I wanting to see how this track will progress.

Okayy...

Hello again, everyone!🤗

Mien aik baar phir tapak gai hun EDT mien...and this time, I have come after watching the episode.

I really dont care about Ani's feelings or the extent or depth or even the nature of those feelings for AE.

Even if he is infatuted, doesnt really matter. I have been saying this for sometime now that for me, this thing does not matter.

What matters is how he deals with the situation.

Unfortunately, he is failing big time.

I think he is just extremely freaked out at the moment because of Bondu's changed feelings and all.

He could have handled it nicely. He could have ignored it too if he understood how thick headed teenagers often become. Or he could have just talked to her about it in a very practical manner.

Itna drama kerne ki koi zarurat hi nahi thy.

Aik taraf he was worried about Bondu's komal nazuk dil, but the next he yells at her in front of all and blames that she deliberately broke that vase and tried to hurt Manorama! Now, that is some weird-ass inconsistent behavior that he demonstrated right there!

Even if she had done something like that, still yelling at her in front of everyone was how Aniruddh was trying to protect her nazuk komal dil???

It felt more like he was irked beyond limits and just vomitted.

Kher... he was wrong there. And the way he was being throughout the photosession...all of that could have been avoided if he had talked to Bondita when he had time...when he had all the time to scream about Aaltah and his name on her palm and this and that.

Anyway, ager itna logic or practicality dikhatay makers tou masala kahan se add hota!🤪

Lets see agay kia hota hai?

Dealing with a teenager is quite difficult. I was a difficult teenager too. My mother used to treat me with all the practicality in the world and would teach me things through examples. For most of the times, she would just laugh off at my crushes. 😆 Making me believe that these are just passing phases.

I wish Aniruddh had this experience too.. so he would have handled Bondita very nicely too.

Kher.. Abh kia ker sakte hain. He never had a mother and always had a very rocking relationship with his dad. Even with his brothers, he always behaves like a proper stoic dada. Tou ager Som bechare ko koi crush kabhi life mien hua bhi tou woh usko batayega hi nahi. 🤪

Originally posted by: Aishu13

Hi everyone! Its been so long since I posted on here! How is everyone?

I saw Monday's episode, and honestly I really do not get why Ani is getting bashed left, right, and center. I loved Monday's episode, it was very ingrained in teenage angst. I loved Ani, he was alarmed that Bondita had a crush on him and was wanting to get close to him. His plight on making Bondita understand was beautiful, my mom when I was 13 told me that any "love" I felt now is not love rather infatuation of the idea of love, and looking at Ani I think he was trying to get at the same thing. My mom said falling in love is more beautiful when both parties are in equal footing and independent so that they fix their issues together. I today finally I realized why Ani reverted back to calling her his responsibility, in this era we realize a crush is normal for teenagers. But in that era this normal crush from being in the presence of someone and having them think about you was accepted as love to start an entire family. What Kaka and the others say is completely wrong, but it is accepted as right because they are married. This is why Ani is so against it, he realized that no matter what he thinks this wrong of attraction towards a child, the entire world sees it as right as they have called it spousal love. Even Bondita doesn't realize that what she is feeling is not spousal love, she is being fed wrong information by the society around her, and her bodily changes are making it so that she is not willing to listen to Ani. Gosh that world was cruel, how many girls were taken advantage of because of their ages makes me truly sad. I am really glad that Ani is still the voice of reason and I wanting to see how this track will progress.

see bon does not even. know she has crush on ani because she did not show any suc kind of thing, it is the misconception in her mind and heart , she is just doing what people inflicted in her mind, she will realsie this in future and be thankful to ani for saving her from these feelings but for that era marriage was a sacred insititution so i think bon faith will be shaken on marriage and love and she will distant herself from everything be it ani care , kaka relations becayse she would feel what is her right on this, she is in illusion her shart was accepted by society that is why ani married her but she does not know the truth, i want bon to confront ani from her scratch and put her tarks to him,akaka and society

hope makers show this as this coming from bon would be very impactful, i want the bon at beginning back , that was a savage to watch.

also today bon was worried ani is not angry at her, when he scolded her , she was like i obey ur oders i think bon will become rebellious and come out of her misconceptions and even question kaka and society for their burden of expectattions

i hope makers show this as mark of respect to women

Originally posted by: Katy4566

But he has something for her in different looks like when kaka said go and hel Manorama he had subtle smile on her makers are not disclosing what he felt for her ,I dunno know if makers make Manorama take different screen space and also she won’t die neither she will do something negative

What I think is that she will be forcefully married and Bon would help her I guess and get stuck and also I think makers have shown an independent girl in front of ani who is better than bon so love is not yet to be disclosed but after this bon won’t believe on marriage and love for that she would require someone once against

I hope makers send bon on oath of self realisation where she realises she has been wronged by her own mama Mami,sister and she faced so much not because of society of whom she is not scared but because of her own people and lash out at Everyoke for playing with her innocent mind and heart it should come from bon to make an impact

+ 100000000000

Will wait for some time to know its only admiration for manorama or zindagi bhar ka pyaar.

His majnu type looks to manorama was eye sore to watch.

His clarification about his feelings for mano is NECESSARY to enjoy future of ani bon as AniDita.

Originally posted by: PRIME1

+ 100000000000

Will wait for some time to know its only admiration for manorama or zindagi bhar ka pyaar.

His majnu type looks to manorama was eye sore to watch.

His clarification about his feelings for mano is NECESSARY to enjoy future of ani bon as AniDita.

vaise in upcoming bts kaka and bon in that thing, did kaka manipulate bon again , i want a firm bondita coming out of misconceptions

Friends my what if ani still on the mood of jaminthary feel towards bon even bon become barrister babu in future it actions says he's not feel nothing more then parent I some how feel it's correct or not I am confusing please help me with your comments I feel there are no future in their relationship it's clearly says Today epi

Originally posted by: Katy4566

vaise in upcoming bts kaka and bon in that thing, did kaka manipulate bon again , i want a firm bondita coming out of misconceptions

Its high time kaka must stop parivarik jeevan Jaap. Its harming ani bon relationship but he s still adamant on this.

Originally posted by: Nathiya143

Friends my what if ani still on the mood of jaminthary feel towards bon even bon become barrister babu in future it actions says he's not feel nothing more then parent I some how feel it's correct or not I am confusing please help me with your comments I feel there are no future in their relationship it's clearly says Today epi

Hiii...

You are right. For now, there is nothing except for a profound feeling of mutual care and affection.

After the munshi track, I always believed that deep down, Aniruddh feels more for her.

But clearly,he doesnt.

Even Bondu doesnt love him. She respects him a lot, considers him as her mentor....and now, because of the societal wrong feeding, she has started to 'Love the idea' of being in love with him. But actually she doesnt.

Both of them are attached with each other like any two living beings who spend a considerable amount of time with each other. Its like, if you rescue an animal from the streets, then raise that animal up, after a month or so, you will be very attached with it. And it will get attached with you too.

You can take the example of an adopted kid. When you take care of them, soon you get attached with them.

The love that would give birth to these scenarios is a very different kind of love than what we generally perceive.

Aniruddh and Bondita are also going to have a very different kind of love story. (If makers want!)

Atm...its just the attachment and both have become habitual of each other.

Their 'love story' will never be anything 'normal' as we believe.

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Hiii...

You are right. For now, there is nothing except for a profound feeling of mutual care and affection.

After the munshi track, I always believed that deep down, Aniruddh feels more for her.

But clearly,he doesnt.

Even Bondu doesnt love him. She respects him a lot, considers him as her mentor....and now, because of the societal wrong feeding, she has started to 'Love the idea' of being in love with him. But actually she doesnt.

Both of them are attached with each other like any two living beings who spend a considerable amount of time with each other. Its like, if you rescue an animal from the streets, then raise that animal up, after a month or so, you will be very attached with it. And it will get attached with you too.

You can take the example of an adopted kid. When you take care of them, soon you get attached with them.

The love that would give birth to these scenarios is a very different kind of love than what we generally perceive.

Aniruddh and Bondita are also going to have a very different kind of love story. (If makers want!)

Atm...its just the attachment and both have become habitual of each other.

Their 'love story' will never be anything 'normal' as we believe.

Yes ani and bon r just too much attached then any thing else. BON is too young even to think about pyar etc and for ani pyaar is only a emotion that has beauty with brain, he himself doesn't know what it is actually.

Ur siggy for bondu is too deep to read the depth of words. Being a kid she is so much emotionally invested in him .Like Urdu shayeris about life very much.

Originally posted by: PRIME1

Yes ani and bon r just too much attached then any thing else. BON is too young even to think about pyar etc and for ani pyaar is only a emotion that has beauty with brain, he himself doesn't know what love is actually.

Ur siggy for bondu is too deep to read the depth of words. Like Urdu shayeris about life very much.

Heyy buddy! 🤗You are familiar with urdu?

I love Urdu shayeri too.

I used to do some back in the days... 😳

P.S. My siggy is basically a couplet from the OST of Bepannah. It was a Jennifer Winget and Harshad Chopda show. Aired 2 years ago at colors.

The lyrics seemed to fit Bondu's situation...