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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: somewhereover


Yea she’s used to being a free bird so there’s bound to be some conflict there.
If she decides something without letting him know, he might throw a fit. Who knows? We saw how he did want Shagun to ask him before applying to Cambridge and it’s likely he’ll have similar expectations of Anokhi

Yes.. right. he never actually loved Shagun yet he has some expectation. here he will love Anokhi so he will definitely expect a lot

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: prs_725

@Bold: really? What is the reason for this?


The whole patriarchal set up of the society and the way society views working women and women in general.

Basically whatever shaurya said in the initial promos is word by word mentality of the society, and it runs a lot deeper.

Hopefully this was a good enough answer because if I dive a little bit deeper I would end up writing content worth 10 chapters of fan fiction lol 😂

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

Yes.. right. he never actually loved Shagun yet he has some expectation. here he will love Anokhi so he will definitely expect a lot


But along with love, he needs to make her and her needs and desires a priority too, not just put all his expectations on her and expect to be her priority; this is what he wanted off of Shagun and hence Shagun left him and rightly so; anyways this is going to be his character Development with respect to his views on career oriented women.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: EternalSoul17


But along with love, he needs to make her and her needs and desires a priority too, not just put all his expectations on her and expect to be her priority; this is what he wanted off of Shagun and hence Shagun left him and rightly so; anyways this is going to be his character Development with respect to his views on career oriented women.

Well I dont think he wll not take care of her...all he will be wishing that Anokhi keep Shaurya's demand on top of the list...so clash may happen. This is what I feel.

Like she has a class, but he want her at home for some function, somethng along that line...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: prs_725

I also think the same, she might question him as he is a professor and an educator and how he can have such thinking. It will show the most of educated people today also hold regressive thinking in the society. He did say "BS" to her speech on the debate competition and mentioned something along the lines of "women look good at home"

So i feel like that part of him is daba hua for now and will come out eventually. We can all dislike him then lol


Yeah true, and I know ki this thinking will come out eventually but I also think he doesn’t totally understand in what ways women are oppressed specially if they are financially dependent on someone and that someone is a jerk. He needs to see across his own house and see how Bahus are given second class treatment in his own home.

Par I have also seen him support Kanchan on multiple occasions (gayatri too) isi liye I highlighted this fact ki he himself will not treat his wife wrongly despite having patriarchal notions about women and career.

Matlab uss ek thinking ko leave karke aur sab me he is pretty much pro women, I feel.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

Well I dont think he wll not take care of her...all he will be wishing that Anokhi keep Shaurya's demand on top of the list...so clash may happen. This is what I feel.

Like she has a class, but he want her at home for some function, somethng along that line...


Ohh, I see what you are saying, I hope jab Shaadi ho toh already uski thinking change ho jaaye warna it would Be out of anokhi’s character to marry a man with such thinking.

Like I envision ki after marriage shaurya actually supports her and her dreams just like so many one shots here have depicted ki while falling in love with her itself he falls in love with her dreams too and promises to stand by her.

Only then can i see anokhi accepting shaurya.


So I hope ki woh situation hi naa aye ki wo expect karte hai ki woh apni classes leave karke koi function attend kare.


Let’s see how makers are going to handle this part of his thinking hopefully it is handled before marriage only, warna anokhi’s character for me won’t make sense.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: EternalSoul17


Ohh, I see what you are saying, I hope jab Shaadi ho toh already uski thinking change ho jaaye warna it would Be out of anokhi’s character to marry a man with such thinking.

Like I envision ki after marriage shaurya actually supports her and her dreams just like so many one shots here have depicted ki while falling in love with her itself he falls in love with her dreams too and promises to stand by her.

Only then can i see anokhi accepting shaurya.


So I hope ki woh situation hi naa aye ki wo expect karte hai ki woh apni classes leave karke koi function attend kare.


Let’s see how makers are going to handle this part of his thinking hopefully it is handled before marriage only, warna anokhi’s character for me won’t make sense.


I dont think yeh situation aayegi.


Abhi Shaurya ke realisation ko time hai. When he confesses his love ,he will know what he is getting into. He knows Anokhi very well. Confession tak aur aache se jaan jayega. He thought he knew Shagun well...but she didnt inform him that she wished to go abroad for studies. Im not saying that she needs his permission. But if he made it clear, that he dosent want his wife to do any of this, then wanting to study further didnt make sense to him. But with Anokhi, he isn't going to tell her his partner requirements anytime soon. But just by observing her , he has understood that she's stubborn girl with big dreams. She also has the zeal to achieve it . And her ziddi-ness is what makes her attractive to him many times. Plus Anokhi is a reflection of Astha's values. We might hate Anokhi's Astha jaap. But we need to see that all this affects Shaurya. He has began seeing Astha in a different light. He even thought about Astha's words today. Anokhi is bridging that gap by continuously doing that jaap. I feel as he gets closer to Astha, his thinking of working women will change.

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