Originally posted by: Katy4566
Hey I have another perception pls tell me if my way is r if my way is right or not
You remember before parivarik Jeevan started
1. During bon first periods and bon staying away we saw ani depth of feelings ,bon staying away from him ,he literally considered her as his wife like why did she not come to samaraho,he said my Bondita can’t do this ,he was affected by her anger ,her ignorance he was pained to see her like this ,her emotions ,her fear mattered to her when Bondita aspired she would go out in her periods and she became aspiring Anirudh held her hand like a husband there but that laddoo he realised what his kaka did with him and Bondita ,he was scared what if in his drunken state he would have done something and Bondita would have never forifiven him , he is letting bon live her life ,but have u seen one thing
Bon baby went through emotional losses ,she is a kid or she is expected to love everyone ,forgive everyone but if she would have been adult she would have been outrageous to not live in same house with sampoorna ,she would have questioned kaka as why he forced her to consummate marriage when she is not ready for it
Don’t u think a grown up bon would feel disgusted and uneasy with subah raat and physical intimacy becuase of what she went through those ladies talk and kaka Promise at a young age , will she be able to see husband in ani when she comes to know meaning of it , how will she feel about all those burden imposed on her at young age when she will get educated in true sense ,sans kar will be there in her bon ,she will keep her family intact but what about her own personal life ??
Ani rn knows bon talents ,tarks ,ability ,her progressive thought which needs mould and therefore sees her future as a barrister and her career ,he himself does not know what would be an adult bon perspective ,emotions yet his fault is that he should let bon come out of those misconceptions and fight samaj and society to stop pressuring bon especially kaka also .
U know why small girls who were child brides expected to consummate marriage and become mother so that their life is chained from their childhood ,why she is taught become Kushal grahini, patnidharma ,Sanskar as bahu and wife so that when she grows up ,she gets emotional maturity and wants to hold her life but she can’t as her mind is inclined in one direction like Greenwood said frog In a well ,so that they don’t realise they can love anyone in their life , their possibilities to love and seek happiness is finished and they are expected to love their hubby
My only problem is that if ani starts loving azaadi then let him first make bon come out of these misconceptions and let her decide her life with truth and she will grow up in 2 or 3 years and realise emotional maturity and she will question everyone and feel broken because of everything
@Bold:
If this happens I'll be the happiest person on planet,if Anirudh confronts her ,tells her over her face that
you my dear ,are not my wife,neither I your husband!
It's a big misconception you're bearing,we are pseudo married,I am harbouring feelings for AE,but don't worry at all,I'm a man of principles,I'm the epitome of greatness and I'll always choose you over AE.After all,you're my zimmedari! I'll better part ways with all the loves of my life than watching you not fulfilling my stubborn expectations and not becoming what I want you to become!But keep one-thing in mind,I'll conveniently sway between you as my liability and as my wife! Hope you'll have no problem?
When I need to impose any restrictions or command on you,I may say "Toh ab Bondita meri patni hain,uske jivan mein jo bhi nirnay honge mere honge"
But you mustn't think I'm truly your husband okay?Because I'll roam about valleys and hills and proclaim to every other random person that you're just a zimmedari!When samaj ke log will tell me to fulfill husband duties,I'll say come on!!Bondita is just a zimmedari!
But listen, don't be hurt alright?
Accha chalo, I'll still allow you to call me patibabu,this much favour can be granted, given you're working so hard to live upto my expectations!Oops,I forgot , you saved me twice nah?
Okay enough of small talks,I have to go,can't keep AE waiting!
Keep studying,my zimmedari!
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