Sai will keep rejecting virat - Page 7

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

tho aap dhanya ho....cuz main tho uss insaan ki taraf dekhoongi bhi nay if i know that he likes someone else.

as u shared few details i will share some too. i used to like a guy..ithna ki i worked sooo hard and lost 25 Kgs of weight for him even after being big-time foodie. later i got to know that he likes someone else. even though my feelling for him were soo strong main ne yeh jaan ne ke baadh ki he likes someone else main ne usse dubara mudkar bhi nay dekha.

sai is of my kind maybe thats why i understand why she is like this..lol. so mere hisaab se knowing that he/she likes someone else phir bhi uski taraf feelings express karna actions mein ya baaton mein is the stupidest thing to do, that is my opinion and sai is doing the same so i understand her here.

i respect ur pov as well as sab ki apni apni opinions hote hai.

yes sai enjoys the attention that virat gives her, when someone truly cares for you u will enjoy it..its not that u have choice there. she said many times ki 'aapko meri chinta karne ki zaroorat nay hai' etc..she didnt ask for it..yeh uski bas mein nay hai ki virat uskeliye kya karta hai.. he says 'main tumhareliye karna chahta hoon..so kar raha hoon' just like feeding her food with his hands or wanting to take her on a trip.

about the money and all, she is taking that with the intention of returning it back, usse pehle hi as this is the show love confession and consummation and everything happens lol.

and i dont agree with the jelabie thing cuz sai is the only one jo bina dhare bina soch sach bolti hai, spasht shabh mein...u can see that in the show..

Agar Virat hoti na to I would had never tolerate this nasty behaviour for a day pata nhi kyu. Virat tolerate kar raha hain

Jabtak virat tolerate karta rahega sai usse aise hi garbage ki tarah treat karti rahegi .

Vahi to post mentioned kiya tha , sai kept rejecting virat but d day he choose to leave her , she confessed .

Ye kya hain bad mein confess hi karna tha reject kis khushi mein kar rahi thi.

Coz rono got himself transferred & distance himself from her .

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Agreed Sai is a tantrum queen. 18 year ki rebellious girl ko apne maayke ki aadtein chodd kar sasural ki aadtein accept karne mai zyada waqt lag raha hai.

Reg jalebis, Sai aisi koi jalebi serve nahi kar rahi jo virat ko confuse karde ki vo virat se pyaar karti hai ya phir kisi aur bande se.

Leaving the house - No one is denying that he is not a zimmedar (responsible) husband even Sai doesn't denies it. Virat ne vaada diya hai except for love, he will fulfill all the zimmedari of husband and he is doing it too- Medical college mai admission karaya, money de raha for Sai's expenses, ab toh ghar chodne ki baat bhi kardi but ultimately inn sab actions ke peeche the reason which Virat gives is 'ZIMMEDARI' -a zimmedari of husband/guardian whatever suits him.

Doing things out of love and doing things out of duty or as a responsibility are not same.

Ek loving husband zimmedar hota hai but ek zimmedar husband loving ho yeh zaruri nahi hota hai and currently Virat is second case.

The counterattack for 'zimmedari' is the 'deal' word for Sai. Virat kehta hai vo zimmedari nibha raha hai toh Sai kehti hai yeh zimmedari ki expiry date is 5years and this is the deal.

Another important thing, it is not necessary for two people to fall in love at the same time...Virat has started falling for Sai that doesn't mean Sai also has to start falling for him now itself. She can take her own time.

The separation track will help both virat and Sai to realise what and how much they mean to each other.

Originally posted by: deepzz

Agreed Sai is a tantrum queen. 18 year ki rebellious girl ko apne maayke ki aadtein chodd kar sasural ki aadtein accept karne mai zyada waqt lag raha hai.

Reg jalebis, Sai aisi koi jalebi serve nahi kar rahi jo virat ko confuse karde ki vo virat se pyaar karti hai ya phir kisi aur bande se.

Leaving the house - No one is denying that he is not a zimmedar (responsible) husband even Sai doesn't denies it. Virat ne vaada diya hai except for love, he will fulfill all the zimmedari of husband and he is doing it too- Medical college mai admission karaya, money de raha for Sai's expenses, ab toh ghar chodne ki baat bhi kardi but ultimately inn sab actions ke peeche the reason which Virat gives is 'ZIMMEDARI' -a zimmedari of husband/guardian whatever suits him.

Doing things out of love and doing things out of duty or as a responsibility are not same.

Ek loving husband zimmedar hota hai but ek zimmedar husband loving ho yeh zaruri nahi hota hai and currently Virat is second case.

The counterattack for 'zimmedari' is the 'deal' word for Sai. Virat kehta hai vo zimmedari nibha raha hai toh Sai kehti hai yeh zimmedari ki expiry date is 5years and this is the deal.

Another important thing, it is not necessary for two people to fall in love at the same time...Virat has started falling for Sai that doesn't mean Sai also has to start falling for him now itself. She can take her own time.

The separation track will help both virat and Sai to realise what and how much they mean to each other.

Sai ko sasural ko accept karne ki zarurat nhi hain,vo worthy bhi nhi hain

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Agar Virat hoti na to I would had never tolerate this nasty behaviour for a day pata nhi kyu. Virat tolerate kar raha hain

Jabtak virat tolerate karta rahega sai usse aise hi garbage ki tarah treat karti rahegi .

Vahi to post mentioned kiya tha , sai kept rejecting virat but d day he choose to leave her , she confessed .

Ye kya hain bad mein confess hi karna tha reject kis khushi mein kar rahi thi.

Coz rono got himself transferred & distance himself from her .

sai ki baatein and behavior we can only understand if we are in her shoes, yeh sab bahut baar discuzz hochuki hai so i dont want to repeat the same explanations.

as i will say is that here all characters are flawed, virat wasn't always right or his behavior towards sai was always right. when virat can be flawed then why cant sai be?😆

isiliye god make jodies jo ek dusre ko chel paaye warna har kisi ki shaadi tootjaati duniya mein if people start thinking ki 'jaana hai tho jaane do' lol

and sai confessing love and all usse pehle after virat realised his love for sai after this separation track. in KD he was never a pendulum after that. virat in there manytimes clearly said that pakhi si his past and he wants to move on. tamil mein ayisa hi tha..he wants to move on and he clearly says few things there which even samrat tries to make sai understand. there sai was like whatever happened is not easy to forget..not easy to forget that virat loved someone else and all. cuz of which virat wants to stay away from him. there she understands that virat truely loves her and he really forgot pakhi...so it was justifiable there...

here story didnt progress yet and virat isn't that 'clear' yet..so u need to wait till then.

kuch logon keliye yeh aasan nay hota digest karne keliye that his/her spouse used to love someone else. its the same with sai.

virat ko tho sai ka kisike saath closely baath karna tak pasand nay hai then how u can expect sai to be ok with knowing virat used to 'love' someone else woh bhi unhi ki saath uss ghar mein rehti hai...

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

tho aap dhanya ho....cuz main tho uss insaan ki taraf dekhoongi bhi nay if i know that he likes someone else.

as u shared few details i will share some too. i used to like a guy..ithna ki i worked sooo hard and lost 25 Kgs of weight for him even after being big-time foodie. later i got to know that he likes someone else. even though my feelling for him were soo strong main ne yeh jaan ne ke baadh ki he likes someone else main ne usse dubara mudkar bhi nay dekha.

sai is of my kind maybe thats why i understand why she is like this..lol. so mere hisaab se knowing that he/she likes someone else phir bhi uski taraf feelings express karna actions mein ya baaton mein is the stupidest thing to do, that is my opinion and sai is doing the same so i understand her here.

i respect ur pov as well as sab ki apni apni opinions hote hai.

yes sai enjoys the attention that virat gives her, when someone truly cares for you u will enjoy it..its not that u have choice there. she said many times ki 'aapko meri chinta karne ki zaroorat nay hai' etc..she didnt ask for it..yeh uski bas mein nay hai ki virat uskeliye kya karta hai.. he says 'main tumhareliye karna chahta hoon..so kar raha hoon' just like feeding her food with his hands or wanting to take her on a trip.

about the money and all, she is taking that with the intention of returning it back, usse pehle hi as this is the show love confession and consummation and everything happens lol.

and i dont agree with the jelabie thing cuz sai is the only one jo bina dhare bina soch sach bolti hai, spasht shabh mein...u can see that in the show..

Sai living in that house of abusers.. in itself shows she cares for him..Before leaving college..do the household work for dil ke ache bade.. taunt k masale k sath...wapis aakar kaam karo..taunt k masale k sath..fir padho.. fir pakhi didi ka virat se jaruri kaam dekho/suno taunt ke masale k sath..aur apni had mei raho taunt k masale k sath.. If this is not care then what is ..I am not sure.. She got back Pakhi in the house..even when she knows Pakhi is after her all the time...just because she assumed Virat sir Pakhi didi k bina bechain hain... It was her care for him that made her do that...Got him food at night..when she knew he would not have eaten at all.. got worried when she was told by him that he did not eat the whole day after the fight scene, took the money even after being told that the money was not hers.. just because she knew his apology is heartfelt.. and the very recent one..gave her hand in his ..immediately when she realized he is regretting the manhandling..

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

sai ki baatein and behavior we can only understand if we are in her shoes, yeh sab bahut baar discuzz hochuki hai so i dont want to repeat the same explanations.

as i will say is that here all characters are flawed, virat wasn't always right or his behavior towards sai was always right. when virat can be flawed then why cant sai be?😆

isiliye god make jodies jo ek dusre ko chel paaye warna har kisi ki shaadi tootjaati duniya mein if people start thinking ki 'jaana hai tho jaane do' lol

and sai confessing love and all usse pehle after virat realised his love for sai after this separation track. in KD he was never a pendulum after that. virat in there manytimes clearly said that pakhi si his past and he wants to move on. tamil mein ayisa hi tha..he wants to move on and he clearly says few things there which even samrat tries to make sai understand. there sai was like whatever happened is not easy to forget..not easy to forget that virat loved someone else and all. cuz of which virat wants to stay away from him. there she understands that virat truely loves her and he really forgot pakhi...so it was justifiable there...

here story didnt progress yet and virat isn't that 'clear' yet..so u need to wait till then.

kuch logon keliye yeh aasan nay hota digest karne keliye that his/her spouse used to love someone else. its the same with sai.

virat ko tho sai ka kisike saath closely baath karna tak pasand nay hai then how u can expect sai to be ok with knowing virat used to 'love' someone else woh bhi unhi ki saath uss ghar mein rehti hai...

It's a great sin that virat was supposedly in love with pakhi before sai

Kya kare virat pakhi ko nikal ke ghar se bahar phek de , I guess he can't do that coz only samrat can end his relationship with pakhi.

I guess when samrat wanted to end his relationship with pakhi , emon ya Saranya only adviced him to rethink I can be wrong .

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Sai living in that house of abusers.. in itself shows she cares for him..Before leaving college..do the household work for dil ke ache bade.. taunt k masale k sath...wapis aakar kaam karo..taunt k masale k sath..fir padho.. fir pakhi didi ka virat se jaruri kaam dekho/suno taunt ke masale k sath..aur apni had mei raho taunt k masale k sath.. If this is not care then what is ..I am not sure.. She got back Pakhi in the house..even when she knows Pakhi is after her all the time...just because she assumed Virat sir Pakhi didi k bina bechain hain... It was her care for him that made her do that...

Return d taunt to virat wo bhi masale ke saath.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

It's a great sin that virat was supposedly in love with pakhi before sai

Kya kare virat pakhi ko nikal ke ghar se bahar phek de , I guess he can't do that coz only samrat can end his relationship with pakhi.

I guess when samrat wanted to end his relationship with pakhi , emon ya Saranya only adviced him to rethink I can be wrong .

all virat needs to do is stop making jelabies and tell her tat he moved on from pakhi..thats all. 😆

secondly, virat told pakhi to think of her and samrat's relation as destiny and move on jab she baar baar said ki she dont give a damn about samrat..lol..

she even left home to focus on her life, virat went to her house requested her, taunted sai and made her feel guilty, called pakhi many times and made new promise and made her come back. sai kept her ego aside seeing virat's haal and went to pakhi's ghar and requested her... yeh sab kisi ko nay dikhta..lol

when when two people are getting divorced its swabavik to ask them to rethink cuz samrat bhi wahi hai and pakhi bhi wahi hai, where as virat advised pakhi all this when he dont even know ki samrat waapis aayega bhi ya nay...he told her to think of all this as her destiny and live lol...

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

all virat needs to do is stop making jelabies and tell her tat he moved on from pakhi..thats all. 😆

secondly, virat told pakhi to think of her and samrat's relation as destiny and move on jab she baar baar said ki she dont give a damn about samrat..lol..

she even left home to focus on her life, virat went to her house requested her, taunted sai and made her feel guilty, called pakhi many times and made new promise and made her come back. sai kept her ego aside seeing virat's haal and went to pakhi's ghar and requested her... yeh sab kisi ko nay dikhta..lol

when when two people are getting divorced its swabavik to ask them to rethink cuz samrat bhi wahi hai and pakhi bhi wahi hai, where as virat advised pakhi all this when he dont even know ki samrat waapis aayega bhi ya nay...he told her to think of all this as her destiny and live lol...

Virat be bhi bahut kuch kiya hain vo kyu undekha kar diya jata hai.

Yes virat taunted sai jo ki galat hai I agreed, lekin usko bhi taunt karne ka mauka milna chahiye jab sai khud taunt karti rehti hai.

It was sai who decided to virat is dying without pakhi who listen his phone call with sunny.

If I m right virat was taunted by Cgang when pakhi was not back .

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

sai ki baatein and behavior we can only understand if we are in her shoes, yeh sab bahut baar discuzz hochuki hai so i dont want to repeat the same explanations.

as i will say is that here all characters are flawed, virat wasn't always right or his behavior towards sai was always right. when virat can be flawed then why cant sai be?😆

isiliye god make jodies jo ek dusre ko chel paaye warna har kisi ki shaadi tootjaati duniya mein if people start thinking ki 'jaana hai tho jaane do' lol

and sai confessing love and all usse pehle after virat realised his love for sai after this separation track. in KD he was never a pendulum after that. virat in there manytimes clearly said that pakhi si his past and he wants to move on. tamil mein ayisa hi tha..he wants to move on and he clearly says few things there which even samrat tries to make sai understand. there sai was like whatever happened is not easy to forget..not easy to forget that virat loved someone else and all. cuz of which virat wants to stay away from him. there she understands that virat truely loves her and he really forgot pakhi...so it was justifiable there...

here story didnt progress yet and virat isn't that 'clear' yet..so u need to wait till then.

kuch logon keliye yeh aasan nay hota digest karne keliye that his/her spouse used to love someone else. its the same with sai.

virat ko tho sai ka kisike saath closely baath karna tak pasand nay hai then how u can expect sai to be ok with knowing virat used to 'love' someone else woh bhi unhi ki saath uss ghar mein rehti hai...

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Agreed , Virat was the first one to draw the line in the first place. No offence . Just my pov. I agree Sai is also distancing herself from him,but she has clearly given the reason also,that too directly,infront of everyone. And as I have already said,he is supposed to clear it to her ,not to didi. And he has to show that the line he drew is non existent now. But the other problem in all them,is the stupid CN and their issues. One or the other has something a d there is super lack of privacy as well. This is also a reason,cuz someone brings one side of Virat,a d someone makes her believe that Virat in not supposed to be hers at the first place.

Cuz Sai is currently"tu pyaar hai kisi aur ka"

And Virat is trying to be "kyunki tu meri dost hai "mode,but Sai with others he goes "hai hai mirchi "mode.

Both are flawed,she acts out of instinct as a survival reason and he acts correctly but not according to she wants. So both are at loss.

Maybe that is why they want to establish this track,making her from a part of priority to no.1 priority.

Tabhi maine kaha tha,chipkali chodo,and make both of them stay at one place a d make them clear things.