Kuch pa kar khona hai, kuch kho kar pana hai.. - Page 6

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

@bold: Exactly. That is now the 'miscommunication', which can be easily clarified in one conversation but it won't be ... Earlier it was the condition now it has turned into the biggest misconception. And that is why i don't agree with those who think Sai must take the first step and not Virat. She won't, unless he specifies that he has moved on and wants the marriage. He has to answer her direct question about the commitment, which she asked him in their private fight. She has asked him why is he marrying her if he doesn't 'love' her? It is time he answers those questions if he really wants her to understand his jalebis. Otherwise, as a 19 year old with a strong sense of self-respect, she will never bare her heart to him.

Indeed.. Like I mentioned in one of my topics(which I assumed you liked as well..still pasting here as it resonates with this talk..Sorry u might not want to read again.)

Sai... Sigh.. the issue with her is , she is more stuck with Virat's waada than Virat himself. She has a lot of self respect and to some extent ego as well. She has been rejected by Virat in a subtle manner as soon as the marriage was decided. Mind you when Virat said you can leave this marriage whne you become a doctor she did not reply , only during the puja after marriage when Virat mentioned the vaada and was too involved in his imaginations of Pakhi she said the first time she would leave. So just after taking vows with Sai , he rejected her as his wife under the garb of responsibility. And then soon after marriage he wanted her to get trained by Pakhi to become mature and she did ask him do want me to become mature like Pakhi ..he said yes. Sai would believe he wants her to become a mirror image of Pakhi...which in turn is insulting... Sai is stuck there. Words like "you make me happy", "you are important to me" are not going to suffice to forget that insult ..that rejection. Sai needs to know she is more important to him than Pakhi, because Pakhi was the barrier he had set between them. She needs to know them in clear words. Sai being young and having had no relationship/crush before needs plain simple words.. You tell her you will bad about her leaving the room , whe will understand without question. You tell her you want her to come to the trip, she will understand it without question. You tell her she is family she will understand without answering back. Sai was clearly told that this marriage is a deal and nothing more than that..Sai needs to be told that this marriage is not a deal any more in words and nothing ..no waada holds any importance except the one made to her , when it comes to her. Sai wants her jagah in his life.. Sai's self respect has made her create a wall where she does not want Virat to see her hopelessness when it is about him. She does not want him to see that he is important infact very very important to her and later on reject her saying this was not our deal..you were not supposed to have expectations..More than Virat Sai would be adamant on the deal till he lets his guard down completely. For Sai Virat has become really valuable but then she would not admit to even her aayi.

Virat's need to compare himself with Kamal Sir every time reflects his yearning to find that love ..that importance ..that passion in Sai's eyes like she had for Kamal Sir. Sai has committed to have loved only her father.. So he wants to reach there where she loves him first and then explore the sexual dynamics.. Virat is not there yet... he first wants to see his importance his place in Sai's life..and then probably if its reciprocated then he would work on the desires.. Virat is very patient with Sai and thats what I have loved about his character..

For some reason I have been feeling bad for him lately....more than Sai. not because Sai is responsible but because of how both of them are dealing with their heart. He has that family to deal with and then Sai's aloofness.. If Sai keeps considering him as a guardian..there is not meaning for his fights or his standings against the family. It would be mentally and emotionally exhausting for him. He has also laid out his vulnerabilities to Sai when he pleaded her to consider him her family. But yes I dont want Sai to be the one to make a move ..No way..

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

@bold: But that is where we agree that she lacks the moral compass na... She has no sense of right and wrong because her 'image' that matters the most -- exactly what Bhavani is made of. All her susheelta and unchi soch is for display. It is really a statue of susheelta because it is shallow inside. She not only didn't feel bad for Devyani but was even questioning why did Sai release her from the confinement.

I would say Pulkit has compromised Sai's position by making it sound like Sai was the one who went to him to invite him to the house and to tell him about Devyani. Virat should not be supporting Sai because Ninad raised his hand but for the truth. But I would really want him to be mad at her in their private space for not telling him about it. She needs to know that she can confide and talk to him about such important things-- not can, but should.

I agree to the first part, so when people say situation made her like this then she should be mean only to Sai but by nature she lacks moral and has no sense of right or wrong. Toh kahan se aaya situation.

@Bold - I agree, but how would Virat believe the truth I mean for him the truth is what his "Dil Ke achche" gharwale say. Like he did not listen to anyone last time (Amey scenario - whatever the reason may be), he had only seen the reaction of Sai and not heard is fathers comment.

Even here his father has reacted impulsively in anger and he is going to witness that, so that at least should make him lean towards reality.

And I agree with the point, wherein he should question Sai that why didn't she confide in him and going forward she should do so. But having said that, this was the first time Virat has stood by Sai against his family (when he said he would leave with her), otherwise he has always sided with his family.

Originally posted by: Roch

I agree to the first part, so when people say situation made her like this then she should be mean only to Sai but by nature she lacks moral and has no sense of right or wrong. Toh kahan se aaya situation.

@Bold - I agree, but how would Virat believe the truth I mean for him the truth is what his "Dil Ke achche" gharwale say. Like he did not listen to anyone last time (Amey scenario - whatever the reason may be), he had only seen the reaction of Sai and not heard is fathers comment.

Even here his father has reacted impulsively in anger and he is going to witness that, so that at least should make him lean towards reality.

And I agree with the point, wherein he should question Sai that why didn't she confide in him and going forward she should do so. But having said that, this was the first time Virat has stood by Sai against his family (when he said he would leave with her), otherwise he has always sided with his family.

No No I believe when he has stood against them when he had to get Sai admitted in College and also during the night he sided with her when they were questioned for roaming around without informing the family. He did say the family need to start accepting changes both the times..

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Pulkit telling the family about Sai really surprised me, especially since he knows what the Chavans are like and she has even told him about the details of the nature of her marriage. He really came across as a selfish man in that moment. All his feelings of not being able to wait to see Devyani are understood but he could have done it without compromising Sai, when he knew that eventually they will have to admit that Devyani is in the house.

I don't think Ninad's action will sit well with Virat because just the night before he has promised Sai that such things won't happen again. How he responds to Ninad is what one has to see...

I think I can guess what will happen. When Virat will hold Ninad's hand Kaku will say 'Mast aa mast, dekho, ek bete ne apne baap ka haath pakda aur woh bhi apni biwi jangli mulgi ke liye' and chughalkhor class monitor will say ' Badi mami, aap ki aur mamaji ki beizzati hui hai'🤣🤣And, yes I agree it was very selfish of Pulkit to have dragged Sayi's name in the issue.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

No No I believe when he has stood against them when he had to get Sai admitted in College and also during the night he sided with her when they were questioned for roaming around without informing the family. He did say the family need to start accepting changes both the times..

Agree, but in both the cases he was party to the cause. I mean college admission was his responsibility wasn't that the reason he married her (responsibility) and then when they came back he was responsible for being late as he was with her. And the outburst was on both.

Even in the food part, he was partly responsible or rather fully responsible but his support was all in open and for her as the family was against her. Its a big thing for a man to say that he would leave the house with his wife.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

No No I believe when he has stood against them when he had to get Sai admitted in College and also during the night he sided with her when they were questioned for roaming around without informing the family. He did say the family need to start accepting changes both the times..

Yes, Virat has stood up for Sayi many times.

I do find pulkit selfish here on hindsight .. he out sayi under the bus .. like sayi initiated this whole thing ..

Well it does make sayi great in the eyes of ashwini , Mohit , and Shivani maybe Mansi too .. but Kaku gang hate her with more venom ..

He was the one who was behind sayi .. and today started the issue in temple .. secondly .. why he being a successful doctor settled in Nagpur .. never tried to find out how and where Devyani is .. both have been living in the same city .. Devyani bore him a daughter .. all the fire came when sayi mentioned it

the screenplay is very very loose .. they need to be more effective.. they could have shown pulkit is a doctor who has come and settled in Nagpur just now after 10 years ..


Just like Alta incident and the hand holding showed virat in poor light .. this incident should boost up virat ratings .. I am hoping

Secondly I loved your thoughts that sayi is not invested enough in the shadi simply because she was not looking forward to this .. this has been thrusted upon her .. maybe she’s not yet physiologically ready to be in conjugal space .. and her subconscious is shutting her mind off it ..

I loved the scene when she was dressing up Devyani.. sayi also has an impressive set of make up .. good work Ashwini tai 🥰

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