Shaayad aaj hum yehi sunna chahte the - Page 11

Originally posted by: pamk06

The thing she does not know that you do not trust a person by talking about it or keep on jataoing. Its just there and when its there, you should not have any jijaek in your questions, nor do you need reassurances, nor do you need to keep telling about it. It all understood.

When that "leap" scene is playing in your head, this trust should have made you ask the question that was troubling you and not be worried about the answer. She did not do that because she has no trust in their bond. The funny thing is she kept her mouth shut when she should have asked the question and when she should have kept mum, she was ready to break a party. At that time, she should have just trusted her husband.

Exactly.....Trust and Understanding go hand in hand. A relationship that doesn't even have understanding, by what logic is Malini claiming it has totally perfect trust? 😆

Trust actually gives you peace of mind....when you actually truly trust someone, your mind is at peace because you have complete faith in that person....that doesn't mean you blindly believe everything that person says/does, it means you have have faith/trust in that person to do the right thing by you, your relationship etc. Malini who claims that she fully trusts Adi has literally constantly hounded Adi for proofs of how much he misses her, proofs of how he isn't going away from her, proofs of how nothing can come between them.....no dictionary on the planet will qualify this as "trust"😆.

Adi is in a bind cuz he has indeed betrayed Malini, no doubt....but Malini loses the moral high ground in my eyes with all her constant clingy needy behavior that is definitely not any sign of trust either. She guilt trips Adi in a very twisted manner.....he does deserve to be held accountable for lying to her but the way she pushes guilt onto him lessens her in my eyes too.

Just catching up on all the Insta posts and analysis. I also think it has something to do with Aditya’s secret job mission. And Aditya will prob get hurt and keep feeling guilty about what Malini said. If Malini had to talk to Aditya about Imilie, she would have had this conversation after the bridge accident. So looks like it is definitely job related.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

@bold - absolutely. Come to think of it, if the trust conversation is around his job, there is night and day between her perception and Imlie’s view about what his job entails. While Imlie considers him nidarr and always fighting for the greater good, Malini has to go a roundabout way putting him down first and then say I will trust you when you come about to telling me what it actually is.

Re bombshell from the other post - knowing the extreme feelings Aditya has for Imlie, I doubt the realization will be anything but equally intense. The only thing that can put a damper on it is his guilt. Woh bhi utna hi intense hoga

That will really be something if this is indeed about his job....which again takes me back to her tantrum regarding the award....lol all these tall claims about how she dreamed of him achieving success in life etc. along with him, so she was entitled to share that moment with him.....but I don't think she ever really understood what his work means to him.....the awards/accolades are an add-on.....fundamentally he does this because it feels like a life mission to him - honor and justice. Imlie also views his work in the same way....as a noble/higher calling....which is why she doesn't talk about it like it is work....she talks about it in with awe, with a sense of idealism.....Adi has the same sense of idealism in him, it's just a more matured version of Imlie's idealism. This is why when Imlie told him yesterday how she views his work, it resurrected his sense of idealism again.

And that is such a valid point that even when Malini wants to be supportive to Adi, she does it in a roundabout way by first putting him down for not making it about her in someway and then getting around to discussing any actual issue. Every conversation is diverted by her constant need for validation/reassurance.

Re: bombshell....lol I guess I will have to see it to believe it after all the cop-outs we've been put through vis a vis Adi's reactions😆. Fate is the most powerful force in this story....but if there is any force to rival it, it's Malini's multi-pronged guilt machine that she's fine tuned to perfection by now😆.

Malini ne trust bhi dikhana hai toh mahaan banke make it about herself instead of that being them as a unit.. this is no trust but emotional blackmail and way ti live in denial just caz his answer may differ to your perception you go with phor poocheinge hk nahi *taaliyan * how it is about trust then when you can't even ask it clearly indicates insane amount of lack of trust

Rofl was watching an old episode where adi imlie comes back and adi goes to tell malini and rofl the very first thing she does then too is hum kuch kar bhaithte🤣🤣 bands kuch bataye bhi kaise isse when the first thing she does is say this everytime

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly.....Trust and Understanding go hand in hand. A relationship that doesn't even have understanding, by what logic is Malini claiming it has totally perfect trust? 😆

Trust actually gives you peace of mind....when you actually truly trust someone, your mind is at peace because you have complete faith in that person....that doesn't mean you blindly believe everything that person says/does, it means you have have faith/trust in that person to do the right thing by you, your relationship etc. Malini who claims that she fully trusts Adi has literally constantly hounded Adi for proofs of how much he misses her, proofs of how he isn't going away from her, proofs of how nothing can come between them.....no dictionary on the planet will qualify this as "trust"😆.

Adi is in a bind cuz he has indeed betrayed Malini, no doubt....but Malini loses the moral high ground in my eyes with all her constant clingy needy behavior that is definitely not any sign of trust either. She guilt trips Adi in a very twisted manner.....he does deserve to be held accountable for lying to her but the way she pushes guilt onto him lessens her in my eyes too.

exactly and this relationship has absolute zero peace. How can a relationship be peaceful when both of them are constantly on tenterhooks, one is in constant fear that her partner might stop loving her and the other that his action might hurt her. It’s almost become their nightly routine that either she throws a tantrum because she is not getting her way or she is emotionally blackmailing him to do things her way. Then there is justification of every decision and every action. It almost as if she has zero confidence in herself and hence she requires this constant reassurance that she is worth his love.

I am not sure if you heard all the dialogues but if this scene is in relation to Imlie or their big secret, it’s makes sense but if it’s work-related, then it’s absolute tantrum and blackmail all rolled together basically telling Aditya, tell me the truth else it means there is no trust between us and that will hurt her.

Originally posted by: pamk06

exactly and this relationship has absolute zero peace. How can a relationship be peaceful when both of them are constantly on tenterhooks, one is in constant fear that her partner might stop loving her and the other that his action might hurt her. It’s almost become their nightly routine that either she throws a tantrum because she is not getting her way or she is emotionally blackmailing him to do things her way. Then there is justification of every decision and every action. It almost as if she has zero confidence in herself and hence she requires this constant reassurance that she is worth his love.

I am not sure if you heard all the dialogues but if this scene is in relation to Imlie or their big secret, it’s makes sense but if it’s work-related, then it’s absolute tantrum and blackmail all rolled together basically telling Aditya, tell me the truth else it means there is no trust between us and that will hurt me.

😆 right! She does that or immediately run to the extreme and bring ke hunara rishta toot jaayeva like where the hell that comes from immediately she legit said that in that ott romance Don't remember the exact words but along the same lines pander uthao my nakhre or it will break. Uhh woman heard about balancing and allowing the other person to speak their mind.. like I seriously didn't get from where breaking off the rishta even came in the head and the she goes around saying shit like we will not even talk and ask questions caz the answers maybe different what do you exactly want then.. you want the risnta to stay but without any integrity and honesty amazing

AY no review today?😄😄😄

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

AY no review today?😄😄😄

Hum baaki badhnaseebon ke review ko koi ghaas bhi nahin daalta 😆. I wait with bated breath to read AYs review everyday. It is damn good.

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Hum baaki badhnaseebon ke review ko koi ghaas bhi nahin daalta 😆. I wait with bated breath to read AYs review everyday. It is damn good.

Made a random thread join in there for now until AY comes that is if she comes after all the bizzareness this episode was lol