This Show Kinda Creeps Me Out lol

Why is Pakhi soooo comfortable asking her married brother in law why he gave his own wife flowers?? Why is she allowed to tell him to pack his clothes in her bag? Why are they being given permission to travel alone when his wife could easily go too? Why is she so comfortable showing the whole house that she so desperately wants to be alone with her brother in law?

It’s so damn creepy. And they’re supposed to be a traditional family. It makes no sense. Why are the makers not showing the house members being concerned or offended by such things?

And why is Virat okay with his Bhabi asking the types of questions a jealous wife asks? How can he not know why Sai and Pakhi dislike each other? Is he really that ignorant or is he just really stupid? It makes no sense.

On a positive note, I loved how logically and bravely Virat stood up to everyone for Sai. I hope he can use this intelligence and bravery to figure Pakhi and Kaku out too.

If pakhi and sai are together then chavan family thinks that sai will create problem for pakhi with her so called badtameezi. As they think sai is badtameez if she opens her mouth and pakhi is their susheel and sanskarri bahu lol. So they want to have pakhi a peaceful holiday without sai .

She’s allowed to do all this because she’s matured chahiti bahu of Kaku ❤️

And apparently very sad since her husband (who she doesn’t even acknowledge) went MIA

So the whole fam is willing to let her do anything as she pleases 😳

Sai isn’t welcomed in house because she’s not Kaku’s choice , bad omen for them 😒

Virat has some misplaced guilt so won’t confront her openly ,

Sai will have to suffer a bit till her dense husband realises escaping from problems or not confronting them isn’t the solution to problems

In Traditional families also Devar Bhabhi relationship has special importance of being like Mother-Son (if age gap is big) or sis bro kinda relationship

Here, my only complain is that , how can no one see how weirdly PP behaves apart from Ashwini,

Why are they so dense ?🤪

Especially when PP is not being subtle about it at all

She openly expresses dislike for Sai without any valid reason n excitement to be with Virat

This Chavan family is weird 😕

I don’t see them changing rn till then we have no choice but to enjoy the chakram gang dramas😆

This family have crossed all limits of creepiness... Pakhi is doing everything khullam khulla and they are ok with it.... They are not even bothered about society?

Originally posted by: Diya_Abhilasha

If pakhi and sai are together then chavan family thinks that sai will create problem for pakhi with her so called badtameezi. As they think sai is badtameez if she opens her mouth and pakhi is their susheel and sanskarri bahu lol. So they want to have pakhi a peaceful holiday without sai .

If that's what they want, they can send someone else with them right... Kaku herself can accompany them or sonali omkar can go... Why sending them alone like a couple?.. Pakhi's intentions aren't pure yeh toh saaf dikh rahi.

she is maturity ki murthyy and sai is badtameez immature junglee mulgi all the words that comes out from their amrit mouth😡

pakkhi is obsessed with virat and that stupid promise he made to her and she just doesn't want to move on in life🤦🏻‍♀️,somewhere virat and samrat both are to be blamed for her situation

virat,never make promises that you cannot fulfill and clear her MU now as for samrat leaving her alone after knowing Virakhi i thought army officers makes the impossible,possible and never run away from situations and battle how come samrat run away from the situations and the battle of hearts. He should have been there a support his love should change her heart and make her fall in love with him but here he chose to run away. This is also one reason that she cannot move on in life as she knows nothing abt samrat and he did not give her the chance to know him,to befriend with him,to fall in love with him before its too late i want samrat to comeback and handle her and i hope they don't follow the KD version which is sad

virat doesn't know becos he is blinded by the BFF lingo😡but indirectly he has told her many times that he is her friend but the latter doesn't understand and pakkhi too have told him that samrat doesn't matter her but he is adamant sometimes friendships too get blind and this why many becomes blind and joins bad company

the family is creepy as hell here they can organise trips for devar-bhabhi🤮the moment virat brings sai for outing the reaction is as if virat is not bringing his own wife out but padosi's wife in that zoo bringing your wife out his a grave sin and crime committed😡

they are jealouse seeing husband-wife happy🤮😡

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

If that's what they want, they can send someone else with them right... Kaku herself can accompany them or sonali omkar can go... Why sending them alone like a couple?.. Pakhi's intentions aren't pure yeh toh saaf dikh rahi.

They are showing kuch bhi stuff for drama purpose. In real world no one will feel offended if husband wants to take his wife along with him.

Chavan family always have extreme reaction - like their hatred for sai and their unconditional ( oops sorry money minded) love for pakhi.

Can't expect normal behavior from them🤪

Easily there's one reply & that is that this show is a remake of two other shows. The Tamil & Bengali versions with an addition of few unnecessary time wasting scenes which cannot be forgotten The biggest mistake in Ghum is that the person who is always correct & has a positively valid point, whereas the opposition has nothing strong to say, unfortunately has to bare the burden of all the scoldings, taunts & what not; clear example of Sai. The way she's tolerating the nonsense 😕

No wonder she has to speak up for herself in front of such imbeciles who are only age wise grown-ups 🤪

I don't understand what kind of family this is. I still can understand Pakhi behaving as a jealous ex in private but how can she so openly say Samrat is no one to her and she prefers to have fun with her devaar. I think the Chavans are too greedy. As they know Pakhi can ranaway with Samrat's money, they are glorifying her to be in the good books. 🤢 They don't even care about the family members be it Samrat or Mohit. All they care is the money. 🤢

Originally posted by: EmeraldIced

Why is Pakhi soooo comfortable asking her married brother in law why he gave his own wife flowers?? Why is she allowed to tell him to pack his clothes in her bag? Why are they being given permission to travel alone when his wife could easily go too? Why is she so comfortable showing the whole house that she so desperately wants to be alone with her brother in law?

It’s so damn creepy. And they’re supposed to be a traditional family. It makes no sense. Why are the makers not showing the house members being concerned or offended by such things?

And why is Virat okay with his Bhabi asking the types of questions a jealous wife asks? How can he not know why Sai and Pakhi dislike each other? Is he really that ignorant or is he just really stupid? It makes no sense.

On a positive note, I loved how logically and bravely Virat stood up to everyone for Sai. I hope he can use this intelligence and bravery to figure Pakhi and Kaku out too.

Well if we could have logical answers for those then it would have been great.

Firstly she is his friend (Best friend to say - I so hate that word) and everyone in the house knows that. So they let it pass, since she is the Bechari & Susheel bahu of the house.

Also she is very tactical when she says something, she is smooth in her response. If you see her conversations, she has never hinted negative in her words. Her body language is different story.

The point is Sai senses it call it a wife/woman instinct and so does Ashwini Aai as she is the mother. The problem is the dense guy who needs to understand this.

@Bold - Till when is the question. Last time he supported her during the Shivani Bua issue, we could see him yelling out at her in the next minute.

The problem with him is his emotions and that's what lead to many issues. Its very easy to guilt trip him and that's where Vahini has an upper hand and Kaku as well.