Originally posted by: AreYaar
Caught up on aaj ka PS....finally Gautam-Dhara ki shaadi ho gayi, mubaarak ho😆
I really liked their convo before the shaadi as they candidly talked through their thoughts on the situation.....Dhara ne 2 baar bol diya ki pyar nahin hai tumse😆....but I respect you and I've always loved your brothers and your family. Yeh bhi candidly bol diya ki pata nahin Prince Charming kaisa hoga but my brother made me realize today that he has most of your traits😆. SUch main how Rare.. 2 people so openly talking about the struggles that they will have to face yet being so much at peace and no force of any sort involved. i esp liked ke Prince charming ka koi chehra toh hai nahi... sab assumptions hi hote hain and koi chehra toh nahi( qualities hi hoti hai generally that one thinks of waise that one usually imagines) but qulaities tum mein hain and her retirating the fact ke pyar to ho hi jaayega bohat time hai.. and no pressure caz he didn;t pressurize her either and her only shart being her education Lovely it was
The other good thing was the way she told him again and again ki this is my viewpoint, but final decision is yours. Itna calmly do logon ko apni shaadi discuss karte nahin dekha TV pe pehle😆......Gautam ne bhi bol diya ki you can't just marry me simply cuz you love my brothers and my family....and then yeh bhi bola that he only ever saw her as a friend, not a wife and he's too heartbroken right now to give love to anyone else😆.....again, so much candidness b/w them was refreshing. Finally, Dhara ka last point bhi achha tha ki we will have our whole life to spend together and we may find love along the way too....but she is only saying that as something that's in her heart, not to convince him. He can decide based on his own thoughts. Love na Sahi respect se hi start kar lo bohat badi baat hai esp by ITV standards jahan sirf ladaai and majboori se start hota hai .. i Was so amazed by the Sukoon they had while actually doing the shaadi for the first time LOL yeh kabhi nahi hota ke pehli baar shaadi main hi ache se khushi khushi kar lein dono and not like this wasn't accidental and haalat pushing them to come together hahah The journey will be intresting
Ek achha sense aaya of two friends taking a decision in quite a clear eyed manner after thinking through the whole situation.
Bacchon ka excitement seeing Dhara agreeing to be their bhabhi was also sweet😆.....and jab Gautam maan gaya, the understanding smiles b/w him and Dhara were nice too. They played Taare hain baaraati on their phere😆.
Ironic na.....even GD have more understanding b/w them than Babusahib and unki "love you forever" Mun😆
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