Originally posted by: pyaar2012
I think i have some points to raise regarding Ishani "s acceptance of Riansh relationship.
1. We have not seen When exactly The RS siblings lost their father, Bt it can b easily assumed that Vansh is like a father figure to both Siya and Ishani and they are quite used to his pampering and spoiling. This is quite natural in a family where children lost their parents early. Vansh too was young then so he could have thought to fill the gap and did not realize that one day he will need to balance between two important woman in his life. He never thought of marriage before Riddhima entered in his life. His sole priority was his business and his family. Love was never his plan. It was destined and he could not deny it.
2.Vansh loves and ovrpampers both Ishani and Siya. He is an extremely lovable brother when comes to his sisters. At the same time his love knew no bounds regarding Riddhima. Thats why he lied and saved his relationship and to me it was wrong but a smart move. If he would have told Ridhima she would have forgiven Ishani.ishani was young and it was an accident and Riddima would have maturedly accept it.
Ishani and Siya though have same bloodine are different in nature. Siya is younger than ishani but more mature than Ishani as we know sometimes Age and maturity does not match. Ishani 's immature behavior is ingrained in nature . Three of the RS sibilings are selfish in nature. But Siya have learned to accept things and she has realized his brothers need. A need,a man naturally will have and it can only b filled by a wife. Ishani despite being pregnant,elder than siya and married does not want to accept it or its her shortcoming to realize that Riddhima might have come later on Vansh 's life,but she has a huge impact on her life. Sbe does not also realize that A elder brothers love cannot b matched with a husband's love. Both are different. Siya has no problem bcoz she since the day one has accepted Riddima whole heartedly and she knows Ridhima is a positive force in Vansh 's life
3 Vansh never thought of marry and love any lady. Riansh marriage was sudden and they themselves were unaware of their deep all consuming love . Ishani is not understanding that loving Riddima does not means non prioritizing her. This is the shortcoming of her nature and no one in the house point out it to rectify rather Riansh ignore it and let it be but Those who have enmity will utilize it. Its again a very common problem of Indian household where Shadi ke bad Bhaiya k liye mujhse zyada Bhabi imp hai happens. Ekta over glorifies such relationship but in most cases ek Bhabi aur ek Nanad ka aisa hi rishta hota hai. I found Ishani relatble bcoz i have seen ppl like her in my own family circle. I have become used to her nature. My only problem is Riddima never raises her voice against her and to an extent ignore her behavior and secondly makers have already degraded her as she was involved in harming Riddhima many a times. I would rather say if they previously had not shown so much torture and only hate feeling for Riddhima it would have been more realistic and at that Ishani 's blame game or allegations on choosing the priority would have been realistic to watch.
Now the whole characterized ishani made sense with your lines.
But do you think this time also will he try to balance both or he might lose?
What to you feel will he take the smart move or fall in trap of Kabir unknowingly where siblings might crack up ....
And yes I wish we can see a Ridhima who can answer in better way.
Anupamaa
