Originally posted by: KunwaariDaayan
And by what yardstick are we actually judging that Abhinav is a gentleman? To you and his fans he is, but just like everything is subjective, this too is subjective as what one will define a gentleman as. But if we are to go by say the dictionary or by the book of life as to what we've been taught in general to what a gentleman is, then toh I for one hve not seen any gentlemanly qualities in him. He who is quick to look down on others and give them character, criminal and whatnot certificates for the stupidest of shits is not very gentlemanly behaviour in my books.
And he who can judge a womans character over some vids she makes, also doesn't qualify as a gentleman in my books either.
Also calling a woman rickshaw, truck also not very gentlemanly.
And as for equating what Rakhi has done on the show to rape and sexual harrarrment is one thing I cannot fathom. A heinous crime like rape is a very sensitive issue and i for one cannot stomach it when it's being equated to the nonsense that's happened on the show.
The way i see it, in a bid to sound politically correct and coz its deemed the fashionable and in thing to do, especially online, let's bring in the woman - sexual harrarrment card. Let's turn it to if it was a man in place of a woman. That just isn't really needed and doesn't cut it for me or for anyone who could even begin to or try to imagine what trauma a victim of rape /sexual harrarrment actually go through. So no, the stupidity that has happened on some stupid show cannot be compared to real life rape - sexual harrarrment cases. Cuz, nothing thus far that serious has happened to go down that route just yet.
She did not force anything on him.
Yes, she was wrong for the naada pulling-that I agree to-she crossed a fine line there. But after she got told to stop, she did. It wasn't repeated.
But there's also no denying that both pati - patni did have a very big hand in encouraging the stupid Pati-patni aur woh 3some BS too by playing along for sake of getting two bits of footage themselves. Whatever mudda they are making now just doesn't seem genuine and is only looking fake for footage sake.
And again, it's the supposed so called harrasssr again they turn to for their source of footage once again.
Yeh, Rakhi called Abhi tharki. But does that call for getting violent like that and chucking a bucket of water on her?
And don't forget, Rakfi is supposed to be the gandhi crass one here, (according to many) and them the epitome of class and perfection.