Stop making Imlie so Abla - Page 5

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

For every episode, I tend to find that tiny progress in each character and relation!

But for this episode, I just can't justify Imlie's behaviors!

Aditya reaction for her eating leftover is so much justified, he want to maintain happiness and calm for the relation that he had chosen! So even if he understand and respect her believes but her doings will make him troubled!

Ok, Your mum ask you to fast and pooja, but she don't know what the things is for you? You already lied, so one more lie will not harm anybody! As if your mother contact you daily or visit you to know if you did that or not 🙄

Ok, you belive in it, you want him to be safe, you want to do the pooja for someone doesn't even consider you as his!

You could fast, eat anything, why leftover? This is just self bitty!

Ok, we can digest that with 10 cup of water! But why you do the pooja and wear like a married one! Just do it in silence! You ask the man to remove your sendor so his family don't ask about it, you lied to them about having marital stuff, so how could you think they will behave normal watching you roaming in home with sendor!

Even if they show that she think that she could escape the situation somehow, but she get caught with it red handed, even then for me is not justified!

So what lie you will come with this time??

Now she will say, 'Hamari pagdandiya mei aisa hi hota hai...wah pe kuwari ladkiya bhi sindur lagati hai apni future pati ke liye'. Sajna re track will play in the background..the camera will focus on Adi's expression less face. The T's like everytime will buy it again. The drama will come to end with some extra sugary words from her favourite Malinididi😃

Originally posted by: Whimsy

Now she will say, 'Hamari pagdandiya mei aisa hi hota hai...wah pe kuwari ladkiya bhi sindur lagati hai apni future pati ke liye'. Sajna re track will play in the background..the camera will focus on Adi's expression less face. The T's like everytime will buy it again. The drama will come to end with some extra sugary words from her favourite Malinididi😃

This is what happening everyday. Clg track aane thak show will continue with Imlie and her patnidharam, Malini sweetness,Ts overacting, Adi oscillating towards Imlie and Mun

bakarken şunu görmeyi unutmuşsunuz.aşk ve tutku eksik.ikincisi fiziksel bir dokunuş yok.parayı imlie verince elini tuttu onun.maliniye sarılmadı

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: I guess woh waali Imlie ab Shanky ke saamne hi waapis aayegi😆. Koi Shanky ko waapis laao phir se😆.....Mrs. C ko bolein kya?😆

Babusahib toh waise hi generally nikamme and cowardly hain, ek bechaari Imlie ko toh nikammi na banaate.....not sure what TRP gimmicks they hope to achieve with making Imlie so abla laachaar dying for pati ka prasad types.....oh well.

trp viewers like abala naari type FL and EMA stories....

Look at the trp charts......... first 5

3 out 5 are ema / multiple marriage stories.....

Look at where 'women empowerment ' storyline is getting.... in that line ??????????

I don't blame them - if they go forced /multiple marriage / ema route for trps.. in future.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

it was the way the original Imlie was shown that caught my attention..the story is otherwise is so typical.. it is imlie ka resilience her honsla and her Dignity with which she faced things and never let anyone put her down was what set this story apart.. Even when she was bogged down to the rock bottom by the situation and her kismat there was a Silent strength and Spark in her..that pride she took in herself despite everything that happened and self confidence..

now they are killing those very things and making her another "maahanta ki Murat" where her reasonings aren'tjustified either.. sure she wants Adi malini to be happy but uske liye khud kyon zameen ban rahi hai for them to step on it.. and yeh bhi koi nayi baat toh hai nahi. she wanted that Since the very start ke adi malini ke saath khush rahe but phir bhi she had never been so bechaari and abla..they had her personality and traits balanced so nicely.. ab inko trp ki bhook kuxh zayada hi lag gayi hai iss liye Hadh of bechargi crossed.. next what.. cleanign filth leftover by malini caz jiji ki hai...

i feel they lost their grip right after yeh bechara mera abba tera abba thing.. it went just wayyyy too overboard since and ab imlie suddenly cannot think rationally anymore and is wighted down and behaving like a Pichadi hui sometype of Outcasted person.. and it is just NOT WORKING... i need her to have some weightage aise nahi... that was made her stand out..

pehle bhi imlie roti thi but one actually felt the connect with her crying too caz it had a point and wasn't just for trp sake ke lead hai toh only job is to act damsel in distress...

edit:: so much word to this . samjhota karna is one thing but being a daasi is another and imlie is behaving more liek a daasi then a victim of situation right now... with main bas aapki pooja karoongi didi jiji bas that is the ultimate goal no matter how much i get zillat ke laddu in between

besst part is this zillat is inflicted upon herself by her only and nobody else in this particualr scenario

@bold: You said it all. The writers are losing their grip on the balancing of Imlie's character. It's not like the show didn't have TRP melodramatic elements before also.....but it was Imlie's strength, dignity and innocent wisdom that shone through.

Now they are turning her into someone who is so willing to demean and debase herself for no comprehensible reason....whatever "majboori" waale explanations they are giving don't work for showing why an Imlie is so very content with being treated like an inferior naukar.

The writers are acting as if there are only two options for Imlie....either she can become a wife to Adi or she can become a servant who grovels before everyone. Who decided that? How exactly will it impact anyone's life if Imlie was shown to be treated with bare minimum humanity rather than constantly being allowed to grovel and expected to keep apologizing?

I don't think even TRP aunties will like this...they can tolerate some exterior "villain" doing atyachaar on abla bahu but jab bahu khud ka hi koi respect na kare, then it might be a too much even for the crowd that generally gives TRPs for abla naaris.

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

trp viewers like abala naari type FL and EMA stories....

Look at the trp charts......... first 5

3 out 5 are ema / multiple marriage stories.....

Look at where 'women empowerment ' storyline is getting.... SAAKK in that line ??????????

I don't blame them - if they go forced /multiple marriage / ema route for trps.. in future.

I actually don't want to bring other shows into this discussion....cuz if you really want to talk about SAKK, the issue with that show is a half-baked script and a very slow storyline. Simply adding a "women empowerment" storyline doesn't automatically make a show worth watching if the characters and actors are not as engaging.

Imlie has much better written characters and actors.....Sumbul especially is a powerhouse.....can't say the same for SAKK.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

you are hoping for too much behan.. Jo apne liye kabhi kuch kar nahi paaya woh imlie ke liye kya karega.. i know you wouldn't like this comaprison but hai yeh sikka part 2 is being spinless sikka ne kya kar lia tha kabhi kulfii ke liye except crying ganga jamuna rahi toh woh end tak naukrani hi thi na.. infact woh Vishal ka character did more for Kulfii and loved her like his own while sikaa bas rota hi rhta tha ke main majboor hoon main majboor hoon and bas that was his character from ep1 to last.. i can neend main enact a whole scene of his becahrgi for you lol itna repeitive and cringe tha all the time and yeh uska hi adult version hai.. kaam ka na kaaj ka dushman Footage ka

LOL oh boy....lagta hai you were right to begin with....yeh Kulfi/Sikka part two ki taraf hi jaata dikh raha hai.....better we lower our expectations even more😆

I do feel though ki yeh sab vrat and all yeh log daily basis pe nahin continued rakh sakte....Imlie ke liye kuch toh plan karna padega after this vrat drama.....it might be a wake up call for them ki Imlie ghar mein padi rehti hai doing random poojas and vrats and she needs to be given some purpose in her life.

Originally posted by: MusicMuse

At this point I'm so desperate and hopeless from this new unrelatable Imlie that I'm actually hoping for the precap drama to escalate and not get diffused like usual. Mujhe Anu se umeed hai , she's not a naive fool like the rest of the gang . I hope she doesn't let Imlie wriggle out of the situation with a convenient story bit strongly push. I want Aditya to later band bajao of Imlie ( I can't believe I'm even typing this, but at this point I'm like dubte huye ko tinke la sahara) and insult her like anything and blame her for intentionally ruining his and Malini's happiness so that she gets some perspective. Dimaag ghum gayi hai iska, freeze mode mein hai , bahar lane ke liye roasting ki jarurat hai jo sirf Aditya kar sakta hai. Another round of calling her manipulative and besharam is in order. Adiya ,please be the earlier monster , and fry her. Pretty please.

LMAO who would have thought that the solution would be in Adi needing to be horrible to Imlie in order for her to find her spine and brains again?😆. Kya din aa gaye hain.....smh....

I do feel that this time the precap drama won't get diffused as usual....especially in conjunction with Dev's mom telling him he needs to do something for Imlie.....all these events will converge in making either Dev or the Tripathis think about moving forward with Imlie's college education.

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

For every episode, I tend to find that tiny progress in each character and relation!

But for this episode, I just can't justify Imlie's behaviors!

Aditya reaction for her eating leftover is so much justified, he want to maintain happiness and calm for the relation that he had chosen! So even if he understand and respect her believes but her doings will make him troubled!

Ok, Your mum ask you to fast and pooja, but she don't know what the things is for you? You already lied, so one more lie will not harm anybody! As if your mother contact you daily or visit you to know if you did that or not 🙄

Ok, you belive in it, you want him to be safe, you want to do the pooja for someone doesn't even consider you as his!

You could fast, eat anything, why leftover? This is just self bitty!

Ok, we can digest that with 10 cup of water! But why you do the pooja and wear like a married one! Just do it in silence! You ask the man to remove your sendor so his family don't ask about it, you lied to them about having marital stuff, so how could you think they will behave normal watching you roaming in home with sendor!

Even if they show that she think that she could escape the situation somehow, but she get caught with it red handed, even then for me is not justified!

So what lie you will come with this time??

@bold: LOL yes, these are all logical points. She's already lied to her mom so much....so what's the big deal in lying about keeping a fast? Not like her mom will know any differently😆

Then the pooja itself....what makes her think she can do it with any of these same rituals and suhaag stuff that she herself made Adi remove from her before they came in front of the family? The writers seem to have forgotten how they themselves showed Imlie being so diligent about making sure the family never sees her with any suhaag stuff. Now that very Imlie is willing to take this risk for a random fast when there aren't even any PD people around to prove something to?😕😆

Clearly, the writers wanted to do a TRP type track of two wives fasting for one husband but they forgot the basic characters they have here.....Imlie has always said this shaadi and sindoor is a curse for her that she is having to live with as a truth.....it's not something she is jumping to in happiness....so now showing the same Imlie saying stuff like "Eating food touched by Babusahib is like prasad for me" is beyond ridiculous. They've put her into pati worshipping mode....and that was never Imlie. At the most, she accepted the truth that she is married to Adi....why is she behaving as if he is some God to her now?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I actually don't want to bring other shows into this discussion....cuz if you really want to talk about SAKK, the issue with that show is a half-baked script and a very slow storyline. Simply adding a "women empowerment" storyline doesn't automatically make a show worth watching if the characters and actors are not as engaging.

Imlie has much better written characters and actors.....Sumbul especially is a powerhouse.....can't say the same for SAKK.

In fact - I liked all of the actors in that show - it may differ from opinion.

only reason I was in this show is: my curiosity to see - how writers handle these illegal marriages track...