Zabardasti,Pyaar aur Ignore

Hello Everyone,

I usually don't write analysis of the episodes but as usual, I became like vaada chavan and broke my promise of not watching bts or sbs, thus, the result is that I truly yours will tonight have trouble sleeping.

Thus, this is a cool -off ranting analysis.If today's episode can be eplained in 3 words it would be:

ZABARDASTI:

To say Ashwini and PP were shocked when Sai gave today's "Statement of the day" that "Virat sir ne kal raat mere saqth zabardasti ki", the reactions were epic of both Ashwini and PP(the max you can achieve from stones😆, do not get your hopes high)

Ashwini went from shocked to outrageous to dissapointed in her son, but her belief in Virat, led to the verificatory question "Kaise"

PP toh sidhe ""Haye mai lut gyi barbaad hogayi"

both thought of the samething as us🤩😜(one track minded viewers)

But jokes apart , this single sentence proved few things to me:

1)How much protected environment did Sai grew in?(Like I know she was raised in a village , thus Sex is not something often discusssed) but throwing that word casually in husband wife relation, that is another level of innocence.

2) It also made me realise today, the age of Sai, I know she has gone through alot by measures but her age is just 19 year old kid, who still calls every man around her Bhaiya, uncle etc.( not in this generation, but 90's kids might be able relate)

3) Later, today when she has that flashback moments, it was a reminder to both her and us , that Virat needs to walk on thin wire balancing a rod, if he actually wants to have a relation with Sai and I am talking after leaving the Vaada bullshit out of the picture as for Sai as a 19 year old who never had a love interest before and her all dreams of normal or any love life was cruelly snatched by fate.Also we hqve to count the Jagtap angle which was sexual harrasment both mental and to a point physical.

Also, it made me question what did a 19 year old Sai thought of Suhagraat, when jagtap used it literally in his every conversation with her.

Now the main question arises, with Virat's feelings, is he up for this gruelsome task?

The second word of the day

PYAAR

1) I know Ashwini , is a great MIL and Mother, but for Sai , is she doing right?I know till date, in some Indian households girls are married of at 18, 19 and sometime 20( though legal, but according to me it is not the right age), but they are mentally prepared for the same by their families or atleast belong to a conventional household.

But Sai upbringing can be said anything but conventional, with her lack of mother, single parent and she was never mentally prepared to get married by anyone at her age.

Ashwini relates to her as she was also a young bride, in the same circumstances as Sai in that vile household but there is a major difference , Ashwini parents got this alliance fixed, so she was mentalky prepared.

But Ashwini knows Virat feels attraction for his young bride which is natural, but pushing Sai to feel the same or acknowledge her feelings for Virat when there is so much baggage , how is that right?

IGNORANCE

Talking of baggage,PP I knew was delusional and ignorant but to this level, today I can recommend her a psychatriast literally, like seriously "Maine Virat se kaha usliye usne sachmuch Sai ko apne haath se khilaya" left me in awe of her ignorance levels but what i dont understand what are CV's aiming for with her character?Like in 2019, 2020 who is this delusional and is called sane.My heart levels and BP just rising what would be her delusion level after rose kaand that VC is going to do, as I understand he does not have qnything in his mind but saamne wale ka delusion level bhi toh dekho?

Lets not talk about CN gang, as ashwini pointed out today, there delusion levels are beyong imagination.Pata nhi PP chai mei konsa nasha deti hai inko?

Ok so there is more, but I am tired and going to sleep.I know many might not agree ir agree with me, but throw chappals and tomatoes only in dozens🤣

Good Night Everyone😆

Great analysis, havnt seen the episode but sounds like a filler episode? 😆 Sounds pretty boring tbh

I'd like to believe that as a biology and medical student, Sai is very much aware of what sex and intimacy is. Atleast knowledge wise. Even though she has never felt any romantic feelings ever before. I don't think she realized how the sentence aboyt zabardasti sounded to Ashwini and pp. And neither did she register the shock on their faces.

But definitely she's innocent and has never experienced love/infatuation- only sexual and physical harassment by jagtap. She is definitely conscious of touch. Whether virat's or other men. Even when she has "unknowingly" hugged virat due to lizard and falling off the chair she was quick to break contact. Same with the lip touch when virat tries to "shush her". Either she moves back or freezes. There have been many eyelocks except the dance time one that Sai has broken. With Amey she slapped his hand away even though he touched her knee and didnt dare to do anything more intimate. So she is definitely very aware of these things.

I do think that if Ashwini is saying "pyaar pyaar" she should talk to virat first. Till date Ashwini has brushed under the carpet the virat pp relationship. Even Sai openly told aai that she thinks virat pp still love each other but shes convincing Sai of virats love instead of talking to virat about maintaining a respectful distance from his SIL. Virat listens to her. She is his mother. She is the only one that can "gently" but surely let him know that this "fikr" and " dosti" for pp needs to be within certain limits.and no matter what the circumstances of his marriage with Sai were, its still extremely disrespectful to his wife if he keeps regarding pp as his "best friend" and is so close to her and gives her the licence to cone in between a husband-wife relationship. Pp had no business walking into their room and providing any inputs in the middle of Sairat nokjhok/fight/manmutaav etc.. It would make any wife uncomfortable. And that even if he has hidden his past and his feelings for pp, as his mother she is not blind and she should tell virat that even though its "sad" that samrat is not in pp's life she is far too focused on interfering in Sairats life anyway. Ashwini is the only one that can show virat the truth about pp. And even as his mom, she probably needs to reiterate it a few times for virat to actually accept everything and reflect on it.

And ashwini saying" pyaar pyaar "to Sai unfortunately builds het expectations only to set her up for heartbreak if virat isnt going to be on the same page. So if shes egging it on, she needs to do it on both sides.

Answering your question, in today’s world , an 18 year is well of aware of sex and rapes . Sai knew what Jagtap was trying to say and she did look disturbed. I have seen in school , colleges where they get physically involved with their boyfriend so Sai is not ignorant when it comes to physical intimacy. On their wedding night , she knew what it was hence he asked Aai to stay back .

Well both Virat and Sai come with their own baggage and both have to let go off their past, move forward and accept each other with their flaws .

Shat pratishat agree!

And that woman's delusion levels are beyond understanding.. I cringe every time I see her on screen. Her delusions saw anotger heights when in the precap, one moment she taunted sai that VC not answering her call.. and the next moment being dukhi that his phone is off.. kya hua didi VC aapko bhi ignore kar raha kya???

Originally posted by: neeraja91

I'd like to believe that as a biology and medical student, Sai is very much aware of what sex and intimacy is. Atleast knowledge wise. Even though she has never felt any romantic feelings ever before. I don't think she realized how the sentence aboyt zabardasti sounded to Ashwini and pp. And neither did she register the shock on their faces.

But definitely she's innocent and has never experienced love/infatuation- only sexual and physical harassment by jagtap. She is definitely conscious of touch. Whether virat's or other men. Even when she has "unknowingly" hugged virat due to lizard and falling off the chair she was quick to break contact. Same with the lip touch when virat tries to "shush her". Either she moves back or freezes. There have been many eyelocks except the dance time one that Sai has broken. With Amey she slapped his hand away even though he touched her knee and didnt dare to do anything more intimate. So she is definitely very aware of these things.

I do think that if Ashwini is saying "pyaar pyaar" she should talk to virat first. Till date Ashwini has brushed under the carpet the virat pp relationship. Even Sai openly told aai that she thinks virat pp still love each other but shes convincing Sai of virats love instead of talking to virat about maintaining a respectful distance from his SIL. Virat listens to her. She is his mother. She is the only one that can "gently" but surely let him know that this "fikr" and " dosti" for pp needs to be within certain limits.and no matter what the circumstances of his marriage with Sai were, its still extremely disrespectful to his wife if he keeps regarding pp as his "best friend" and is so close to her and gives her the licence to cone in between a husband-wife relationship. Pp had no business walking into their room and providing any inputs in the middle of Sairat nokjhok/fight/manmutaav etc.. It would make any wife uncomfortable. And that even if he has hidden his past and his feelings for pp, as his mother she is not blind and she should tell virat that even though its "sad" that samrat is not in pp's life she is far too focused on interfering in Sairats life anyway. Ashwini is the only one that can show virat the truth about pp. And even as his mom, she probably needs to reiterate it a few times for virat to actually accept everything and reflect on it.

And ashwini saying" pyaar pyaar "to Sai unfortunately builds het expectations only to set her up for heartbreak if virat isnt going to be on the same page. So if shes egging it on, she needs to do it on both sides.

True, but as a character i think ashwini all status in that house depnds on Virat and showing Virat a mirror will make her lose her son as I believe even ashwini knows Virat is his fathers son.But I agree with what u said, only if anyone can give Virat a reality check

Just wished it was a private moment between Aai and Sai. Didn't like that Pakhi knows what happens in their bedroom and then use it against them for her benefit.

Of course Sai would know about s-e-x, however she wouldn't have realized how the word zabardasti would come across. It was also to show Pakhi that they still haven't had any physical intimacy, which by going by Ashwini's prediction, Pakhi might fear will be soon if she doesn't interfere.

Pakhi is level5 inception level delusional world.

Did she not notice his in front of family drooling performance when Sai came down wearing saree?

She thinks he fed Sai coz she suggested. When he told Aai about daal and usse khilaonga, he already had some kind of plan in his mind to feed Sai.

Originally posted by: yyyy

Answering your question, in today’s world , an 18 year is well of aware of sex and rapes . Sai knew what Jagtap was trying to say and she did look disturbed. I have seen in school , colleges where they get physically involved with their boyfriend so Sai is not ignorant when it comes to physical intimacy. On their wedding night , she knew what it was hence he asked Aai to stay back .

Well both Virat and Sai come with their own baggage and both have to let go off their past, move forward and accept each other with their flaws .

I understand, but as viewers lets be realistic her heart is set to break.

But now is the best time coz virat finally sees his father as a flawed person who makes many mistakes. His behavior towards Ashwini is suddenly jarring to virat, he has learned of how his father didn't speak up for Ashwini about completing her education and he has also seen hiw Ninad behaves with Sai and his own sister-shivani. Ashwini can hint that theres many instances where Ninad has failed as a husband. Infact just telling him something like that- ki just like one works at being a good son, good brother, good dad etc, being a good husband is a separate anf independent responsibility and its very much possible that a good father may be a horrible husband. She can leave it open ended and let virat ponder. Hes a smart guy. He just needs a push.

Nowadays generation teenagers know what's sex. She is even an educated girl. The thing is she is too innocent and doesn't think before speaking. Even when she argues she says things which are correct but which sometimes should be avoided. She is so innocent that even sometimes she doesn't understand what the other person is trying to say. BTW I find it super cute. 😆 I can just imagine in the future Virat romantically will say something and she will understand something else. 🤣

Joh woh zabardasti samajh rahi hai, woh pyaar hai. Joh pyaar hai woh ignore maar rahi hai. 🤣