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Originally posted by: hedwig_potter

@bold Could someone clear this up, because when I had visited Benaras and my parents had performed rudrabhishek at kashi vishwanath temple, I distinctly remember hearing that only married couple can together perform this pooja. Assuming that's true, Pakhi anyway could not have done the rudrabhishek because samrat is not there. I don't understand why Bhawani even asked her first.

Or does that bring us back to the point that she thinks Virat is her husband?

Or I do not remember the rules correctly?

Originally posted by: hedwig_potter

@bold Could someone clear this up, because when I had visited Benaras and my parents had performed rudrabhishek at kashi vishwanath temple, I distinctly remember hearing that only married couple can together perform this pooja. Assuming that's true, Pakhi anyway could not have done the rudrabhishek because samrat is not there. I don't understand why Bhawani even asked her first.

Or does that bring us back to the point that she thinks Virat is her husband?

I am not sure too. But I think it depends on the priest... I think women and girls can do rudrabhishek too. Although priests usually want a married couple to perform the rituals where the male does most of the rituals.

I don't know why Bhavani wanted Didi to do it... May be because it's allowed... Someone who knows can guide

Great analysis Janki as always 💕

Regarding the Virat-Pakhi scene, I think you are right. However cringy I may find looking at her on screen, it's important for the gradual breaking off of all ties.

I loved today episode, which had some spasht headlines on relationship which were

1) Haq : When you treat someone as your own, you don't seek their permission. The small gesture by Virat of pulling the chair towards him and holding her feet, without her permission. They are making small steps into a "haq" stage of relationship where they consider each other as pati patni without any second thoughts ( as in sindoor scene) ....the haq jamoying is on the way.😉

2) Gaze: The constant gaze of care, admiration, memesirization and affection. You can see it all and they just don't move their eyes away. Indicating both of them want to fall deeper in each other eyes and discover their feelings.

3) Belonging : When your partner is close to you, you share your deep secrets with them. That belonging from Sai has already started when she shared her Abba secret, and wanted hubby dear to continue the same by holding his hands to feed her more love and affection. And Virat smiled back, to say I will always be there for you honey .

Finally ending it with one of my favorite

Every breath you take

Every move you make

Every bond you break

Every step you take

I'll be watching you

Every single day

Every word you say

Every game you play

Every night you stay

I'll be watching you

Oh, can't you see

You belong to me

How my poor heart aches

With every step you take

Keep on taking baby steps Chavan saheb as we watch you, how you didn't consider Aniket as your competition. And youve got busy securing your base in baiko heart with these small gestures, once you noticed her small sacrifices of applying Alta despite allergy, and praying for safety, as gesture of " love".

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

Sai thum kamalsir air mujhpe Samantha dunthi rehthi ho, agar thume acha nahi lagraha ho tho I will stop.... Actually I forgot the line , I researched it now... But at this particular line, I felt virat was little upset, because whatever virat does, sai compares with her father but doesn't realize his love( atleast he thinks like that)..so he might taken back.

Ahh yes what does samanta mean??

Originally posted by: prs_725

Ahh yes what does samanta mean??

samanta is similarity

Virat was telling that Sai ties to look for similar traits between Kamal Sir and Virat.

Originally posted by: india-tv

samanta is similarity

Virat was telling that Sai ties to look for similar traits between Kamal Sir and Virat.

Thank you!

Yeah he does want her to see him in a diff perspective. Although she does but he doesn’t know.. the comparison is in the form of love. She even said “mere aba jasa pyaar mujse koi nahi kar sakta” and then the comparison w Virat sir .. w whom she’s searching for the unconditional love but putting up walls as well

I found the alta scene very symbolic...

Is it SHE who is hurt/rashes....The reason for this is HIM...she applied for his wellbeing....It is HE who is tending to the wounds/hurt/rashes....

She is hurt by his and his pariwaar wale's taane...he needs to tend to that using his healing words...

I feel here the CVs should have added some talk where Virat realises and says sorry to Sai that he misjudged her that she did not apply alta due to her stubbornness.... he was rude to her and thought that she was lying... I think 1-2 lines could have been impactful!!!

Originally posted by: prs_725

Thank you!

Yeah he does want her to see him in a diff perspective. Although she does but he doesn’t know.. the comparison is in the form of love. She even said “mere aba jasa pyaar mujse koi nahi kar sakta” and then the comparison w Virat sir .. w whom she’s searching for the unconditional love but putting up walls as well

the scene was not very clear to me too..It's Virat who says ki...'agar tumhe mera yeh sab karna accha nahi lagta to main nahi karunga..' He did not say ki ...mujhe tumhara mera and Kamal Sir mein samanta dhoondhna accha nahi lagta....

Ya i was confused about the context of that samanta line. If shes finding similarities between him and kamal sir its a good thing. Coz there is no one Sai loved/ressected/regarded more than kamal sir and to be compared to him is the highest praise Sai can give you. I thought it would be better either if he had asked her - if she realises that she keeps trying to find similarities between him and her dad or if he asked Sai not to keep finding similarities because he is worried he cannot match up to her father and will let kamal sir down but he will do everything he can to take care of her in her fathers absence.

Also i wish he had been shown either confessing to Sai that he misunderstood her or atleast having a one -two line monologue to chastitise himself for almost losing his shit/asking her to leave all because he fell for his familys words. And maybe reminding himself to stay calm and remain impartial like he usually is. Or feeling sad that his family except devi and aai are just not able to see Sai's goodness forget accepting her as bahu. First thing is thst they need to just let the poir girl breathe.

Overall he did feel bad that Sai applied alta for his sake despite an allergy but the impact may have been more to hear a little more monologue or conversation.

He looked very hopeful when Sai said "hosakta hai" in response to "anyone else jisse pyaar kiya jaa sakta hai" and when she followed up with "only in your dreams" he had to just smile. But he also brushed it off as " bhaav khana". In a way its probably for the better that they didnt make that scene too intense and lightened it up.

I personally also wish he had actually touched her lips when he was "shushing her" and then withdrawn it after both of them get conscious of that intimate touch. But koi nahi.

I like how virat consciously changed the sentence from meine to aai ne when talking about baking soda so that he could get her to listen. He knows that his aai has understood Sai even more than he has and so if Sai is ever told that aai has asked her to do something, she actually listens.