Chhal aur kapat ke pendulum se 'Option 2'! - Page 7

Originally posted by: Roch

Thank you Janki as always very nicely written, I know it’s ITV and you can’t have any logic there and it’s certainly very tragic. I don’t have the energy to watch the episode after reading all the comments.

Virat’s character is butchered and killed with the fact that he always stands by the family. Well we should have known that, he already spoiled one girls life for his so called family and doing the same thing to the other girl. I did have some comments to support him always but Abhi toh chappal bhi kam padenge. Kya phenku wahi soch rahi hoon.

The story is progressing yes but where is it going, who treats a human like that, and that too a wife. Who said Virat didn’t take after his father, of course he did. Ye writers itna confused kyun hain, dialogues hi Thik se likhte. Aur ye sab ke baad romance dikha ke Kya milega. Isn’t this the same Virat who once said Mujhe koi rasmein nahi karni, toh Abhi kyun bhai

Why is Virat so blind, family ne bola toh maan Liya gussa bhi kiya, Baiko ko dekho toh tone down kiya. Use your brains of a normal human being forget of a police officer (I have to forgotten long ago that Virat is an IPS officer)

I have a serious question, what does he feel for his wife, it’s not love for sure. Affection lagta tha par Woh bhi nahi hain. I agree with you Janki, it’s the physical tension and if that is what is drawing him to her then she better off all alone.

I seriously have no energy to watch today’s episode or this show for that matter. I know they butcher characters but after an year, Yahan toh 4 mahine mein hi sab khatam.

This week I might hold on but I have no hopes to stick on. Like you said Janki the remote is always in our 🙌

It takes a long time for the toxicity consumed for 27-28 years of life to come undone. Some of it also becomes visible as you begin to peel off the layers it was covered under.

How will a perfect person ever grow? We want Virat to be perfect but he's not. I didn't like him a bit today but I want to see if he can make himself likeable... 😐

Originally posted by: jane_austen

@bold guess that is the point of turning Virat to no-brain-all-brawn mode. Considering how Kabir Singh was a huge success (even among huge no. of girls) in every language , one can only conclude that they are probably trying to appeal to the crowd which loves toxic love stories.

Who is Kabir Singh, again?

Oh and yes, toxic men end up enticing the most practical women generally. The alpha mode men are very irresistible for intelligent women. It's a common fact (exceptions exist of course)

Originally posted by: Ishradivani

Virat is just toxic masculine personality now !!!!

I have lost all hopes from him

What is that zabardasti leke aao ????

Why is it necessary to apply Alta ?

Oxygen hai kya voh nahi lagaya toh jaan chali jayegi

And how inhumane are these ppl???

What if she landed in severe complications of contact dermatitis ????

She still might. Let's see if she does.

Virat was all set to bombard at sai today and would have done so too if she hasn't applied Alta even though he was smitten by her

Yes his entire jealously is not a cute one. It's causing him these random attraction-outburst cycles. Looks like this happens after the PMS ends.

I am sending truck load of chappals for him and I feel mera is show se rishta the end pe aane mein jyada wakt nahi lagega !!!!!

Chappals ke liye thank you 😆

Originally posted by: Roch

Well his basic problem is that only, he is not in deal mode and that's why he keeps on swaying. He wants her to behave like his wife, the bahu of the house.

And again he comes across as a control freak, whenever someone taunts him she does not listen to you, he goes crazy and behaves weirdly. I think this would be the third instance he has done this (I would let go the dance part - as that was out and out stupid).

Agree

I have also been thinking how he said 'tum ummeeed Nahi Rakh sakti'... Before the wedding. He never said, "him ek doosre se ummeeed Nahin rakhenge"... So maybe he wanted her to fulfill his expectations (minus consummation) in return for his favour.

Your posts are like oasis in the desert janki.... The healthy discussions here is the only reason i am sticking on to the show.... Otherwise I've lost all hopes from this serial... Family drama is eating up all the screenspace.... There's 6 episodes a week cant they dedicate 2 episodes for the leads and their relationship development?... They can continue with the family drama for the rest 4 episodes.... So disheartening to see good actors being wasted here.

Haven't seen the episode today... Wu was enough to boil my blood.... Virat's control freak attitude is a major disappointment.... No matter what he thinks him or his family have no right to force sai into anything... Even if it was a real marriage, he still cant force her... The way family treats her comes under domestic violence... Sai should make a police complaint for mental and physical torture.... Well i guess thats too much to ask from an itv character... If virat is Really intending to change sai, then i don't want him to fall for her at all.... He is better off with his vahini cum dost.... He should be stuck for life with that vile lady... Only then will he realise sai's value... If he is considering sending her to hostel, then he should do it asap.... We n sai will be spared of the circus happening in chakram niwas.

Originally posted by: india-tv

She is Sai and he knows it...'Sai aur shant'... so he cannot expect her to bow down to any injustice....

agar he is out of the Deal mode, then he cannot let others question his marriage and tell Sai that he has nothing from this marriage and Sai has everything...both verbally and by being silent when his pyar/dosti has the guts to question this standing in his room.....he cannot say it that how can she live alone when given option to move out with her or kick her out....So at this stage, his attraction for sai does not go very well...warna he would not have thought about the second option without a blink....

yes a control freak MCP...mixture of Jagtap and Ninand...This is what Ninad does..insult his wife....and Jagtap har waqt uske peeche..Jaise Virat goes to her school....Its such a difficult life for Sai...

I think to stay in this pagal khana, Sai needs Virat's trust and respect at the least.....love/desire etc etc ki filhaal ki avshyakta nahi hai.... If Virat can be swayed away each time, how is it possible for Sai to stay here....

I love how you've put that one 🤣🤣

Good Analysis dear.

in your post you have raised a valid point of physical intimacy. Yes that is needed when you are angry, frustrated....but just a hug solves everything. He is surrounded by negative vibes from his office to home. And the only woman who can give him the comfort of intimacy is moving away ( for her own valid reasons). There he feels suffocated and reacts in absurd way.

Moving on to Sai, who wants to get loved by her own husband, just like any other woman. But her marriage has been set on some pre condition. How can she allow a heartbreak and let someone play with her feelings. The only solution is separation.

The ground has been laid for it. Virat has to take final call.

Its said " You only realize importance of someone in your life when they move away. Else you take them for granted"

So, separation will do two good things, a bottleneck from CM " Sai" will be removed, when family will be at peace. But it will give rise to an inner turmoil inside hubby heart to realize what he took for granted was the most valuable thing he possessed "his Kohinoor"

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

True that... Its so easy to rile him up... Pakhi and chavans knows to push his buttons correctly.... His ego gets pricked the moment someone tells him sai wont listen to him.... Male ego and toxic masculinity at its peak.

Agree. They seem to have completed the course in Pushing the buttons. It's so strange that they know exactly the buttons to push with Sai and also with Virat. That one fight in front of the Chavans has really given the scheming Sena such a sharp look into their weakness. And both of them don't know.

Originally posted by: Roch

Arey Janki meri behen aisa mat karo, with your positivity it makes me watch the series and the episode as well.

Anyways finally I did watch the episode, some dialogues made me cringe but i am racking my logical brain to defend or atleast try and understand Jalebi Bai (in this case Bhai). Pata nahi isko karna kya hain life mein, itna confused kyun hain. Isko toh koi bhi influence kar sakta hain.

He's getting defensive about the attack against his 'wife'. Suddenly she's not the majboori me le li zimmedari. She's becoming his 'pasand'. His ego is getting bruised when his entitlement over her is questioned.

Can someboday make him sit, and try to understand his logical brain which has started functioning right from the Amey episode. My comments in blue 😲

Har episode alag hi bouncer hota hain, ye Virat kahan bat ghoomayga ye pata hi nahi chalta. Arey isse koi bolo ye ACP Virat hain, cricketer virat nahi 🤣

Well strange as it may sound, he has been wanting the whole family to accept her since the gruh pravesh. He never intended it to be a 5 year plan and with growing feelings now, it's all the more needed to have the family to accept her and stop adding to the stress in their marriage. So he has this urge to prove that he can control her, she listens to him and she will also obey family traditions...

The trust that is missing now is that part which comes from the 'intimacy' (conjugal relationship) which he is seeking and feels unwanted because she's slapping herself and ensuring she keeps her distance.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Who is Kabir Singh, again?

Oh and yes, toxic men end up enticing the most practical women generally. The alpha mode men are very irresistible for intelligent women. It's a common fact (exceptions exist of course)

'Kabir Singh' is a hindi movie, remade from telugu movie 'Arjun reddy'. The protagonist oozes toxic masculinity, is violent, has anger problem, obsessed with his 'love'. Boys want to be like him and girls want him due to his 'true love'.