Adi-Imlie and candid emotions DT nt. Pg 8 - Page 2

Wow Amazing post!👏

You said it so right, whatever their relation is right now but one thing is crystal clear that there is honesty between them and they know and understand each other fully and thats what makes their realationship so beautiful!❤️

absolutely wonderful post 👌

Aditya-Imlie's relationship is based on honesty & understanding, where they listen to each other's pov, even if they are fighting.

And that is what's missing in Adi-Malini relationship.

If we look at everything & compare, Aditya-Imlie's relationship is developing while Aditya-Malini relationship is degrading everyday.

And this is how writers are showing Aditya's changing feelings for both women.

Originally posted by: mrym_rauf

Wow Amazing post!👏

You said it so right, whatever their relation is right now but one thing is crystal clear that there is honesty between them and they know and understand each other fully and thats what makes their realationship so beautiful!❤️

Thank you! Yes, I feel this very honesty is what makes their relationship beautiful....I hope that quality is maintained as their relationship evolves.

Originally posted by: happy007

absolutely wonderful post 👌

Aditya-Imlie's relationship is based on honesty & understanding, where they listen to each other's pov, even if they are fighting.

And that is what's missing in Adi-Malini relationship.

If we look at everything & compare, Aditya-Imlie's relationship is developing while Aditya-Malini relationship is degrading everyday.

And this is how writers are showing Aditya's changing feelings for both women.

Thank you so much :)

@bold: Yes, that is exactly it.....one has to view the the two relationships in a larger context, not in terms of who is 'romancing' whom. The signs are all pointing to the fact that despite what Adi thinks he wants/loves, his relationship with Malini will continue to deteriorate because Destiny decrees it so....even now, Malini is more consumed with wanting to find out about Imlie's husband than spending time with Adi. This is all pointing to the likelihood that Adi-Malini will keep drifting apart while Adi-Imlie grow closer emotionally. Ultimately this will be about the depths of emotional bonding rather than being about which marriage is more valid.

You guys are amazing yaar. I cant express my views in word. But all of you are written my emotions what I feel for Aadi Malini and Aadi Imlie Rishta.❤️

"They are both trapped in such a hopeless/helpless situation in many ways but the fact that they TALK through almost every stage of it is what makes them an interesting watch IMO. For the last 50 or so epis, Adi has oscillated b/w anger, frustration and helplessness.....and he has talked through all those emotions with Imlie. Imlie in turn, has responded by sharing her state of mind, the state of her emotions just as candidly.....there is a remarkable honesty between them at this point and that is what I like. "

You're so righttt. I hadn't even noticed this, but yeah, they ARE talking and communicating and being organic abt their feelings which is such a big part of emotional intimacy and so important. Like Im def gonna pay attention and appreciate their moments way more now that you've pointed this out.

Very nice post and interesting POV... I will wait and watch to see what unfolds... Hope I am able to keep up my patience.. But one thing.. In tripathi house.. The behavior of Adi was cowardice

Nice analysis. I agree with it in parts, which obviously means there are parts that I disagree with.

See , it's a bang on point you raised that Imlie never wanted to get married , not because marriage has no value for her , it's just the opposite, it has too much value for her so that she wanted to avoid it as she had other plans.

" jab tak ladki ki hatheli kori hai, tab tak lakeere bhi apni aur kismat bhi, pad jo ek bar mehendi lag jayi, to sab kisi aur ka. "

And this from the very first episode! So , her character has stayed true to her core beliefs. She knew what impact marriage will have on her. That's okay.

However having clarity inside your mind is not the same as transparency outside. It's not always appropriate or morally correct to speak the truth. She's completely entitled to think of the marriage as truth and stick to it , because as you said it's her conditioning. It's the belief system ingrained into her.

But it was not okay or if I may say it's immoral to speak the truth aloud to Aditya. One should know when to speak one's mind and when to hold silence. What about Malini ?? I may not at all like her character, but does that mean I have to pretend she doesn't exist or that she's Aditya's wife in the eyes of the world and society ?? She blindly trusts both her husband and Imlie. She couldn't even dream such a bond is developing between them. She calls her her little sister and actually treats her like one , and Imlie calls her her Didi. If she wanted , she could've stopped Aditya from marrying Malini, she was even given the opportunity by Aditya. She backed off and it was the right thing to do as she didn't want to burden Aditya with the forced marriage relationship as she understood " jabardasti se kono rista nehi jode jata. "

Or so she said.

Did she even realize that under the given circumstances and with an unsuspecting innocent person dangling between the two of them , saying that she considers only him as husband and will always do so and consider their marriage as valid when he does none of that, itself is an act of manipulation , an emotional blackmail. Emotional manipulation is not always over the top like slashing wrist to get your parents bend to your will , or go hungry for a night so that your spouse comes to you and apologize. It is often subtle and psychological and therefore most effective. She tells a man all these ,knowing she'll go back to his house and live under the same roof and will be in his eyes 24 × 7 , with the knowledge of today's conversation burning between them. Eventually of course that will effect his psyche, that this girl considers me as husband, I was married to her etc.

It's like playing a long game. And not a good one. Won't Malini be wrecked if she finds out that Aditya and Imlie signed up this convoluted peace treaty and started staying in the same house with this peaceful negotiation that is ethically as wrong as it could be. Aditya should immediately send her away to some where safe , like a hostel or boarding school. He's being too casual in his approach.

It breaks my heart to think that by that time Malini will find out about all these , Imlie has already stolen her husband's heart and effectively ruined her marriage. No matter how dull or boring , no way a married lady deserves this.

At this point ,from this moment onwards I'll see all Imlie's actions with a new color , with prejudice, with a grain of suspicion. My firm faith is her righteousness has suffered a big shock. She's not looking so innocent to me now. I'm sorry but openness is not always synonymous with goodness and frankness is not always kindness.

What bond? 🙄 All gul shows have this shitty bonding..nothing special

Really enjoyed reading both your different takes @AreYaar & @MusicMuse 👏

See I completely understand why most are feeling cheated and frustrated by that Adilie scene and also the nauseating Adini content. On the other hand, I'm surprised at Imlie being disparaged over what she said to Adi. Hearing Adi again say he couldn't accept the relationship with Imlie because Malini's the only one for him isn't anything new. And Imlie explaining why and saying she accepts him as her husband isn't breaking news either because she pretty much told him the same thing during their suhaag raat fighting scene as well as the time she said his name during the saat janam ritual scene. She may not have used as direct language as she did now but she has put that same message across to Adi before.

So they were both pretty much reiterating what they have said to each other before. I think the only reason it seems so different to us this time is because they were speaking in such a amicable way about this issue for the first time. Adi wasn't roaring his stance and Imlie wasn't having to emotionally defend hers. It was really refreshing and beautiful to see them speak so tenderly to one another.

The only thing that made my eyebrow twitch was Adi saying he wouldn't stop her from believing him to be her husband. It's also the only thing that made me even more sure that Adi is in denial of his actual feelings for Imlie. If he's truly so damn sure he'd NEVER waver from Malini, he'd also never leave the door of hope open for Imlie. Also body language is a huge thing.

Notice how he was standing or crouching beside the bed for most of the conversation but as soon as Imlie said the words “humare liye aap humri pati” he got up and sat next to her on the bed. I believe that was deliberately done by the scene director for a specific reason and wasn't just a case of Gashmeer having pins & needles. The fact that it was after this point that he caressed her cheek was also poignant.

Atleast to me, Adi's feelings aren't so confusing. He is falling for Imlie but is just caught between a rock and a hard place. He feels a huge responsibility to Malini because of the 7 years he kept her dream of becoming his wife alive. He can't simply just surrender to these new feelings he has for Imlie, so he's resisting them but at the same time, his heart isn't letting him put an end to them.

The last thing he said to Imlie about allowing Sita Maiya to unravel this complex web for them indicates that his feelings for Malini don't actually have that finality he wants us to believe.

“Tumhe patni ka maan nahin de sakte, patni ka darja nahin de sakte, patni ka adikar nahin de sakte.”

Sorry if I've written this all wrong, guys. I'm not a hindi speaker but I understand it to some degree. Doesn't nahin de sakte mean I CAN'T GIVE? . If so...then it's notable because there's a huge difference in Adi saying I can't give you these rights and him saying he doesn't want to. Saying I can't give you the rights of a wife just points to the fact that there are obstacles keeping him from doing so not that he necessarily wouldn't want to. Again, there's no FINALITY in his words. If there ever was any finality in what Adi feels for either Malini...he would have definitely annulled his marriage with Imlie long ago.

All I know if that after Pagdandiya track, Adi does see Imlie as his wife but ofcourse he won't openly admit it let alone act upon it yet. He has started to give her importance in his life now. Again, this was proven in that scene when he was trying to ward off his family's suspicions about Imlie being married.

“Aap sab uski employers hai, uski family nahin hai.”

Think about why he excluded himself from the employers and non-family category here? If he didn't view Imlie as his wife, he would have said HUM SAB at the start of that sentence, right? The finer details mean something guys, so let's not lose hope in Adilie. Their journey has only just begun.😊