Both the sides are being selfish ....ishangre siya vansh are not empathetic that riddhima had spent all her life in orphange n hostel...it is definitely not an easy life....we still dont know what abuses she went through....but the whole thing where you are in love with the idea of love says alot about the person...she must have been really desperate...
Vansh understands that she wants to know about her parents.. .n he is straight out saying forget it, move on....he is safeguarding his family n his relationship with ridz
Riddhima on other hand is not at all empathetic about his juvenile years...or how he feels ...she is also too focused on her parents mystery...
They both love each other immensely but their personal agenda is very important to them...all is fine as long as she doesn't get played by kabir....