Did Virat save or ruin Sai's life?

Did Virat save or ruin Sai's life by marrying her?

He could have brought her to the Chavans or alternatively helped her without marrying her.

As a forum member mentioned, Sai is entitled to (quite a helfy) government aid as long as she is unmarried.

Virat marrying her stripped her of that and left her at the mercy of the Chavans. Plus there is no mention of her Abba's savings or financials.

A friend mentioned that (don't know how true) that PK taunted about Virat salary (a lump sum of 56k) and family savings being used on her to pay her fees (4lakh 68k).

I personally think Virat ruined her life (mainly because of Makkhi and his regressive family). The Chavans aren't a great or rich or mahaan family.

And if sacrificing life on duty is mahaan and bahadur as per Kaku, then Sai's Abba is equally mahaan if not more.

Over the last few weeks, I have believed that Virat shouldn't have married (or ruined Sai's life). Now toh it's confirmed. Sai basically lives in a version of hell. And now probably won't even be able to study in peace (given new spoiler about Kaku creating troubles for her on the day of her tests). This behaviour is inexcusable.

What do you think?

(I do get the gunda factor (momentarily forgot it 😆). But then do cops go around marrying every girl they see because there's a goon after them? 🤣 What does that make of our forces.)

Also, disgusted by how they portray "respectable" army/government worker families who are genuinely amazing people. Here they're jobless creatures who terrorise an 18yo for fun and bully the other bahus because "ab toh Saas ban gaye hai so let's continue this cycle of torture).

The BEST poll on this forum....

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

The BEST poll on this forum....

I try. 💁🏻‍♀️ But genuinely, these few weeks are making me realise how unstannable this ship is. Virat deserves his Pakhi. And they do make a better (more logical) ship. I would prefer someone who let's Sai be her herself and grow into the person she wants to be. This is just so wrong. 😂

It was genuinely a nice ship and so cute until the Chindi Chavans happened. No one deserves a family or in-laws like this.

I want to be objective here.

I won't say he has ruined her life because he has time to change what has gone wrong and it appears like he is seeing through it.

If he doesn't take corrective steps, then it will go in the direction of "ruining" her life. As of now, with all the care and compassion and platonic love that he genuinely has for her, he has definitely saved her. If he can use his shaant dimaag and do the spashth talking, they will actually be happy together because Sai does feel deeply for him too -- not love yet. I don't think she would be happy without him. And life always brings you a package of some things you may not like. So, it is about what you do of the lemons it throws at you.

Every couple has many bad days and many fights during their adjustment period. Those who truly love, save each other! ❤️

Lol I'm still indecisive. I don't know if he has ruined her life.... but one thing I see clearly, is that he has to a certain extent damaged her self-respect .

Originally posted by: sammy17

Lol I'm still indecisive. I don't know if he has ruined her life.... but one thing I see clearly, is that he has to a certain extent damaged her self-respect .

True that. He can really restore it too but. The damage is not too deep yet. So, he better do it quickly.

If Virat continues to get blindfolded towards his family,thinking them to be good at heart,he would definitely ruin Sai’s health,studies,career and her future. If he still thinks his family is ok but Sai is bad Tameez,very soon Sai will spoil her health and mental stability. So there is every chance of Virat ruining Sai..as given in the poll. Ofcourse misunderstandings happen but if the family is a gang of abusers and husband refuses to see the intensity of the harassment,nothing will move smoothly .On top of that as a bonus Virat gifted Sai his disparate delusional Ex girl friend who intrudes every night and disturbs Sai while her husband patiently gets along with his Ex and reprimands only Sai for talking in such a tone with her. Ya there is every possibility of Sai getting lost in Chavan Chakravyuh.

Originally posted by: AraBearxo

Did Virat save or ruin Sai's life by marrying her?

He could have brought her to the Chavans or alternatively helped her without marrying her.

As a forum member mentioned, Sai is entitled to (quite a helfy) government aid as long as she is unmarried.

Virat marrying her stripped her of that and left her at the mercy of the Chavans. Plus there is no mention of her Abba's savings or financials.

A friend mentioned that (don't know how true) that PK taunted about Virat salary (a lump sum of 56k) and family savings being used on her to pay her fees (4lakh 68k).

I personally think Virat ruined her life (mainly because of Makkhi and his regressive family). The Chavans aren't a great or rich or mahaan family.

And if sacrificing life on duty is mahaan and bahadur as per Kaku, then Sai's Abba is equally mahaan if not more.

Over the last few weeks, I have believed that Virat shouldn't have married (or ruined Sai's life). Now toh it's confirmed. Sai basically lives in a version of hell. And now probably won't even be able to study in peace (given new spoiler about Kaku creating troubles for her on the day of her tests). This behaviour is inexcusable.

What do you think?

(I do get the gunda factor (momentarily forgot it 😆). But then do cops go around marrying every girl they see because there's a goon after them? 🤣 What does that make of our forces.)

Also, disgusted by how they portray "respectable" army/government worker families who are genuinely amazing people. Here they're jobless creatures who terrorise an 18yo for fun and bully the other bahus because "ab toh Saas ban gaye hai so let's continue this cycle of torture).

Add this option 2 did sai ruined virat's life coz d moment she enter his life uska har taraf se jhoote pad rahe hai , uski zindagi mein ek din ki shanti nhi. Pakhi said right sai brought toofan in virat's life & destroyed it , if she would had guts to ran away from her own wedding rather just giving advices to other , aaj ka ye din hum na dekh rahe hote .

Infact he already left GC with getting insulted by sai .

Usha tai destroyed virat"s life by calling him back after kamal sir death & suggesting his name to kamal sir as police force mein koi aur officer tha nhi kya , I will never forgive this woman for destroying virat's life.

If somewhere deep in his heart he knew Sai would have to put up with this drama and she will be treated this way by his gharwale, then yes! He should have found some other way to help her out.

Her father is dead ,for godsake, leave her alone! 😵

This was like asmaan se gire khajoor me atke! 😔

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Add this option 2 did sai ruined virat's life coz d moment she enter his life uska har taraf se jhoote pad rahe hai , uski zindagi mein ek din ki shanti nhi. Pakhi said right sai brought toofan in virat's life & destroyed it , if she would had guts to ran away from her own wedding rather just giving advices to other , aaj ka ye din hum na dekh rahe hote .

Infact he already left GC with getting insulted by sai .

Usha tai destroyed virat"s life by calling him back after kamal sir death & suggesting his name to kamal sir as police force mein koi aur officer tha nhi kya , I will never forgive this woman for destroying virat's life.

I know you are neil bhatt fan but neil is not Virat.

Wake up and smell coffee bro. Also, i agree on one thing Usha Mausi jad hai is sabki🤬