BIGG BOSS TAMIL Season 4 Discussion- Week 14 - Thread 1 - Page 77

Originally posted by: Shravya1

I didn't mean it happened exactly at that point, but those 2 things made her upset and then being saved last. As a housemate, she would know what others are doing too la.. she so she may have really wondered what she did wrong..

Also her points against Aari in that discussion was spot on and Kamal didn't look into it at all.. just brushed it off.. An ignorance like that would hurt, especially if it's from someone u look up to.

Anyone would be sad if they were losing.. that is human nature but I believe it is

not just about elimination. She was being criticized and brushed off.. I think the feed back she got was more harsh than what others have been receiving so far.

I relate her smile to more than her confidence. It's kind of a fall back thing for her.. or a reflex when she doesn't know what to do in a situation. I know of people who do that. They smile in places, that many of us wouldn't.. and it's not because they don't care/or they are cunning, it's just they don't like to show their true emotion in front of others.

Don’t want to be dramatic but I believe her smile is her weapon and her way with coping with life.

The entertaining industry and the life is sometime very difficult and more so if you are woman.
Behind her smile there is a lot of going on. Many thoughts and sadness and hurt too but she tries not to show it, so she smiles. She seems to be a person who doesn’t want to be too emotional in front of people. You can see it as see when she saw her brother after months. For a fleeting moment you could see all the emotions she felt on her face but in an instance she hid it behind her smile.
even her family are very „smiley“. I think it is just their way of living their life to take situations easy even if it is hard. Their coping mechanism.

There are so many instances in life where I wished I could brush a situation away with a smile but unfortunately I am never able to do it.

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Don’t want to be dramatic but I believe her smile is her weapon and her way with coping with life.

The entertaining industry and the life is sometime very difficult and more so if you are woman.
Behind her smile there is a lot of going on. Many thoughts and sadness and hurt too but she tries not to show it, so she smiles. She seems to be a person who doesn’t want to be too emotional in front of people. You can see it as see when she saw her brother after months. For a fleeting moment you could see all the emotions she felt on her face but in an instance she hid it behind her smile.
even her family are very „smiley“. I think it is just their way of living their life to take situations easy even if it is hard. Their coping mechanism.

There are so many instances in life where I wished I could brush a situation away with a smile but unfortunately I am never able to do it.

Kind of my opinion about her smile too.. For some reason, many seem to associate her smile as Nakkal...but maybe it's because I have few close ones who take it all with a smile, I am able to accept her smile as a genuine reaction/her weapon to handle some situations..

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Don’t want to be dramatic but I believe her smile is her weapon and her way with coping with life.

The entertaining industry and the life is sometime very difficult and more so if you are woman.
Behind her smile there is a lot of going on. Many thoughts and sadness and hurt too but she tries not to show it, so she smiles. She seems to be a person who doesn’t want to be too emotional in front of people. You can see it as see when she saw her brother after months. For a fleeting moment you could see all the emotions she felt on her face but in an instance she hid it behind her smile.
even her family are very „smiley“. I think it is just their way of living their life to take situations easy even if it is hard. Their coping mechanism.

There are so many instances in life where I wished I could brush a situation away with a smile but unfortunately I am never able to do it.

🥺🥺🥺 very true. Behind that smile lies a 1000 tears. 😔. What hurt me is when kh sir was bashing her and she just closed her eyes for a moment..i felt that hurt. 🤧

ANBU ONDRU THAN ANATHAI 💔

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Don’t want to be dramatic but I believe her smile is her weapon and her way with coping with life.

The entertaining industry and the life is sometime very difficult and more so if you are woman.
Behind her smile there is a lot of going on. Many thoughts and sadness and hurt too but she tries not to show it, so she smiles. She seems to be a person who doesn’t want to be too emotional in front of people. You can see it as see when she saw her brother after months. For a fleeting moment you could see all the emotions she felt on her face but in an instance she hid it behind her smile.
even her family are very „smiley“. I think it is just their way of living their life to take situations easy even if it is hard. Their coping mechanism.

There are so many instances in life where I wished I could brush a situation away with a smile but unfortunately I am never able to do it.

You have to control emotions not overdo,and should know when and where to show what emotions

The reason why i dont relate much with ramya and her smile,cos it wont work in my workplace and affect my relationship with people,one should have no smile in serious arguements/meetings, when someone is crying

Right amount of everything should be fine,when it exceeds its not healthy

"Minjina amridhamum nanju" nu solunvanga adhu emotions'kum porundhum

Originally posted by: mysriga9

+1 agree fully

🙏😊

Originally posted by: rosel

Always smiling is not a good one,no matter what industry you're in

You have to control emotions not overdo,and should know when and where to show what emotions

The reason why i dont relate much with ramya and her smile,cos it wont work in my workplace and affect my relationship with people,one should have no smile in serious arguements/meetings, when someone is crying

Right amount of everything should be fine,when it exceeds its not healthy

"Minjina amridhamum nanju" nu solunvanga adhu emotions'kum porundhum

I beg to differ here rosie i will have to disagree with u on this one..ramya falls under the category of politically correct..diplomatic...etc.that category you will survive in all industry. NOT the right strategy for the game of bb but its the daam right game for life.

@bold ..i don't know what kind of meeting you are having that people are crying in meetings 🤣 But she has put her point across when needed and directly confronted bala aari and rio. Her laughing at fake drama over people crying when they going to meet 10 days later doesn't seem over the top to me IMO.

Originally posted by: rosel

You can put your points freely!

Other do soft hurt/mock too but ramya is criticised cos she does it more compared to others

And since weekend she's low,cant handle hard criticism?Till last week she was not under scanner,the moment she came under scanner that smile left her!Couldnt handle pressure?

She smiled whenever aari-bala fought,sanam-bala fought,but couldnt even maintain that smile when she got criticised?

There are lot of characteristic's that ramya need to change,ramesh pointed out earlier itself that she does soft hurt,2-3 times have seen HM's becoming visibly upset with her soft hurt,i remember bala's when she said about mr.india something..still she continues doing it

She was leading,thus the confidence and thus the happy glow and towards end she mocked few of them...

Another point is her trying to be in maximum HM's good book,then there is flipping as well...she has the fastest flip in an episode

she was never low when the housemates criticised it and she always took it in a sportive way.

So in my opinion that never was the point why she was feeling low after the weekend (in the weekend episodes it wasn’t even mentioned). she was low, because she was insulted on national tv by a host who he admired by the whole nation (and a host where everyone expects too be neutral). Her thoughts was brushed off. KH didn’t even give her a second of his time to reply to her thoughts like he did with the housemates. And then KH potrayed it like Ramya was only on Balas side because of his biceps. I mean she is woman who has seen life and has her own experiences about life. I really don’t think someone as her should be accused to be on someone side because of his body’s. I mean no women, no matter what age, should be publicly accused to be on man‘s side because of his body. As if Ramya isn’t able to make opinions about a HM by herself.
There might be people who could brush off this insult but everyone has a breaking point and that was Ramya‘s. She is a human too and under pressure everyone has a breaking point. And if all of this isn’t enough the caller implied she is playing safe game.

How is she playing safe game when she put points against Bala, Aari and and Rio in discussions. These three have the strongest fan base and These three are the ones who Kamal Hassan speaks too the most.

There have been instances where she criticised Balaji and Rio. Yes she is the most against Aari but in her eyes he is her toughest competition and she has too win against him. Even then she never says things unfairly and her point against him always have truth In it. Even after freeze week after every family highly praised Aari and even her brother praised him highly and she still maintained her stance and didn’t change her game or thoughts.

so being insulted, being brushed off and accused of playing her safe game was her breaking point.

Originally posted by: rosel

Always smiling is not a good one,no matter what industry you're in

You have to control emotions not overdo,and should know when and where to show what emotions

The reason why i dont relate much with ramya and her smile,cos it wont work in my workplace and affect my relationship with people,one should have no smile in serious arguements/meetings, when someone is crying

Right amount of everything should be fine,when it exceeds its not healthy

"Minjina amridhamum nanju" nu solunvanga adhu emotions'kum porundhum

This ! She can smile/ laugh / do watever she want to wen she is pain ... Because it's her pain ... Y not reduce a bit wen something serious going on or others eviction or wen someone else crying ... It come across mocking ..

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

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(P.S) Thava pls give screen play writer role to me for your movie 😆

Lol for ur wildest imaginations and always justifying mr.dubakoor behaviour u are made for that role. Take it . 💯💯💯

Originally posted by: rosel

🤣that was funny

Now its look funny but it wont be same if someone else in that place...It will be termed as Vijay TV favourtism