BB4 Tamil: Discussion- Week 13 - Thread 2| 3rd DT Warning ! Pg. 1 - Page 71

Originally posted by: InduD

But I really want Aari to win so that we can get over him and his neerai fans. If not, i don’t even want to imagine their katharals. They may go to an extend of building temple for him. 😳😳 Moreover, they will tear apart the winner. It is better that Aari wins for peace and sanity of all. 😉

But for me, Ramya and Rio and Som are true winner in life. Ramya for her intelligence, mental balance and composure. Rio, though cannot express himself well, for trying to maintain positivity in that negative environment. Som for being calm, composted, letting other be who they are and giving importance to relationships than proving himself right. He has apologised in places where he doesn’t need to but that shows what he values.

I would request all members to take few mins to read the rules in page 1. Talk about the contestant and not the fans of that contestant.

“This forum is to discuss the show and its contestants rather than the forum member or fan bases. Making any personal attacks or derogatory names calling against members/contestants is NOT acceptable. Refrain from making posts that are abusive, derogatory, sarcastic and insulting enough to affect the sentiment of another member.”

I've been only watching the weekend episodes and occasionally reading the updates.

I don't understand why people generally (in the BB house and in SM) keep saying "game-a vilaiyaadhuga", "game-a olunga vilaiyadhuga", "game-a thappa vilaiyadhureinga", etc. What is the correct way to play BB? Everyone is playing in his/her own way and that way is tempered by their maturity, experiences, disposition and intentions. If you argue with someone, that is wrong. If you keep quiet because you want to keep the peace in the house or you want to get along with everyone, that is wrong. Then what is right? Finding the balance between these? But what is that balance? Everyone has different views also tempered by their own experiences and disposition.

So when I read that they are playing the game wrongly (i.e. Rio, Som, etc for so-called "groupism") or not playing the game (i.e. Ajeeth. Shivani for being too introverted), I think that it is not that they are playing wrongly. It is just that they are playing in a way that you do not like. I feel that the only wrong way to play the game is to break the official BB game rules (i.e. physical violence, etc). I personally don't see what the problem is with the so-called "groupism". If I were in the game, I would think that I would want to form allies and yes, a group so that I can survive longer. I don't understand why everyone including KH keeps saying "play individually". I don't see what is wrong with a gameplay where someone belongs to a group, get people outside that group eliminated and then start playing individually when it comes down to the wire (i.e. the final few contestants). Why is that not an accepted gameplay? That happens in real life as well.

And why is it that people in SM keep saying that the content creators are the real players and the ones who deserve to be there? So you need to be in the middle of a drama in order to be considered a good player? It does not matter if you play the mini-games throughout the course of BB well. It does not matter if you do not get involved in the drama if it does not involve you (and along that line, why do people feel that every individual have to voice out about every little injustice in the BB house? If you nit-pick on every little thing, you are just going to make living there a living hell like how apparently Aari is doing and there is no escape from it for nearly 3.5 months. I think that being smart is to know what to fight for and what to let go so that everyone can co-exist somewhat peacefully and that is a good player).

In my view, ultimately the BB game is to win over enough audience to vote for you or not to aggravate viewers to the extent that they will vote for others to vote you out be it whichever way you play. In that sense, Aari seems to have captured the attention of the audience and seems to be leading and perhaps even the eventual winner because he is lucky that the BB show is telecasted for a short duration with viewers only having to see him for an hour or so every day. I think that if the viewers were to live with him, they too will be exasperated by him (I am annoyed even though I watch so few episodes).

I dislike Aari for being so sanctimonious but do admire his self-control in managing his emotions. He is certainly mentally strong to be able to withstand all of the criticism (some justified) hurled his way without lashing out. In that sense, I half kind of wish that Aari does win BB as he ultimately has managed to get under the skin of so many people in the house and break them and in the process get portrayed as a paragon instead of the prig that he actually appears to be.

Of the remaining contestants, my wish is for Som to win. He has tried in the mini-games and did well in some. He gets along with everyone well (including Aari). The "groupism" thing with him does not bother me. It is just unfortunate that he was not involved in enough drama to be showcased more often like Aari, Bala, etc and so along the way has been branded as unworthy.

Edit: Want to note that I was talking generally about the BB audience in this rant and not any contestant fan group or any forum member.

I know aari is going to win the title even mid season and have mentioned it repeatedly.

But I also dislike him as a contestant from mid season and said so. He hasnt corrected or become better from then on.

He still screams and shouts if anyone criticizes or nominates or even doesnt choose him as the best in sappa games.

Expectation is that he will keep advicing everyone and criticizing while making ton of mistakes himself and people should listen to him.

No one should point out his mistakes even politely. no one can nominate him.

This hypocritical dictatorial person doesnt deserve the win. Not even one bit of self analysis for a person who spends 24*7 criticizing others.

He got so agitated when people rightly called out his warning as warning but he said it was branding. After that he has been branding all other contestants as unfit or safe players till date. But when he does branding, isnt it wrong? ( part 2, part 1 was yesterday😊).

Originally posted by: Shravya1

I don't know if BB team hasn't clearly defined it in their Rules book or if these contestants just don't understand the concept.. I myself am confused to this day.. sometimes it looks like it's just the worst player but then it shouldn't be called boring.. When u call something boring, then it becomes a subjective term and anyone can say anything and say they felt it was boring.. True, Aari didn't bring any fun elements..

Was he in kitchen team? I thought he was with Housekeeping and Toilet..Everyone forgot it, and it's okay to call it out.. but blaming one or 2 people is not right.. Unless it happened again and again..

I won't say Rio didn't make mistakes but Aari can't expect everyone to play like him.. Rio is Rio, not Aari.. And exactly, nominating Som for coffee ?? really? it was a fun task. As per Aari's logic, Rio should be questioning him, "Out of these 7 people, don't u think there are others who deserves to be nominated more than Som??"

I respect your opinion about Rio. For me, he conveyed his points in good way rather than going overboard. Even though Rio made a mistake in selecting WP, Aari only ended up in jail. Because of Aari's lame reason, Som ended in nominations and might get eliminated too. So who is bigger culprit in these two? Housemates are dumb, they can easily counterattack with his mistakes as he done many wrongs too. They gets frustrated easily by Aari’a game plan. Hope Ramya can do that by pointing his mistakes to everyone like he does!

Regarding WP, everyone twists according to their own benefits. Even if BB gives them explanations, they are not gonna follow it.

Originally posted by: EmeraldStar

Hi Bhooma

Happy New Year 🤗

Hi arthi ..

Thanks so much...🤗😊

Originally posted by: PKTamil

I would request all members to take few mins to read the rules in page 1. Talk about the contestant and not the fans of that contestant.

“This forum is to discuss the show and its contestants rather than the forum member or fan bases. Making any personal attacks or derogatory names calling against members/contestants is NOT acceptable. Refrain from making posts that are abusive, derogatory, sarcastic and insulting enough to affect the sentiment of another member.”

Thanks for the reminder 😅😅

I don’t view my comment as a personal attack. It was a observation of how his fans in SM have behaved so far. 🤷‍♀️ Since it seems to hurt the fans of Aari, I shall refrain from mentioning them. Unlike Aari, I correct myself when others are hurt. 😉

Happy New Year. 🎉

Originally posted by: livepraylaugh

I respect your opinion about Rio. For me, he conveyed his points in good way rather than going overboard. Even though Rio made a mistake in selecting WP, Aari only ended up in jail. Because of Aari's lame reason, Som ended in nominations and might get eliminated too. So who is bigger culprit in these two? Housemates are dumb, they can easily counterattack with his mistakes as he done many wrongs too. They gets frustrated easily by Aari’a game plan. Hope Ramya can do that by pointing his mistakes to everyone like he does!

Regarding WP, everyone twists according to their own benefits. Even if BB gives them explanations, they are not gonna follow it.

Yes, in last 2 episodes - he did convey his points well.

Exactly.. If he can nominate Som for not choosing his coffee, then why can't Rio nominate for not interacting with him?

I agree.. Housemates don't pick the right points.

True.. they don't understand/won't follow

Originally posted by: llptch

I’m surprised they didn’t cut out Shivani’s mother’s zoom call today. Even after Kamal told her she was wrong, she didn’t back down and still stood by the stance she said the right things, and as a mother she is the only one who will think for her good. Have to appreciate her for not being intimidated 👍🏼 Kamal tried to change that into a victory point for him by saying “this is what I expected” 🤣 She didn’t say anything different that day and today minus the beep words. Athukkum she gave an explanation it was because of language barrier. Romba terror mummy ah iruppaanga, Tamil Nadu politicians paarthu kooda bayyam illa.

Antha Amma was very strong on her stand . Is he ?

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Today‘s episode is the worst episode. I am so so so disappointed in KH. I lost all my respect I had for him.

It is okay to blame Ramya that she isn’t neutral. Everyone‘s opinions differs and if he is this opinion than so be it. Even me being a Ramya biased, am saying that she isn’t neutral. She does have housemates who she is closer to.

He could have asked her questions about her stand, interrogate her after she said her points about Aari. Instead he didn’t say anything (absolutely nothing) and went immediately to Balaji to interrogate him.

Then after a long discussion, where everything was discussed, KH comes back to Aari and he sarcastically says that Ramya might find Aari boring, because he hasn’t have the height as Balaji or his body isn’t as broad as Balas or that he doesn’t have the biceps of him.

I was so shocked and disappointed. So that means a woman can’t independently have an opinion or defend a man without being blamed that she is only doing that because of his body???!!! I might not have watched every episode this season but never Ramya has crossed a line with the men in the House nor she hasn’t shown interest in them. So when a woman has an opinion and she can talk about it cleverly and confidently it might be because she is influenced by the outward appearance?!

Would he have said that when a man would have stand on the side of female housemate and defended her?

After that interaction Ramya was totally off. It was like a light has turned off. I admire her that she didn’t say anything to KH...

Edit: I am sorry for my rant. I felt disappointment (still feeling it) and needed to let it out. But it didn’t help...still feel frustrated...

I used to like kamal's big boss hosting and always admired his movie performances but after reading about his treatment with ramya yesterday I lost respect completely.

Intelligent strong women contestant like Ramya or even mumtaz have been given the same treatment as someone pointed out.

In ramya's case I noticed early on itself.

But yesterday to say as if Ramya likes bala because of his physique is

1. baseless. Nothing of her behavior dictates this talk.

2. defaming too.

He can be removed from hosting from now on.

I dont want strong women to be constantly attacked by him.