BB4 Tamil: Discussion- Week 13 - Thread 2| 3rd DT Warning ! Pg. 1- Page 67

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Today‘s episode is the worst episode. I am so so so disappointed in KH. I lost all my respect I had for him.

It is okay to blame Ramya that she isn’t neutral. Everyone‘s opinions differs and if he is this opinion than so be it. Even me being a Ramya biased, am saying that she isn’t neutral. She does have housemates who she is closer to.

He could have asked her questions about her stand, interrogate her after she said her points about Aari. Instead he didn’t say anything (absolutely nothing) and went immediately to Balaji to interrogate him.

Then after a long discussion, where everything was discussed, KH comes back to Aari and he sarcastically says that Ramya might find Aari boring, because he hasn’t have the height as Balaji or his body isn’t as broad as Balas or that he doesn’t have the biceps of him.

I was so shocked and disappointed. So that means a woman can’t independently have an opinion or defend a man without being blamed that she is only doing that because of his body???!!! I might not have watched every episode this season but never Ramya has crossed a line with the men in the House nor she hasn’t shown interest in them. So when a woman has an opinion and she can talk about it cleverly and confidently it might be because she is influenced by the outward appearance?!

Would he have said that when a man would have stand on the side of female housemate and defended her?

After that interaction Ramya was totally off. It was like a light has turned off. I admire her that she didn’t say anything to KH...

Edit: I am sorry for my rant. I felt disappointment (still feeling it) and needed to let it out. But it didn’t help...still feel frustrated...

I will agree with you on this. That was a completely unnecessary comment by Kamal. I don’t know if he was talking as a politician Kamal, but it really wasn’t a good look. He has always had a weird dislike for Ramya, or any outspoken woman for that matter (Archana, Sanam, Anitha until their evictions). So far Ramya has never changed her game even after Kamal’s nakkal pechu to her, but during the last mile that hold is now slowly cracking. Let’s see how she takes the game forward in the next 2 weeks. Ramya is playing the BB game, just like everyone else in the house. We can’t pinpoint any one person and say “this person is the only one with the strategy”. It’s just that the method chosen by some people is worse than the others, and Ramya’s is definitely not as worse as a few other people.

I have some other choice comments about the rest of the episode, which I’ll post later.

Originally posted by: llptch

I will agree with you on this. That was a completely unnecessary comment by Kamal. I don’t know if he was talking as a politician Kamal, but it really wasn’t a good look. He has always had a weird dislike for Ramya, or any outspoken woman for that matter (Archana, Sanam, Anitha until their evictions). So far Ramya has never changed her game even after Kamal’s nakkal pechu to her, but during the last mile that hold is now slowly cracking. Let’s see how she takes the game forward in the next 2 weeks. Ramya is playing the BB game, just like everyone else in the house. We can’t pinpoint any one person and say “this person is the only one with the strategy”. It’s just that the method chosen by some people is worse than the others, and Ramya’s is definitely not as worse as a few other people.

I have some other choice comments about the rest of the episode, which I’ll post later.

Yes I totally understand what you are saying. Have the same opinion as you.

I am not able to understand why he said that but I really feel disappointed as a woman. It doesn’t matter how clever you are as a woman, how intelligent you are or how you play the game as a woman, because then somebody will come and put all your self worth down by saying you are saying that because you like the man/you like this body etc. It is easy like that to put a woman down.

But what to do? It happened and we can’t change it. Hopefully KH will refrain from saying it again.

Hopefully Ramya will not crack and will be able to play her game the next two weeks.

Will add my opinion about today‘s episode later too as soon as I am feeling better.

Originally posted by: rosel

Bala is not matured ah,isnt he strategy king?His strategy at many places required some good smart thinking

Aari went with flow of arguement,it was not aimed like how bala said for aari's advise tag,adhu trend agum,tag'ah irukum'nu solula

He doesnt like gabi/aari and has baggage!

His points were clear in arguement!he lost cool cos he didnt get any reaction and continue to intimidate him,nothing worked!

If he was mad and behaved like one,his anger wouldnt have faded away so quickly

Bala is very smart but that doesnt have to do with this immaturity word I am talking about. By immaturity, I don’t mean naive, innocent - I mean not knowing how to react/say for certain things with certain people. Ingitham theriama pesarathu .

Aari’s intention wasn’t to make it a trend. Bala feared that Aari would start using somberi word as a tag for him in the future like how Aari uses thaghudhi for certain people and group for certain people. Hence the over reaction to put an end to that in the budding stage. Also he felt all his efforts went in vain just by this one word.

Yes, He doesn’t like Aari/Gaby at times. Yes, he carries baggage for them as he has personal disliking towards them, he is not a saint. I thought I already answered your question how he is talking normally again to the same people with my category of people example. After bursting out, clearing out his anger, he forgets abt it. For people like him, they won’t even know what they were talking while in anger.

Friday - Aari complaining about Rio to Ramya. Then suddenly started fighting with her saying she plays safe game. Ellorukkum tag vecha mathiri Ramya-ku biased tag vakka try panni win-m pannitaru , later it was reflecting in KH interaction with HMs 😈.

Bala started the fight again, dont try to say kurai only abt others. For that Aari’s tone starting with ‘dei’ was insulting. Aari was talking abt himself whatever he said abt Bala, ‘aduthavanga mela sollrathu kurai, ungala sonna validate pannitae erunga 🤣‘. Then some ugly fight between Bala and Aari reg Shivani topic. Bala started it first but others asked him to stop it,so he stopped. When Aari again brought the topic , he went crazy. Gaby asking them both to stop 👍🏼.

Aari asking sorry to Shivani , he asked sorry only abt the previous night for bringing that topic again. He should ask sorry to Shivani and her family for registering the kadhal tag for her. Bala already said there is nothing between them still Aari nominated saying Kadhal kanna maraikuthu. Asked Shivani in phone call, ungalukku bala mela erukarathu kadhala , annba . He was talking about this elladha kadhal of bavani so many times with various people. Bavani did try a fake drama but they stopped it in 2 weeks. Still Aari was the one who kept on talking about them and registered it for audience.

Shivani mom - trying to do damage repair as many people commented about her behaviour inside BB in a negative way. KH was very good to Shivani and the way he handled that part.

Court scene - KH as lawyer for Aari at the same time he himself was the judge. HMs clearly explained Aari’s faults with valid points , esp Ramya , Super 👏👏 . KH didn’t even open his ears to listen to her or any other contestants. The intention of this court scene was clear - Praise Aari , roast Bala.

Bala cornering by KH - It is long time coming. Bala needs this bitter medicine. Him not agreeing he called previous season winners as kadalai is a big blunder. KH calling him out for losing temper also good. My question to KH (and BB team) - why didn’t you correct Bala before itself? He behaved the same way to Sanam and Aari before. That time turned the other way, why now ? I have the answer as well - They avoided saying these to Bala for 90 days as they needed to keep him inside as villain. Now his role is done, so ready to throw him under the tires. Aari fans would have enjoyed every second of the roasting of Bala with whistle.

KH didn’t address HM’s complaints about Aari. He did address it at the end but peruku oru kan thudaipu. What was KH trying to tell the contestants about Aari ? Your families said good things about him right, so don’t fight with him, don’t say anything bad about him, he is going to be the winner ?

Though I am fan of KH today very very disappointed in his way of treating Ramya. Two times he insulted her badly. She tried to solve the issue, control Bala before things get more ugly, not to take him before Aari gives explanation. Also KH saying Ramya might find Aari boring because he wasn’t looking as good as Bala was soooo cheap. His understanding or whatever comment BB team asked him to say was in bad taste 🤢. Ramya was controlling tears 😒. Aari was looking at her that time and his eyes - ellum kollum vedikara mathiri 😡.

KH saying ‘enna Aari eppadi panreenga , arivilla’ - joke mathiri manasila erukaratha sonna mathiri erundhuchu 😉. Bala trying to make peace with Aari for mutual respect . Aari again trying to bring Rio there, serupadi from Bala , ‘nammala pathi mattum pesunga 😉‘. Then the last stress relief shout from Aari 😲 . Didn’t see it coming, I got shocked for a second, like you get scared when a sudden scene comes in a ghost movie 😆 .

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Today‘s episode is the worst episode. I am so so so disappointed in KH. I lost all my respect I had for him.

It is okay to blame Ramya that she isn’t neutral. Everyone‘s opinions differs and if he is this opinion than so be it. Even me being a Ramya biased, am saying that she isn’t neutral. She does have housemates who she is closer to.

He could have asked her questions about her stand, interrogate her after she said her points about Aari. Instead he didn’t say anything (absolutely nothing) and went immediately to Balaji to interrogate him.

Then after a long discussion, where everything was discussed, KH comes back to Aari and he sarcastically says that Ramya might find Aari boring, because he hasn’t have the height as Balaji or his body isn’t as broad as Balas or that he doesn’t have the biceps of him.

I was so shocked and disappointed. So that means a woman can’t independently have an opinion or defend a man without being blamed that she is only doing that because of his body???!!! I might not have watched every episode this season but never Ramya has crossed a line with the men in the House nor she hasn’t shown interest in them. So when a woman has an opinion and she can talk about it cleverly and confidently it might be because she is influenced by the outward appearance?!

Would he have said that when a man would have stand on the side of female housemate and defended her?

After that interaction Ramya was totally off. It was like a light has turned off. I admire her that she didn’t say anything to KH...

Edit: I am sorry for my rant. I felt disappointment (still feeling it) and needed to let it out. But it didn’t help...still feel frustrated...

I didnt watch today's episode. But overall kamal has always always been negative to Ramya. Because Ramya is a bright intelligent woman and Kamal cant stand those. I didnt think this way before this season. But the way he has been anti ramya while he was fine with other silly contestant is what made me realize.

If bala or aari strategizes it is strategy if Ramya does it is poison.

They just cant stand intelligent woman. But intelligent people dont require others jalra, they can survive on their own. Ramya will survive very well outside.

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Today‘s episode is the worst episode. I am so so so disappointed in KH. I lost all my respect I had for him.

It is okay to blame Ramya that she isn’t neutral. Everyone‘s opinions differs and if he is this opinion than so be it. Even me being a Ramya biased, am saying that she isn’t neutral. She does have housemates who she is closer to.

He could have asked her questions about her stand, interrogate her after she said her points about Aari. Instead he didn’t say anything (absolutely nothing) and went immediately to Balaji to interrogate him.

Then after a long discussion, where everything was discussed, KH comes back to Aari and he sarcastically says that Ramya might find Aari boring, because he hasn’t have the height as Balaji or his body isn’t as broad as Balas or that he doesn’t have the biceps of him.

I was so shocked and disappointed. So that means a woman can’t independently have an opinion or defend a man without being blamed that she is only doing that because of his body???!!! I might not have watched every episode this season but never Ramya has crossed a line with the men in the House nor she hasn’t shown interest in them. So when a woman has an opinion and she can talk about it cleverly and confidently it might be because she is influenced by the outward appearance?!

Would he have said that when a man would have stand on the side of female housemate and defended her?

After that interaction Ramya was totally off. It was like a light has turned off. I admire her that she didn’t say anything to KH...

Edit: I am sorry for my rant. I felt disappointment (still feeling it) and needed to let it out. But it didn’t help...still feel frustrated...

🤗 I totally get your frustration. I feel that way too . KH is known to be indifferent to bold, strong , independent women. He had been like that to Mumtaz, Vanitha (at times) and Ramya in this season. I don’t know the reason for his disliking towards her. She did nothing wrong so far. Aari fans don’t like her because she disagrees with Aari. Whatever she said about Aari were all valid points. Yes, she likes Bala because he has been nice to her, have fun with her, they both never had any issues and have mutual respect for each other. For that if you paint a reason that she is friends with him for his looks, is a cheap attitude. Spoke like an ignorant person, didn’t expect this from KH. So disappointed with him today esp for treating Ramya like this.

Originally posted by: krithika2012

I didnt watch today's episode. But overall kamal has always always been negative to Ramya. Because Ramya is a bright intelligent woman and Kamal cant stand those. I didnt think this way before this season. But the way he has been anti ramya while he was fine with other silly contestant is what made me realize.

If bala or aari strategizes it is strategy if Ramya does it is poison.

They just cant stand intelligent woman. But intelligent people dont require others jalra, they can survive on their own. Ramya will survive very well outside.

Just said similar thing in my post 👍🏼.

Yes, Ramya would survive well anywhere. She is bold, beautiful, intelligent and cool. I don’t care even if Aari wins BB , For me Ramya is this season’s winner .

Well balanced episode finally telling Ramya to stop targeting Aari . She has been doing that for 90 days without any reason . She blindly supported Bala and blindly suppressed Aari . Both are wrong otherwise she played a good game . I didn’t watch yesterday episode but whatever Bala’s brother said is working against him

regarding Bala putting blame on Aari for shivani issue is hiding full poossanikkai in soru . How does he not know people didn’t take about it behind his back like Ramya registered multiple times that shivani is behind Bala maama . So I don’t understand the need to blame Aari here

Aari can you please stop talking about one person to another ? Bala was right he needs to fix that character .

This year bb is cake walk . It doesn’t matter who is going to win but no one in this lot deserves this tittle . If tharshan or Losliya would have come this year it would have been cake walk for them to win . Seriously this season is full eye wash ..

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Today‘s episode is the worst episode. I am so so so disappointed in KH. I lost all my respect I had for him.

It is okay to blame Ramya that she isn’t neutral. Everyone‘s opinions differs and if he is this opinion than so be it. Even me being a Ramya biased, am saying that she isn’t neutral. She does have housemates who she is closer to.

He could have asked her questions about her stand, interrogate her after she said her points about Aari. Instead he didn’t say anything (absolutely nothing) and went immediately to Balaji to interrogate him.

Then after a long discussion, where everything was discussed, KH comes back to Aari and he sarcastically says that Ramya might find Aari boring, because he hasn’t have the height as Balaji or his body isn’t as broad as Balas or that he doesn’t have the biceps of him.

I was so shocked and disappointed. So that means a woman can’t independently have an opinion or defend a man without being blamed that she is only doing that because of his body???!!! I might not have watched every episode this season but never Ramya has crossed a line with the men in the House nor she hasn’t shown interest in them. So when a woman has an opinion and she can talk about it cleverly and confidently it might be because she is influenced by the outward appearance?!

Would he have said that when a man would have stand on the side of female housemate and defended her?

After that interaction Ramya was totally off. It was like a light has turned off. I admire her that she didn’t say anything to KH...

Edit: I am sorry for my rant. I felt disappointment (still feeling it) and needed to let it out. But it didn’t help...still feel frustrated...

interesting perspective I never saw or understood that way . He was saying that he needs to fix something which can be fixed not something out of his control . I really don’t think he meant about Ramya that way .

Originally posted by: llptch

I will agree with you on this. That was a completely unnecessary comment by Kamal. I don’t know if he was talking as a politician Kamal, but it really wasn’t a good look. He has always had a weird dislike for Ramya, or any outspoken woman for that matter (Archana, Sanam, Anitha until their evictions). So far Ramya has never changed her game even after Kamal’s nakkal pechu to her, but during the last mile that hold is now slowly cracking. Let’s see how she takes the game forward in the next 2 weeks. Ramya is playing the BB game, just like everyone else in the house. We can’t pinpoint any one person and say “this person is the only one with the strategy”. It’s just that the method chosen by some people is worse than the others, and Ramya’s is definitely not as worse as a few other people.

I have some other choice comments about the rest of the episode, which I’ll post later.

I’m surprised so many people found this way . Interesting but script is provided my directors.

Not sure why would they write a script like this to defame Ramya ?