BB4 Tamil: Discussion- Week 13 - Thread 2| 3rd DT Warning ! Pg. 1 - Page 47

I have been a silent reader, as most of the time I don’t know what to write which could be interesting and contributing to the discussion.

But I wanted to add my 2 cents to the Ramya situation.

She stopped Aari only because he himself said a few minutes before that Balaji shouldn’t interrupt during nomination and it is against the rule.

She just told nicely (for me it was in a very nice way and not a mocking way) to Aari: “Bro you just yourself said one should not interrupt while talking so let him talk.” Even Aari acknowledged it smiling and nodding his head.

While putting both of them into the jail she was joking and even Aari took it in a playful way and were playfully talking. Even Som started it with saying ‘now you start your show’ and then she added with morning show etc.

I am Ramya biased maybe my views for her are a little bit softer than for the others. If so then I am sorry :-)

Originally posted by: rosel

someone who wants to break arguement wont say morning show,matinee show

Yday she clearly stopped aari first itself when bala was talking,where was the energy when bala interfered aari?Idhae effort potu bala'va stop panirklam'la

In BiggBoss, they do want arguments.. and so she wasn't going to break it up before it even started.. She wanted to break the arguments when it went past a limit. Morning show and matinee show - I feel it was without motive, she just wanted to lighten the situation.. They looked like they were not letting it go.. Even others like Som and Shivani were there too saying similar stuff.. so why only pick on Ramya?

If you see this part.. When Aari was nominating and Bala was interfering, she looked like she was about to say something to Bala like "let him finish" but Som said it first. When it was Bala's turn, she said "you just said let me finish my nomination without interfering, so let Bala finish".. If they both keep interfering, it will go on forever.. If Aari/Bala had something else to say, they can talk to each other later..

Let's say that Ramya was provoking .. are Bala and Aari teenagers/kids? They are adults and need to know where they should draw the line.. so there is no need to blame Ramya this much.. I feel like she is getting this kind of response because she is a female and she is a better contestant than rest of the others..

Originally posted by: InduD

Don’t you know, everyone else is wrong except Aari in SM. Thaliavan and our Bhagavan is best thing that human race has chanced upon 😉😉

I am not totally against Aari.. have supported him in earlier situation but this hate for others in SM is too much.

Aari can decide how he wants to play and call out others if he thinks something is unfair but he can't expect someone to change their game/personality because he feels it's not good.

I don't support Bala at all.. he had gone down in my ranking long back.. but I don't accept that Ramya can be blamed for what these 2 men are up to.

Originally posted by: llptch

This is all spot on, and what I wanted to say yesterday too but refrained.

If we believe Bala was hurt by that somberi word, then we must be fools. Since the beginning of the week he has been telling Aari to put volunteers in the cleaning team, he won’t do more than he normally does no matter how less people are in the house. He told Aajeedh to go inform the captain that he won’t do any work, until Aari himself came and spoke logically to him. Are we to believe the same guy who said adjustment, dubaboor, tharuthalai, bekku, muttaal, etc is now suddenly hurt by “somberi”? And that too a word Aari said once but then said he takes it back. But Bala still comes outside from jail and says again “enn kitta manippu kellu”. Ennennavo try panraan 👎🏼

When Anitha was nominating Bala 2 weeks back the exact same scenario as yesterday happened. Bala kept interrupting her nomination process, so she said this is my turn, no one can interrupt. Appo, while Bala was speaking and Anitha said something in between, Neutral Ramya never corrected her saying she only told not to interrupt. Oru vellai Aari panna mattum thaan athu thappo?

I saw some comments saying Aari was registering 3-4 times that because of him only Anitha got eliminated. I watched the episode and got confused 😕 He speaks about how Rio/Bala unfairly nominated Anitha as examples, and also cited how Rio said Anitha was wrong but is now repeating the same behaviour. Enakku athulla “Antitha enn kooda sandai potta naala thaan veliya ponaanga” ndu sonna maathiri engaiyum theriyala.

Since the beginning of time Rio has been using vague reasons for WP, and turns it more into an elimination nomination process. After the nomination process is over and someone asks to clarify only he will pin point with exact reasons he meant what made something boring for him. Aari knows that Rio is not able to place statements correctly athunaala avarum thuruvi thuruvi kekkuraar. I agree that he needn’t cross question Rio so much, but there is a stark difference in how he does it and how Bala does it. At least Aari said I “respect your opinion but I won’t accept it”. Athukku mella Rio shouldn’t force him to agree to that opinion. But Bala will break all hell loose while Aari is speaking itself.

Aari needn’t play this game so rigidly, and should accept criticism for its face value. Previously with Sanam and Anitha he didn’t question them too much when they made comments about him, maybe because they knew what points to exactly lead with. But with the other contestants, they are too camera conscious and try to be as diplomatic as possible. Athoda avarum vittudanum. He shouldn’t keep asking “so you are saying there aren’t others more boring than me”. Let that be discussed in the weekend episode if necessary, but he needn’t force people to answer that.

@bold:Agree

That post is only 50% of my thoughtdont want to take risk,so posted only half of my point

Originally posted by: llptch

This is all spot on, and what I wanted to say yesterday too but refrained.

If we believe Bala was hurt by that somberi word, then we must be fools. Since the beginning of the week he has been telling Aari to put volunteers in the cleaning team, he won’t do more than he normally does no matter how less people are in the house. He told Aajeedh to go inform the captain that he won’t do any work, until Aari himself came and spoke logically to him. Are we to believe the same guy who said adjustment, dubaboor, tharuthalai, bekku, muttaal, etc is now suddenly hurt by “somberi”? And that too a word Aari said once but then said he takes it back. But Bala still comes outside from jail and says again “enn kitta manippu kellu”. Ennennavo try panraan 👎🏼

When Anitha was nominating Bala 2 weeks back the exact same scenario as yesterday happened. Bala kept interrupting her nomination process, so she said this is my turn, no one can interrupt. Appo, while Bala was speaking and Anitha said something in between, Neutral Ramya never corrected her saying she only told not to interrupt. Oru vellai Aari panna mattum thaan athu thappo?

I saw some comments saying Aari was registering 3-4 times that because of him only Anitha got eliminated. I watched the episode and got confused 😕 He speaks about how Rio/Bala unfairly nominated Anitha as examples, and also cited how Rio said Anitha was wrong but is now repeating the same behaviour. Enakku athulla “Antitha enn kooda sandai potta naala thaan veliya ponaanga” ndu sonna maathiri engaiyum theriyala.

Since the beginning of time Rio has been using vague reasons for WP, and turns it more into an elimination nomination process. After the nomination process is over and someone asks to clarify only he will pin point with exact reasons he meant what made something boring for him. Aari knows that Rio is not able to place statements correctly athunaala avarum thuruvi thuruvi kekkuraar. I agree that he needn’t cross question Rio so much, but there is a stark difference in how he does it and how Bala does it. At least Aari said I “respect your opinion but I won’t accept it”. Athukku mella Rio shouldn’t force him to agree to that opinion. But Bala will break all hell loose while Aari is speaking itself.

Aari needn’t play this game so rigidly, and should accept criticism for its face value. Previously with Sanam and Anitha he didn’t question them too much when they made comments about him, maybe because they knew what points to exactly lead with. But with the other contestants, they are too camera conscious and try to be as diplomatic as possible. Athoda avarum vittudanum. He shouldn’t keep asking “so you are saying there aren’t others more boring than me”. Let that be discussed in the weekend episode if necessary, but he needn’t force people to answer that.

As per what Bala is doing - 👎🏼in my opinion. He is wantonly creating a scene. He will say anything to others but not accept what others say to him..

@bold - I don't recall this exact sequence but I think the issue is Aari is picking on everything and everyone.. Aajeedh, Gaby, Rio, Som, Bala, Archana, Nisha, Ramesh, Shivani, Samyuktha, Ramya.. No one was spared.. I agree, there were mistakes on their sides too but when someone keeps complaining, it does become annoying (especially coming from a stranger). Naturally, you look for a mistake on their end.. that is what happens in Ramya's case I guess.. So when he makes a mistake/interfere, she points it out.. It's an instinct reaction I believe.. not venomous...

Originally posted by: Shravya1

In BiggBoss, they do want arguments.. and so she wasn't going to break it up before it even started.. She wanted to break the arguments when it went past a limit. Morning show and matinee show - I feel it was without motive, she just wanted to lighten the situation.. They looked like they were not letting it go.. Even others like Som and Shivani were there too saying similar stuff.. so why only pick on Ramya?

If you see this part.. When Aari was nominating and Bala was interfering, she looked like she was about to say something to Bala like "let him finish" but Som said it first. When it was Bala's turn, she said "you just said let me finish my nomination without interfering, so let Bala finish".. If they both keep interfering, it will go on forever.. If Aari/Bala had something else to say, they can talk to each other later..

Let's say that Ramya was provoking .. are Bala and Aari teenagers/kids? They are adults and need to know where they should draw the line.. so there is no need to blame Ramya this much.. I feel like she is getting this kind of response because she is a female and she is a better contestant than rest of the others..

Why only ramya,cos she's neutral,if she was one one or other group nobody would've questioned her,that's not how a neutral player plays

Som was saying it multiple times,so i dont understand why ramya couldnt say it to bala again!

Ramya not so neutral stands is the reason why she's getting blamed,if you're calling yourself neutral act like one!All her previous statements just piled up,that's why many are calling ramya out

I didnt say ramya provoked,but that statement at thay time was not needed,sanda podama irunga'nu solirklmae

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

I have been a silent reader, as most of the time I don’t know what to write which could be interesting and contributing to the discussion.

But I wanted to add my 2 cents to the Ramya situation.

She stopped Aari only because he himself said a few minutes before that Balaji shouldn’t interrupt during nomination and it is against the rule.

She just told nicely (for me it was in a very nice way and not a mocking way) to Aari: “Bro you just yourself said one should not interrupt while talking so let him talk.” Even Aari acknowledged it smiling and nodding his head.

While putting both of them into the jail she was joking and even Aari took it in a playful way and were playfully talking. Even Som started it with saying ‘now you start your show’ and then she added with morning show etc.

I am Ramya biased maybe my views for her are a little bit softer than for the others. If so then I am sorry :-)

I agree, Ramya didn’t behave so badly in yesterday’s episode to be criticised so much. I just noticed one incongruous point in her difference between when Anitha speaks and now Aari, but for the most part she was being jovial with Aari and he too accepted what she said. Maybe because in previous occasions she has specifically only spoken up when it was against Aari, the viewers are still feeling she is biased against him.

Didnt aari announce that he will point others mistake out and say,he said that in chapati issue week,at that time all HM's were solunga solunga,maybe they thought what he will do

Now him pointing mistake is a big problem for HM's and broke every HM's strategy,yet none still able to break his strategy!

He's using BB strategy and it worked!

Forgot to post:Appreciate ajeedh for trying to calm both bala and aari when they were fighting in jail👍🏼he was the only one who stood there and tried to stoo when it got heated

Originally posted by: Shravya1

I am not totally against Aari.. have supported him in earlier situation but this hate for others in SM is too much.

Aari can decide how he wants to play and call out others if he thinks something is unfair but he can't expect someone to change their game/personality because he feels it's not good.

I don't support Bala at all.. he had gone down in my ranking long back.. but I don't accept that Ramya can be blamed for what these 2 men are up to.

👏 U spoke what I had in my mind ..