"Maturity ki raah par" kaun?

Good morning lovelies!

So since the 'M' word has finally been used where it belongs, it's time to celebrate.

Virat uses the 'M' word as retort to PP's comment for Sai.

"Tumne ek bachchi se Shaadi ki hai" (But PP, tumhare mann me toh it's clear that she's a woman he loves. So why reminding him?)

"I agree, bachchi hai lekin samajhdaari aur maturity ki raah par."

This comes just days after Virat to PP: "Tum jaisi samajhdaar aur matured ladki ko ye sab Shobha Nahi deta"

It must have hit PP hard. But what fails me is that isn't her face such a give away of this 'morbid jealousy' that she feels - it is actually a window to her mind. She is not just a heartbroken woman. She has an underlying disorder for sure that pushes her to these extreme moods where she's not able to decide how to conceal her actual thoughts and ends up slipping out of her fur coat.

I am actually liking Sai's silent sass. THIS is the khichdi I want Sai to have forever! Her silence is so loud that it irks her detractors.They want her reaction because they know they have an upper hand in driving home their point when she goes out of control. The last few altercations, where she has chosen to save her energy have baffled the family but not enough to see through the point she's trying to make. When she's calm, it's their facade that falls. It won't be long before the 'judge' can decipher without hesitation and doubt the intentions of everyone who puts up an act. We all know who the judge is ☺️

Ye Chakram niwas me "maturity" itni koot koot Kar Kyun bhari hai? At their jinxed breakfast table, they HAVE to start these forced taunt sessions and exchange of insults. Who wants to begin the day like that? 🙄😒

And Bhavani's zeal to push PP on to Virat is so evident. For a moment, I liked how PP stood up and said, please don't ask me to go to his room (it was a fake act to get more validation for going) but Bhavani's literal loss of temper at Ashwini asking Sai to go and get Virat was too OTT. I thought she was going to be a silent player. Ye to caricature-ish na ban Jaye 🙊

(Breakfast in bed is the next step, Sai. It's best for sanity and punctuality at work 😅 )

And what's with, "Tumne apni Badbad se Virat ko sone Nahi Diya" 😂😂😂

Aga Kaku, aapko pata Nahi hai Virat ko Badbad ke Bina neend waise bhi Nahi aati... And PP's "Uske room ki light Der tak on thi..." looks like PP was holding the book to her face only to sneak glimpses towards their bedroom 😅 It's useless to ask obvious questions but, "Tumhe sunai de Raha hai tum kya keh rahi ho Patralekha?"

Ashwini's 'pehredaar' taunt was hilarious.

Another example of Bhavani's maturity:

"Tere promotion ki khabar toh Nahi hai" 😂😂 thank God I didn't have coffee in my hand. Woman, what are you smoking? 😵 Bhavani Kaku ne Chaha toh within three months of joining police service, her "chaheeta beta" will become the state DGP - collar tab to pehenta hi hai unka 😂 Sorry, but Delusional gang is such a comic relief.

And kya saare ke saare parade karke gang up Karne aa jaate Hain just to ask 'Virat why are you late?' I haven't seen a more Nikamma family than this 😂😂😂

Now coming back to samajhdaari and maturity ki raah:

What do you call it when every little thing that affects someone else feels like your own?

A: Vicarious love. When you live someone else's experience as your own.

Virat's pride in Sai has been evident right from the moment he met her as a "topper". There was no turning back. He prides himself in being someone attached to her, long before he even became her 'husband'. He prides in her intelligence, in her courage, her selflessness, her compassion, her achievements and even her identity -- I LOVED how he addressed her as "Sai Joshi" in yesterday's episode.

And of course, he's began vicariously living through her -- the energy, the frankness, the virtue of standing up for justice because staying silent at all times is perpetrating the crime. He's also living through Sai those moments where he can set aside the heavy crown of being Chavan niwas Ka chaheeta beta because she doesn't care about the title and won't judge him.

"Kharbooja kharbooje Ko Dekh Kar rang badalta hai"

This Kharbooja is definitely turning laal 😄 He can ACTUALLY laugh openly in that war-room like living area where Sai is grabbing his obnoxious family heads by their hands and legs to extract "aashirwad" . (PP's face was the reward for putting through this unnecessary breakfast drama)

Bhavani's Jaisi Sangat, Waisi Rangat remark is true.

It won't be long before Chavan saheb is also on the same samajhdaari and maturity ki raah as Sai. He is already there -- thoda sa pagla, thoda sayana 😀❤️ living his inner child with Sai, which perhaps never got to express it's awe to the little beauties of life. Your inner child has grown up in constraints, aware of what is around but never fully exhibiting what is inside. Sai ke Saath you are on the right 'raah' just like she is with you. It's a journey of togetherness like never before. ☺️

Chavan saheb, I hope this feet touching demand is not an excuse to pull my dew drop into a hug 🤔 given that you couldn't help caress the hair again. And nazarein toh kya gazab ki -- Jaise suddenly you see a candy floss in front of you, which is giving out such an enticing sweet aroma that you can't help the temptation to taste it.

Waise bhi nighaahon nighaahon mein toh hug Kar hi liya result declare Karne ke baad. Did I notice the same 'surprise' deja vu moment when she ran past you to get Bappa's aashirwad at Ashwini's insistence? Just like she had run past you to hug Aaba after YOU saved her from Jagtap... your eyes just followed her. So Aashirwad wala demand Kuch seedha Nahi Lagta hai... Let's see. But Please, before you do that, ambulance stand by par rakhna -- someone around you might need immediate medical assistance. 🤯

With that my badbad ends. Aaj to sach mein Badbad hi hai

Have a great day, you all 🤗❤️❤️

Hugs, coffee, sunshine and Lots of love!

Kehne ki ho Dil me koi baat, mujhse Kaho 🤗

Awesome post.

I hope tmrw's episode opens with Sai and Virat laughing out loud after he says about ashirwad and go for a hug and twirl . (btw he needs new clean shoes).

Poor Karishma though, tried to do a Sai and failed terribly. I wasn't sure if she wanted to distract Sai and make her feel better after Pakhi said her final bitter words, but atleast she seems nice with her wishes today.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Good morning lovelies!

So since the 'M' word has finally been used where it belongs, it's time to celebrate.

Virat uses the 'M' word as retort to PP's comment for Sai.

"Tumne ek bachchi se Shaadi ki hai" (But PP, tumhare mann me toh it's clear that she's a woman he loves. So why reminding him?)

"I agree, bachchi hai lekin samajhdaari aur maturity ki raah par."

This comes just days after Virat to PP: "Tum jaisi samajhdaar aur matured ladki ko ye sab Shobha Nahi deta"

It must have hit PP hard. But what fails me is that isn't her face such a give away of this 'morbid jealousy' that she feels - it is actually a window to her mind. She is not just a heartbroken woman. She has an underlying disorder for sure that pushes her to these extreme moods where she's not able to decide how to conceal her actual thoughts and ends up slipping out of her fur coat.

I am actually liking Sai's silent sass. THIS is the khichdi I want Sai to have forever! Her silence is so loud that it irks her detractors.They want her reaction because they know they have an upper hand in driving home their point when she goes out of control. The last few altercations, where she has chosen to save her energy have baffled the family but not enough to see through the point she's trying to make. When she's calm, it's their facade that falls. It won't be long before the 'judge' can decipher without hesitation and doubt the intentions of everyone who puts up an act. We all know who the judge is ☺️

Ye Chakram niwas me "maturity" itni koot koot Kar Kyun bhari hai? At their jinxed breakfast table, they HAVE to start these forced taunt sessions and exchange of insults. Who wants to begin the day like that? 🙄😒

And Bhavani's zeal to push PP on to Virat is so evident. For a moment, I liked how PP stood up and said, please don't ask me to go to his room (it was a fake act to get more validation for going) but Bhavani's literal loss of temper at Ashwini asking Sai to go and get Virat was too OTT. I thought she was going to be a silent player. Ye to caricature-ish na ban Jaye 🙊

(Breakfast in bed is the next step, Sai. It's best for sanity and punctuality at work 😅 )

And what's with, "Tumne apni Badbad se Virat ko sone Nahi Diya" 😂😂😂

Aga Kaku, aapko pata Nahi hai Virat ko Badbad ke Bina neend waise bhi Nahi aati... And PP's "Uske room ki light Der tak on thi..." looks like PP was holding the book to her face only to sneak glimpses towards their bedroom 😅 It's useless to ask obvious questions but, "Tumhe sunai de Raha hai tum kya keh rahi ho Patralekha?"

Ashwini's 'pehredaar' taunt was hilarious.

Another example of Bhavani's maturity:

"Tere promotion ki khabar toh Nahi hai" 😂😂 thank God I didn't have coffee in my hand. Woman, what are you smoking? 😵 Bhavani Kaku ne Chaha toh within three months of joining police service, her "chaheeta beta" will become the state DGP - collar tab to pehenta hi hai unka 😂 Sorry, but Delusional gang is such a comic relief.

And kya saare ke saare parade karke gang up Karne as jaate Hain just to ask 'Virat why are you late?' I haven't seen a more Nikamma family than this 😂😂😂

Now coming back to samajhdaari and maturity ki raah:

What do you call it when every little thing that affects someone else feels like your own?

A: Vicarious love. When you live someone else's experience as your own.

Virat's pride in Sai has been evident right from the moment he met her as a "topper". There was no turning back. He prides himself in being someone attached to her, long before he even became her 'husband'. He prides in her intelligence, in her courage, her selflessness, her compassion, her achievements and even her identity -- I LOVED how he addressed her as "Sai Joshi" in yesterday's episode.

And of course, he's began vicariously living through her -- the energy, the frankness, the virtue of standing up for justice because staying silent at all times is perpetrating the crime. He's also living through Sai those moments where he can set aside the heavy crown of being Chavan niwas Ka chaheeta beta because she doesn't care about the title and won't judge him.

"Kharbooja kharbooje Ko Dekh Kar rang badalta hai"

This Kharbooja is definitely turning laal 😄 He can ACTUALLY laugh openly in that war-room like living area where Sai is grabbing his obnoxious family heads by their hands and legs to extract "aashirwad" . (PP's face was the reward for putting through this unnecessary breakfast drama)

Bhavani's Jaisi Sangat, Waisi Rangat remark is true.

It won't be long before Chavan saheb is also on the same samajhdaari and maturity ki raah as Sai. He is already there -- thoda sa pagla, thoda sayana 😀❤️ living his inner child with Sai, which perhaps never got to express it's awe to the little beauties of life. Your inner child has grown up in constraints, aware of what is around but never fully exhibiting what is inside. Sai ke Saath you are on the right 'raah' just like she is with you. It's a journey of togetherness like never before. ☺️

Chavan saheb, I hope this feet touching demand is not an excuse to pull my dew drop into a hug 🤔 given that you couldn't help caress the hair again. And nazarein toh kya gazab ki -- Jaise suddenly you see a candy floss in front of you, which is giving out such an enticing sweet aroma that you can't help the temptation to taste it.

Waise bhi nighaahon nighaahon mein toh hug Kar hi liya result declare Karne ke baad. Did I notice the same 'surprise' deja vu moment when he ran past you to get Bappa's aashirwad at Ashwini's insistence? Just like she had run past you to hug Aaba after YOU saved her from Jagtap... your eyes just followed her. So Aashirwad wala demand Kuch seedha Nahi Lagta hai... Let's see. But Please, before you do that, ambulance stand by par rakhna -- someone around you might need immediate medical assistance. 🤯

With that my badbad ends. Aaj to sach mein Badbad hi hai

Have a great day, you all 🤗❤️❤️

Hugs, coffee, sunshine and Lots of love!

Kehne ki ho Dil me koi baat, mujhse Kaho 🤗

@bold hahaha that would be so great !

Originally posted by: Ambii

@bold hahaha that would be so great !

I really feel he's been waiting for her to hug him 😂 like seriously I feel. Not saying it because I want to see it but because I actually feel so. Sai has been more conscious about the sweet 'touch' than Virat. Apart from the two falls -- one of them because of Chipkali- she has maintained more distance. But Virat's subconscious need for that hug is very evident, at least to me. Not a romantic hug just a normal friendly hug, like she hugs Ashwini or Shivani. I haven't been able to forget how be almost felt dejected when she didn't acknowledge him after he rescued her from Jagtap. If eyes could speak, Sai would hear it, 'come here and give me a hug'😆☺️

Waise bhi hugs are magical.

In her excitement I wish she would have rushed to hug him but stops mid-way.

A disappointed Virat Tum humesha aadhe mein kyun ruk jaati ho? GC mein bhi ab bhi

Virat, kya bol rahe ho tum 😡

Main kya keh raha hoon 😳

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

In her excitement I wish she would have rushed to hug him but stops mid-way.

A disappointed Virat Tum humesha aadhe mein kyun ruk jaati ho? GC mein bhi ab bhi

Virat, kya bol rahe ho tum 😡

Main kya keh raha hoon 😳

@bold: she's already falling to he floor, unconscious but Virat can't move to catch her or he'll miss the hug. He will tell sunny, 'vahini Ko pakad. I am busy' 😆

Originally posted by: sukri

Awesome post.

I hope tmrw's episode opens with Sai and Virat laughing out loud after he says about ashirwad and go for a hug and twirl . (btw he needs new clean shoes).

Poor Karishma though, tried to do a Sai and failed terribly. I wasn't sure if she wanted to distract Sai and make her feel better after Pakhi said her final bitter words, but atleast she seems nice with her wishes today.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

@bold: she's already falling to he floor, unconscious but Virat can't move to catch her or he'll miss the hug. He will tell sunny, 'vahini Ko pakad. I am busy' 😆

I really hope virat will told sunny to catch paakhi🤣

What we paid do if virat addresses pakhi as vahini

Overall a good post Janki, as always.

I would just summarize the episode in four words "let the mask fall"

First it was for Virat too see a child like face of Sai, and blessing her with a silent prayer.

Next, Bhawani sharpening PP to be her next weapon. The process has already started from breakfast table today.

Best was , the mask fall from PP face in front of Virat. He saw a demo of her true face . Chavan saheb you still have a long way to go.

Sunny, no comments. He also becoming like rang badalta mangalsutra of PP🤪.

Apart, from this the jealousy was evident on elders face. And Virat saw a facade as the mask fell from face of each member, while Sai enjoyed her result celebration with Aai.❤️Girl stay as you are.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I really feel he's been waiting for her to hug him 😂 like seriously I feel. Not saying it because I want to see it but because I actually feel so. Sai has been more conscious about the sweet 'touch' than Virat. Apart from the two falls -- one of them because of Chipkali- she has maintained more distance. But Virat's subconscious need for that hug is very evident, at least to me. Not a romantic hug just a normal friendly hug, like she hugs Ashwini or Shivani. I haven't been able to forget how be almost felt dejected when she didn't acknowledge him after he rescued her from Jagtap. If eyes could speak, Sai would hear it, 'come here and give me a hug'😆☺️

Waise bhi hugs are magical.

Chavan saheb bechain jaroor ho jaate hai par vahini ke bagair nahi par biwi ka door jaane ka khayal se bhi.

Imagine sayi rushing to take his aashirwad but he pulls her into a hug dado sutto❤️