ya and like u said its not a confusion if she loves veer or Jai....she clearly made it clear with her actions and words that jai is frnd only( should be enemy but well...🙄) and she trusts veer more than jai....she confided in veer only about her new one time offer power...and clearly in distress or in need of support she goes to veer only....So yeah as we have known last 4 months, Bani has many faults, but being in love with Jai or even being attracted to him in any way is not one of them...No even when she was on with her maro mujhe jap, she never loved jai...she clearly knows that....No the confusion is and always has been between who her heart wants and who she thinks by naagvansh and shivji k rules she is supposed to be with....its a very legitimate confusion between what she wants and what she thinks is her duty.....Jay wouldn't provoke bani against veer now! Bani has past that mindset of looking at veer as her enemy! Jay knows it! But he will definitely make her feel "guilty" of loving veer!
If Jai was a normal naag and she any naagin , even naagrani, it won't be an issue...but they are Adi naag and Adi naagin....So she has a very valid reservation in her mind that since Satyug Adi naagin and naag are to be partners and shivji wants that and that is how it should be....and we all know how she always keeps going on about how she will do justice always, do the right thing...this one is a rule follower...and she believes Adi naagin being with Adi naag is a rule....and nobody , not even shivji has given her any hint that says it's not a mandatory rule anymore....and jai is totally using the guilt card, that u are loving a cheel and leaving Adi naag, its wrong, Adi Naagin is supposed to love only Adi naag....so I think this hesitation if hers is a valid point....its right now a inner fight between her love for Veer and her rule following mind that says she is breaking bholenath k rules by not being with her Adi naag....
And the way I see it, there can be two solutions to her doubt....either Bholenath says himself that Adi naag is not her destined partner anymore ( not likely to happen😆)....or the one I think will happen ultimately: Something happens to Veer or jai creates huge issues, basically some situation that shakes her to the core, makes her desparate about saving and keeping Veer and she finally shakes off her obligations and declares to everyone that she loves veer, wants to be and will be with veer and if that's wrong then sorry, Bholenath can punish her, she will accept that , but Jai has no place in her life, Adi naag or not....But for this to happen something big, some mu or life risk has to happen with veer that makes a situation where she will loose Veer if she doesn't own up to her love and finally fight for it with everything...And I think what with veer ki insecurities coming to front, this mu/ markat ka control track is heading towards that only....
Veer ne kal bola na she will run behind him and accept she chose him only n all...well next shayad baba Veerangshu k ye vachan satya hone ki bari hai....😆😆