Somebody please punch Toshu

What in the world is wrong with Toshu? His grandparents and mother are devastated with what is happening and he is busy throwing tantrums for Kinjal.

I mean any adult here would actually tell the fiancee to hold on to engagement/wedding thoughts until the family issues are sorted and in the meantime stand as a pillar for his family.

Can Anupama as a mother, or his grandparents shut his whining up and ask him to be an adult and worry about the current happenings and man up and help with the finances.

Anupama is not realizing that she is just spoiling her kids by shielding them. They have to face this together. Its ok to break down and its ok for everyone to work together and fix it. You do not need to carry breakfast and milk to your kids rooms. if you are well off and have house help, its another thing, but here its a mother who is toiling around like a machine. its just a shame.

Is he in his right senses I wonder. He was so blinded by his father's love then and now his Kinjal rant and blaming Anu and throwing tantrums is very annoying. Does he have no self respect after the scene created by Raakhi today the insults and threats she hurled I thought toshu will stabilise but it is still OTT behaviour.

Toshu is beyond the ways of the world and lives on his own delusional love planet with no sense of responsibility. Enough said.

Actually that has been my problem with the writing of the show.

There has been no major character development after EMA revelation.

Baa is still supporting his son to some degree

Paritosh is still thinking about his marriage only

Pakhi is living in her own bubble

Rakhi has still got no regards for the feelings of Anupamaa

Only the circumstances have changed, but the characters have still remained same which is really frustrating.

Originally posted by: murder4

Actually that has been my problem with the writing of the show.

There has been no major character development after EMA revelation.

Baa is still supporting his son to some degree

Paritosh is still thinking about his marriage only

Pakhi is living in her own bubble

Rakhi has still got no regards for the feelings of Anupamaa

Only the circumstances have changed, but the characters have still remained same which is really frustrating.

Even Anu is not showing what she is going through

damm it.. she is the most affected.. I want her to be independent now or else I can't continue to watch weak lady

why punch Toshu? punch Anupama & Vanraj for their shitty parenting

both Toshu & Pakhi are self centred idiots, who literally couldn't care less about anyone else, only bcoz Vanraj & Anupama have spoiled them with their over-protectiveness & babying

poor Samar is the only decent & mature kid & it's sad that it's only bcoz he got neglected by his parents since they were busy pampering Toshu (bcoz he was the first born son) & Pakhi (bcoz she was the youngest & only daughter).

This family is so screwed up 🤪

Anupamaa showered her kids with pure love as vanraj did the strict work and taking decisions in their children's life's that's how he made their parenting work he choce to be head in everything dominated her as well as major work of parenting done by him for 25 yaers

If a father shows no respect for the mother belittles her all the time and can allow his mistress to stand in as his wife in important moments of his life the children begin to see that as model behaviour. When the matriarch and breadwinner treat her thus it is no wonder children emulate that behaviour. Even after all the nonsense has been witnessed by Baa she chooses to taunt Anu and stand by her soon seeking his forgiveness while the MCP has not even shown any sign of remorse or shame. Despite the pampering when children turn into young adults their quest of their own identity begins. Paritosh chooses the easy way out of playing victim and throwing tantrums.

Winter on the other hand reminds his sister and brother to act sensibly and they choose to ignore or worse still insult him.

While toshu and Pakhi rejoice at being favoured by their papa they are unable to tolerate the bond winter has with their mom. He infact us depicted as such a sane and empathetic lad who shares a lovely bond with his grand dad and grand uncle too.

It is the preferential treatment shown by Vanraj and Baa that is continuing to spoil them.

Toshu is in his own world. I don't think so he has affected with anyone except Kinjal. He wants Kinjal in any situation that's all. Damn it! He has no sense at all.

Anupama is not always protectng her children .

Anupama did say to pakhi to be stand on her feet as education is Very much important than marriage on pakhi birthday

Anupama did scold toshu when toshu come drunk and created tamasha in front of every body

Anupama did say to pakhi and toshu that maa ki degree nahin dekhi jaati hai maa ka pyaar dekha jaata hai

Even when vanraj told ki pakhi ne hotel mein kavya ke saath birthday manaya then anupama did not say anything but she feel hurt

Aur kal bhi jub paritosh ne anupama pe blame lagaya to anupama hurt hui thi

Anupama ne samar ko nandini ke matter mein acha advice diya ki jaroori nahi ki ki hum jisse pyar karein woh hamse pyaar karein

If samar can listen good advice of her mother and follow it and did not become hyper when samar know that nandini Dont love him so why cant paritosh and pakhi cant follow good advice of anupama and stop acting hyper

Fact is that there is no fault in anupama parenting , fact is that paritosh and pakhi intentially Dont want to follow anupama advice because

Both paritosh and pakhi think anupama ko khuch aata jaata hai to inki because she is not much padhi likhi baat maan ke kya karein .

Both paritosh and pakhi think that vanraj is highly qualified to vanraj is intelligent to unki hi baat maanne mein bhaalai hai