Re-living YRHPK journey // Episodic Discussion Thread 3 - Page 79

Originally posted by: m4manju

Epi 58 part 2 - Abir giving ketki and ved's example was wrong becuase meenu never wanted to break that alliance either. So it was not about their own daughter vs outsider, it was about meenu's regressive thoughts about girls and their rights on the decisions of their own life!

Why did nanu have to stop abir from confronting meenu? khud toh nahi karte the, abir ko bhi nahi karne diya 😒

The voice in flashback that kunal remembered was so not shweta's. 😆 so they indeed did the casting later or changed it. btw kunal at least showed remorse of the way he spoke to mish (this was what I was speaking before, that he at least used to regret but meenu? zilch, nada.)

kunal walks in as abir is making some good points ( love that dialogue that a wife isn't a pet who will follow you whichever way you go). kunal is in no mood to listen to abir

Kuhu asking Bp about what mishti did was right or wrong seemed like a reflection of writers' own thoughts and a point they wanted to bring across. which was good. I dont remember otherwise when BP and kuhu had a good talk and him making her understand some valid points.

Anyhow, so tomorrow onwards, mishbir journey starts 🥳

Nanu was too scared of his own daughter to oppose her or speak in defiance, he was stopping Abir probably because he feared Abir would leave home again after the fight!

There’s a constant internal war in Kunal, Meenu’s upbringing vs Abir’s influence. That was shown here, first he’s regretting saying those mean things to Mishti, next moment he thinks Mishti deserved it!
Bold: You’re right about that. BP Kuhu never had a heart to heart talk like that, writers wanted to put forth their points through BP in case some closed off minds couldn’t understand why Mishti rejected Kunal

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Nanu was too scared of his own daughter to oppose her or speak in defiance, he was stopping Abir probably because he feared Abir would leave home again after the fight!

There’s a constant internal war in Kunal, Meenu’s upbringing vs Abir’s influence. That was shown here, first he’s regretting saying those mean things to Mishti, next moment he thinks Mishti deserved it!
Bold: You’re right about that. BP Kuhu never had a heart to heart talk like that, writers wanted to put forth their points through BP in case some closed off minds couldn’t understand why Mishti rejected Kunal

Kunal was so torn between meenu and abir. wish he realized who was the right person to follow, much earlier 😔 he was no doodh peeta bachha after all.

bold - exactly. i hope at least some people got rightly and positively influnced after watching that.

Originally posted by: m4manju

ikr? i mean whatever she was accusing mish for, it was what kunal and she did. ulta chor kotwal ko daante 😔

Mish spoke her mind to elders in her family but meenu was an outsider no? so i felt she should have stpped back once she was done making her point to kunal. she was a kid after all in front of meenu. but anyhow, BP later handled meenu.

bold - tell me about it! that meenu made no sense at all (at least whatever little sense she made in these initial episodes). she looked like a maniac, possesed mad woman in the nannu track episodes so yeah even I forward it then.

True, Meenu looked and acted like a maniac ever since that scary scene of her blackmailing Abir, she was like a woman possessed with the maniacal obsession to get rid of Mishti. I’m surprised she didn’t hire her usual goons to bump off Mishti. What a Diabolical hatred! 🤢

Mish was used to politely speaking her mind to her family’s elders and she was actually politely trying to explain to Meenu why she broke the alliance but Meenu was abusing her so BP finally stepped in

Loved how Mishti taunted Abir and indirectly let him know that she knew about his proxy for Kunal 👏

Originally posted by: pallavi25

True, Meenu looked and acted like a maniac ever since that scary scene of her blackmailing Abir, she was like a woman possessed with the maniacal obsession to get rid of Mishti. I’m surprised she didn’t hire her usual goons to bump off Mishti. What a Diabolical hatred! 🤢

Mish was used to politely speaking her mind to her family’s elders and she was actually politely trying to explain to Meenu why she broke the alliance but Meenu was abusing her so BP finally stepped in

Loved how Mishti taunted Abir and indirectly let him know that she knew about his proxy for Kunal 👏

Exactly. I mean TG she didnt give supari to kill mishti or something

bold - agree. loved that dialogue "meri wajah se bohot logo ko takleef hui. kuch logo ko kam and kuch logo ko zyada" and then looks at abir accusingly 👍🏼

Alrighty di, me too off to bed now. Thats another thing that i want to catch up on i.e sleep 😆

good night di/ hnd surya 🤗 🤗

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

Episode 58 part 1:

The highlight of the first scene was BP's convo with Meenu..He hit the ball out of the park with his comebacks 🥳 The way he figured the real reason meenu is upset is that mishti called off the alliance instead of her son 👏 Meenu is such a pathetic woman

Abir's slight smile when Mishti said kunal isn't right for her was so cute. Mishti was also looking at him with admiration when he defended mishti in front of his mom

Meenu's remark about no other family with bring baraat in his house was a funny foreshadowing..you're right meenu, your family will be the one to bring baraat here and not once, TWICE 😆

Abir-Meenu confrontation scene was on fire 👏Abir raised all the right points as usual but meenu will never accept her mistakes

Bold: Exactly what I thought! 😆 Ambe Maa made sure all Meenu’s curses boomeranged 😆

Underline: Oh I missed that smile of Abir’s. Gotta see it again. But Mishti I think looked hurt and upset at Abir, she was feeling badly betrayed by him right then

BP was always strongest opponent of Meenu, he gave her such knockout verbal punches! Right till the baby track! Only once he got scared of Meenu’s threats during Nannu track!

Yet BP was the only one in mah house who right away recognized Meenu for the dangerous monster mom she was!

Originally posted by: m4manju

Alrighty di, me too off to bed now. Thats another thing that i want to catch up on i.e sleep 😆

good night di/ hnd surya 🤗 🤗

Goodnight Manju and Surya! Me too off to bed now!🤗

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Episode 57

Mishti walks in with the balloons, BP asks her if she’s alright and what was decided. Meenu asks Kunal the same. Kunal tells Meenu he and Mishti discussed openly, he told her how disappointed he was, he had a right to know about Mishti’s father and her hiding it till GD was a betrayal. Mishti’s dad tried to harm his mom, his family is most important to him, he does everything for them, blah blah 😵

His wife would have to understand and remember this! He’s explained this to Mishti and hopes she’s understood what expectations he has from her and this alliance. Kunal says if everything is fine now can we do the Goddhana ceremony now?

Meenu is shocked! Itna sab kuch kiya koi faida nahin hua 😂 Kunal is determined to marry this time doesn’t matter who the bride is! 😆

Mishti wiped her tears, BM is greatly relieved, tells Varsha to make Mishti ready again(why?her makeup dress nothing was out of place?)😕

BM apologizes to the RJVs and says if we had told you and Mishti this truth there won’t be so much drama on our daughter’s Tilak today!

Kunal accepts the apology and leaves with Meenu.

Mishti in her room crying in BM’s arms. BM asks mish to forgive her for hiding the truth, Mish says BM cannot do any wrong, now she knows why Singhania family hates her father so much! BM says whatever she did was to protect Mishti. Jas tells Mishti to cry without tears as that will ruin her makeup 🤪

Mishti says so this was her truth, she’s a girl whose parents abandoned her, whose dad tried to kill someone. BM says No, your truth is that you’re my and your BP’s daughter, the best daughter! ❤️

BM asks Mishti what did Kunal say? Mishti remembers Kunal blasting her about her family hiding her dad’s secret, then saying as the MD of an MNC he can’t waste time buying her flowers, he can’t ignore his work for a small project like courtship!

Kuhu defends Kunal, says at least he didn’t leave, he’s still ready to do the GD 🤪

BM thanks God that marriage isn’t canceled even after what happened

Meenu in another room asking Kunal if he’s still ready for this alliance. Kunal says he was shocked too but he’s explained it to Mishti what his family means to him and she won’t forget that. He saw how happy Meenu looked with his alliance, he can’t take away that happiness. (Kunal is really blind or delusional)

Meenu tells him to think about his own happiness, he says that depends on yours. Meenu tries her best to convince Kunal to reject Mishti but he doesn’t want to back out.
He tells Meenu Mishti has understood well that after marriage she will only do what he wants, this obstinacy about her glasses, about a job she will have to leave all that at home. Meenu thinks after doing all this plotting I can’t let Kunal go ahead with the GD😆

Varsha tells Mish to forget about her past and only think about Kunal, that’s important. BP comes and says most important is what Mishti thinks. He tells Mishti 10 years ago they lied to her but she got called a liar today for that.

Mish tells him people blame God too but in these situations we understand whom we can trust. BP asks does she trust that he acted in her best interest? For him she was most important, this alliance this GD he can do without but he can’t lose their daughter’s trust!

Mishti cries that she can’t lose BP either and only wants his support, BP assures her of that!

Meenu still trying to brainwash Kunal tells him Mishti isn’t right for him. Kunal asks then why did she say yes to her? Meenu says because of what happened with Ved-Ketu she didn’t want to give her family another shock! But Mishti has proved repeatedly that nothing matters to her, she’s so stubborn she doesn’t listen to anyone! Relationships need adjustments, compromises, sacrifices, bending to the other’s will.
When Kunal forbid Mishti from working she went behind his back and got a job with Abir. He told her to do eye surgery she refused and brought Abir to the hospital.
Mishti is creating differences in the family even before entering it. Meenu says she chose the wrong girl and won’t let her son suffer the consequences . Today she was saved but next time if Mishti’s father harms Kunal she won’t be able to to tolerate that! Meenu tells Kunal not to go ahead with the GD

Ketu calls Kunal that Abir returned. Meenu repeats to Kunal not to do the GD. He says last year his relationship broke on his GD does she want that repeated? If this alliance breaks he will break too, he cannot fail again!

BM asks Abir if there was anymore drama at the Thana? Abir assures her Naman is in jail now he won’t bother their family anymore. Shaurya tells Abir Naman tried to harm his mother, Abir still controlled his temper. Abir thinks of Mishti’s anger when he had lost his temper with Ved.

BM thanks Abir for helping them Abir says it was his duty. Nanu tells BM she’s Abir’s elder so instead of thanks she should bless him. Abir touched her feet she blessed him

Nidhi says Abir will bring Kunal here, they love each other so much, it was Abir who convinced Kunal for this alliance.

Mishti walking with the balloons remembers Abir coming to mah house with balloons, stopping her father from coming towards her,she remembers Kunal telling her he has no reason to trust her, that his family was more important than anything, asking her if she had the surgery? BP telling her she was more important than anything.

Mishti sees Kunal and goes towards him but Abir pulls him to a side and says he’s got to tell him something. Kunal says if it’s something shocking then not today, he’s had too much shocks already.

Abir says it’s more serious than Mishti’s dad being a murderer, Kunal is shocked that anything can be more serious than that! Mahs hid this terrible secret. Abir says they hid it from Mishti also. The whole family cannot be punished for one person’s crimes! Kunal says it’s about hiding the secret, Abir says they can discuss this later, they’re brothers they love and trust each other but he wants to share something with Kunal today that he’s just realized. (Just say it, Abir why such a long intro?)

Mishti interrupts them, calls Kunal, Abir tells her not now, he knows time for GD has arrived but he has to tell Kunal something important!

Mishti says it’s more important for her to talk to Kunal, she says please and Abir agrees, she hands over the balloons to him. Oh symbolism!

Mishti Kunal talk outside the house ...

Mishti tells him she came to this house as a 13 year old and finally belonged here, in most Indian homes daughters are considered a burden, but in this house they accepted a burden as their daughter. Her BP BM have done everything for her, they hid her father’s secret also from her. When that secret was revealed today it could have broken her but she didn’t break, because she knew she’s not alone that her family is always with her, they won’t judge her because of her Papa but they will always trust her, but he didn’t trust her. He should have trusted her, but he didn’t take a stand for her, he wants a wife who will ask him before doing anything but her BP had brought her up to take her own decisions. Because BP believes she won’t make wrong decisions, she cannot insult her BP’s trust by asking Kunal’s permission for everything 👏

He wants her to remove her glasses but BM says she looks like her BP in glasses. So she will never remove her glasses. She understands he was forced into this courtship, he did what he didn’t want to and forced his brother to do it too. Relationships are made to be happy, not to prove a point to EO. Happiness lies where there is trust. She had trusted him blindly. Every girl trusts her father the most but her father had broken her trust so she wanted an alliance which would fill that void. Mishti tells Kunal they don’t have anything in common. That’s why she’s breaking off this alliance! 👏

Kunal shocked. Everyone arrived right then, heard Mishti’s declaration and all are shocked!

(Did they all come out together to call Mishti Kunal back inside for the GD? But why did they all come out together?)

Nanu whispered to Abir, better late than never it’s great that Mishti understood this herself. Abir tells him not to think about him but about the whole family. Nanu says it’s good for the family too!

Kunal gets mad at Mishti and says who is she to break the alliance, he’s breaking it off because she’s a liar! Abir tells Kunal to calm down. Kunal says he won’t stop, they have lied to him many times! Kunal tells Mishti he’s dumping her!

Meenu says Kunal is right, Varsha asks when did we lie? We told everything. BM pleads as usual that it’s all her fault they shouldn’t punish her daughter. Meenu says Mishti is a liar (actually she and her sons are liars)

BP warns Meenu she doesn’t have the right to blame his daughter! Meenu says his daughter doesn’t have the right to break her son’s heart (what heartbreak? He doesn’t love her)

Abir suggests they all should sit down and talk about this calmly, Nanu also says Mishti didn’t know Naman’s truth. Mishti says but she doesn’t have any proof of this, they have to trust her! But Kunal doesn’t trust her at all

Kunal tells Abir trust cannot be given as a gift, it has to be won. And Mishti has only broken his trust so far, so he never wants to see her face again after this!

I was fuming at Kunal's attitude in this episode. what an MCP behaviour?

so glad that Mishti took it personally when he did not believe her a decided to take break it.

who is Kunal to decide the terms and conditions of this marriage by himself. It all happened for greater good but still Kunal's attitude, his reasons for marrying Mishti in this episode and his blaming Mishti for not telling him the truth was all wrong.

Originally posted by: m4manju

Epi 57 part 2 -

Mish is still walking with those balloons

Abir kunal talk, abir is trying to tell kunal about how kunal and mish are not right for eo probably? or about his feelings for mish? god knows, because mish interrupted them when 2 people are talking, you dont just barge in, mishtu anyhow, so mish requests abir to let her talk first

And then she basically tells him everything that was bothering her about him. And says she is breaking off the engagement. Wow, she didnt even consult BM, BP before that! Kaha gayi ye confident mishti shadi ke baad? And kunal is like who are you to dump me, I am dumping you (i know it wasnt funny, but it came out funny way. baccho ke jaise. ) . But yeah, so kunal wasn't that dumbstruck at being dumped as he later made it out to be.

Kunal acted like such a brat in this episode

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

I think Abir wanted to say both that he likes mishti and Mishnal aren't compatible

I wish Abir had told Kunal about him and mishti a few days after the GD broke instead of Kunal finding out from Shwet and hating mishti for no reason

I was thinking about Mishti's lack of confidence after marriage too 😭

Kunal saying I'm dumping you instead was funny and cute 😆

Kunal was so full of hatred for Mishti after the Rishra broke that he went to champaran to stop Abir from being with Mishti, under these circumstances it was not possible for Abir to tell Kunal that He liked Mishti.

The best part of this show was Mishti telling Kunal she is "DUMPING" him though in not so many words. :)