Re-living YRHPK journey // Episodic Discussion Thread 3 - Page 77

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Meenu’s shock at Kunal’s insistence to do the GD was really entertaining!

Abir was probably trying to tell Kunal to break off GD as Mishti and he weren’t the right match

He wouldn’t confess his feelings to Kunal no way when he’s not sure what Mishti feels for him he wouldn’t put Mishti in a tight spot!

Abir and BP both were such strong supportive idealistic men in the beginning! Wish they hadn’t changed so much later that they didn’t support Mishti in her fight for self respect and decision making

meenu's shock was darn entertaining! 😆

bold - hmm, maybe. And maybe that's why he was adamant to speak in front of mish too 🤔 But wish mishti let him complete his speech though.

Abir turning from mishti's staunch supporter to someone opposite to that post their wedding was disappointing indeed

Epi 58 part 2:

Abir-Kunal argumnet: Abir raised some valid points but alas no will listen to him and everyone is blaming mishti for creating a rift between the brothers instead

Wow for a change I actually like Jas when she said why didn't mishti understand when kunal asked her to remove her glasses. Here both Mishti and Jas were correct in their own stance

Kuhu-BP scene was also nice and loved how he explained Kuhu that mishti can never do anything wrong. I wish he had explained things to kuhu more often especially after mishbir's marriage when Kuhu was hell bent on destroying mishti's life

ps: good night Pallavi and Manju 🤗 Will reply to all your posts tomorrow

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

Episode 58 part 1:

The highlight of the first scene was BP's convo with Meenu..He hit the ball out of the park with his comebacks 🥳 The way he figured the real reason meenu is upset is that mishti called off the alliance instead of her son 👏 Meenu is such a pathetic woman

Abir's slight smile when Mishti said kunal isn't right for her was so cute. Mishti was also looking at him with admiration when he defended mishti in front of his mom

Meenu's remark about no other family with bring baraat in his house was a funny foreshadowing..you're right meenu, your family will be the one to bring baraat here and not once, TWICE 😆

Abir-Meenu confrontation scene was on fire 👏Abir raised all the right points as usual but meenu will never accept her mistakes

The more regressive was meenu, BP was more progressive! 👍🏼

bold - lol that was so true. ⭐️

I am yet to watch the epi, brb.

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

Epi 58 part 2:

Abir-Kunal argumnet: Abir raised some valid points but alas no will listen to him and everyone is blaming mishti for creating a rift between the brothers instead

Wow for a change I actually like Jas when she said why didn't mishti understand when kunal asked her to remove her glasses. Here both Mishti and Jas were correct in their own stance

Kuhu-BP scene was also nice and loved how he explained Kuhu that mishti can never do anything wrong. I wish he had explained things to kuhu more often especially after mishbir's marriage when Kuhu was hell bent on destroying mishti's life

ps: good night Pallavi and Manju 🤗 Will reply to all your posts tomorrow

Abir was a staunch supporter of mish and understood her so well. So yeah he obv could defend her so well 👏 (well, until they got married!)

Jas I think was mostly sane before nannu's entry 🤔

bold - so true. in fact I think BP mostly didnt pay attention to kuhu, she was mostly raised (read: spoilt) by shaurya and varsha

Good night Sums 🤗

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Writers are really bad at math and ages of characters

Mishti said that she came to mah house when she was 13 and BP said 10 years ago they told her a lie

So that makes Mishti 23 years old

Meenu said many times in the show that she married Mehul 25 years ago means Abir is 24 years old?

And Kunal is 3 years younger than Abir so is he 21 when Mishnal Rishta talks going on?😆

🤣..

Well actually I have no problem with a 21 yr old marrying a girl 3 yrs older..

But here it's like seesaw...

Kabhi 21 kabhi aurkuch...

Blunders all around...

I am wondering why the hell they started shooting the show when they can't even establish the age of a character....

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Episode 58

Kunal declared he doesn’t want to see Mishti’s face again

BM cries out to him to stop, she trips and almost falls, Abir stops her fall, she begs him to stop Kunal

Meenu says he won’t return because Mishti broke the alliance

Nidhi asks Meenu about their gifts Meenu chides her and tells Parul to manage her

Mishti apologizes to BP that she didn’t want to create a scene

Meenu taunts that she’s saying this after insulting her son in front of everyone

Mishti tells her she wanted to talk to Kunal in private

Abir asks Mishti why did she break the alliance

Meenu says because she was never serious about this alliance, she treated the courtship as a joke

Abir rebuked Meenu that he was asking Mishti so let her answer

Mishti said perhaps this courtship was a joke, she had thought she would get to know Kunal, she felt she and Kunal were similar in their choices. But they’re completely different from EO, this courtship was forced on Kunal he didn’t want to make an effort and Mishti didn’t want to force anyone else to make efforts

Mishti looked at Abir accusingly, he remembers Kunal begging him he has no time, then Abir sending flowers and poetry on his behalf, he looks guilty and steps back.

Mishti says because of her many people were troubled, some less some more (again looks at Abir) Mishti says again she didn’t want to create a scene, the way it happened was wrong but what happened wasn’t wrong

Meenu says does she mean Kunal’s heart breaking wasn’t wrong? Mishti says it wasn’t worse than spending whole life with wrong life partner. She and Kunal know each other very well now and he’s not the right life partner for her. She doesn’t remember her own parents that well but she knows they weren’t right for each other, their marriage was a big mistake and she doesn’t want to repeat their mistake

Meenu tells Mishti to stop crying as she should be grateful to Kunal for agreeing to the courtship inspite of being unwilling. Otherwise no family in Rajkot would agree to a courtship, yet Mishti rejected such a good boy like Kunal

BP says he regrets what happened, Meenu says alliance didn’t break but was broken by Mishti inspite of them agreeing to her conditions but still she rejected Kunal

BP says so that’s your main gripe that the alliance was broken by my daughter not your son. He says in a marriage the girls family loses a daughter, boys family doesn’t lose anything. Still boys family thinks they’re doing a favor by making the alliance. Meenu says this is the rules of society, nobody tolerates attitude from girl’s family. And society likes girls who are seen not heard.

BP fires back, Meenu is also her father’s daughter yet she can be seen and heard!

Meenu says she will definitely speak out when it’s her son’s matter.

Nanu tells Meenu they should leave. Meenu says of course they will leave but after they leave no other alliance will come to this house.

Abir stops Meenu that she’s said enough already but now she’s just venting her anger and frustration

RJVs leave, Mishti looks tearfully at Abir.

Mishti cries, BP comforts her, says he had said her happiness was most important to him. Abir looks back at them sadly

BM crying and breaking all decorations in the house, all of them stop her. BP asks why she’s doing this, she says it’s all her fault. Mishti asks how is it her fault? BM says because she let Naman Aggarwal win! She couldn’t stop his attempts to ruin everything

RJV house- Abir tells Meenu her upbringing won and Kunal lost. Meenu says an insignificant alliance broke, this won’t break Kunal

Abir says when an alliance breaks other things break too, today Nanko’s heart broke his confidence broke! Parul says but what is BB’s fault in this? Koshlu also defends Meenu, nanu tries to take Abir away. Nidhi says it’s all Mishti’s fault. Abir asks why, because she’s a girl? Meenu says yes, a girl cannot break off an alliance

Abir asks then why did they break Ketu’s alliance? The boy was wrong so what? They could have forgiven him as boys make mistakes! Can they go Ved’s house now and renew the alliance? Abir says all rules and regulations are only for others daughter not for our family’s daughter?

Meenu says it’s not about different families daughters, that girl broke Kunal’s heart and he’s already gone through heartbreak once. He will break completely

Abir asks Meenu if she was so concerned about Kunal why didn’t she stop him from judging Mishti for her father’s crimes? She should have told Kunal to trust her. Meenu says Mishti isn’t worthy of trust!

Abir says whatever happened is neither Kunal’s nor Mishti’s fault, it’s Meenu’s attitude problem. Mish broke Kunal’s heart but because of Meenu

Nanu tells Abir this isn’t the right time to fight but to think about Kunal, where is he?

Kunal driving stops the car, remembers Shwrta rejecting him last year, saying it was for their own benefit. Kunal thinks he shouldn’t have spoken to Mishti like that, it wasn’t his way but he didn’t have any other option, she didn’t deserve him! (That’s Kunal’s internal struggle between Abir’s and Meenu’s influence)

Abir tells nanu he knows where Kunal probably went but the problem is in their family not outside

Meenu says if she’s the problem, then Abir shouldn’t leave it incomplete , he should vent all his bitterness

Mishti tells BM that her papa didn’t win, he was just an excuse, her alliance broke when she realized Kunal wasn’t the right match for her. She just wishes it didn’t happen in front of everyone, she didn’t want to say all those things to Kunal’s mom

Abir tells Meenu she won’t be able to hear all he has to say. Meenu tells him to go ahead, she wants to know what’s so special about Mishti that he’s gone against his mom ( when was he in her favor?)

Abir says Meenu is herself a working woman but when Kunal stopped Mishti from working why didn’t she stop Kunal and rebuke him? Why are the rules of being an ideal Indian housewife different for her and for Mishti?

Meenu says Kunal wanted a housewife, what’s wrong with that? Abir says it’s not wrong but forcing your own wishes on others is wrong!

Why didn’t Meenu stop Kunal from suggesting eye surgery? Meenu says that was Kunal’s wish not hers. Abir says he can’t force his wish on other’s life, whether wife or girlfriend. Every girl is a person in her own right, she has her own will her own POV, she’s not anyone’s property! A wife is a companion who walks with you on every path! Not an animal to be led on any path you want to! Kunal wasn’t like this, Meenu made him like that!

Kunal enters the house and yells at Abir to stop! He asks why Abir is blaming them after what happened! Abir says they were all at fault so all should be blamed. But biggest culprit was their mother’s because she didn’t stop Kunal but encouraged him! It wasn’t Mishti’s fault.

Kunal gets mad that Abir was blaming mom because of Mishti. Is her friendship so important to him that he’s going against his own family? Instead of supporting Kunal why is he supporting Mishti when he’s right?

Abir says that’s the problem with boys as they’re taught from childhood that they’re never wrong, it’s always the girl’s fault and Boys think that’s the truth

Abir tells Kunal to look at it once from Mishti’s POV then he will understand. He tells Kunal he was never so self centered. Kunal says what is Mishti then, it was she who demanded courtship, nanu asked Kunal why did he agree to courtship if he had a problem with it? Abir says when it’s your own fault you can’t blame others

If Kunal felt Mishti wasn’t the right girl for him what would he do? Would he still marry her? He would reject her, but Mishti did the same and he can’t accept it because it’s just his male ego that he can’t accept this!

Kunal asks Abir is yelling at him because of a girl?

Parul tells them to calm down, not to fight, Kunal rudely tells her not to talk in between

Abir rebukes him that talking rudely to maasi won’t make him right!

Kunal tells Abir he’s wrong in going against his family for Mishti’s sake.

Kunal tells Meenu to come along, Meenu tells him Abir is his older brother, he should placate him, she cannot to see her sons fighting like this, going away from each other

Kunal says what can he do, bhai doesn’t have time for them anymore

Both brothers go upstairs on opposite sides

Meenu looks disturbed

Jasmeet gives water to Mishti who refuses it, she asks how is BM? Jas says she’s in her room, Shaurya and BP are with her. She asks Mishti why did she break the alliance? The boy was fair and handsome and good. Mish says he was good but not for her. They’re too different. Jas asked why didn’t she realize it before? When priest had come (priest for GD?)

starters were being served then she realized? Didn’t she understood when Kunal insisted on her laser surgery? Jas tells Mishti she doesn’t understand that she broke off an alliance

Mishti says she didn’t want to break it she wanted it to be the most beautiful relationship in her life and she tried her best but didn’t succeed

Varsha comes and asks if Mishti is alright. Mishti asks how are the others doing? Varsha says after what happened how would anyone be okay. Mishti says she didn’t want to reject like that. Varsha says but she did and they will all bear the consequences

Parul placing jars on kitchen shelves and almost drops one but Meenu catches it

She apologizes to Meenu (why?) Meenu tells her not to break down but to control herself. She’s always supported Meenu.

Meenu was shocked this time but she’s never accepted defeat! And she won’t lose at any cost Parul says she cannot see this, Kunal and Abir are blood brothers and ...Meenu shushes her and warns her not to say another word. She says they have always found a way out in every problem.

BP comes to the girl’s room and asks Kuhu how is Mishti? Kuhu said mish is fine. BP says the sisters love each other so much they can feel each other’s pain. Mishti is hurt today

Kuhu asks BP was Mishti right in what she did?

BP says if it wasn’t right Mishti wouldn’t do it. Kuhu asks then why are so many people think it’s wrong? BP says sometimes it’s hard to tell what’s right and wrong but then one shouldn’t listen to others but only what one’s heart wants. Because the heart never lies. If the heart says it’s right then it’s right! BP asks if Mishti is sleeping Kuhu says yes. Later Kuhu checks the bed, Mishti isn’t there.

Dhamakedaar episode with lots of drama and fights! Abir the feminist! BP the staunch supporter of his daughter’s decisions! They were such ideal men in the beginning!

bold 1 - BM and meenu's dialogues seemed straight out of an old bollywood movie from 1970's or 1980's very regressive! who will bring barat to this house. like really? 🤔

bold 2 - but meenu never wanted to break ketki and ved's rishta either. right?

bold 3 - jas was so funny sometimes 😆

where was the priest btw? i didnt see one. 😲 😆

bold 4 - well said. 👍🏼 they made me so rpoud of them back then 👏

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

BM asking mishti to get ready again was weird. I guess they needed some time to discuss all the revelations as a family and check how Mishti is feeling. This also gave mishti some time to process everything and finally decide to call off the alliance

Abir took so long to get to the point but mishti put her points forth so eloquently without disrespecting Kunal 👏I loved this confident mishti

I didn't even think about the reason behind the whole family coming outside together..I guess meenu brought them out to humiliate mishti in front of everyone by calling off the alliance but Mishti had done it already

Bold: You’re right! Meenu brought everyone outside even the guests because she wanted Kunal to reject Mishti in front of everyone and Mishti to be humiliated

But again Meenu ka chaal ulta pad Gaya 😆

She’s a dumb villain 😆...though she never gave up targeting Mishti

But Kunal had already told Meenu he won’t break off the Rishta then why did Meenu think he would?

Abir would never be able to tell Kunal about his feelings for Mishti if Shweta didn’t out them

Abir was too scared about hurting Kunal’s feelings

Originally posted by: m4manju

bold 1 - BM and meenu's dialogues seemed straight out of an old bollywood movie from 1970's or 1980's very regressive! who will bring barat to this house. like really? 🤔

bold 2 - but meenu never wanted to break ketki and ved's rishta either. right?

bold 3 - jas was so funny sometimes 😆

where was the priest btw? i didnt see one. 😲 😆

bold 4 - well said. 👍🏼 they made me so rpoud of them back then 👏

Bold1 - Haha yes but I guess small towns like Rajkot are still living in the 50s and 60s their mindset is still very regressive

Bold 2- Abir’s example of Ved Ketu didn’t really make sense. Meenu was okay with going ahead with Ketu Ved wedding even after knowing about his 1st marriage 🤢 So Meenu doesn’t care for her own family’s daughter either

Loved BP’s awesome shots to Meenu 👏

I find Abir's hesitation in opening about his feelings for Mishti justifiable...

Social aspect..

That to declare he was in love with his brothers fiance would be looked down at and Mishti who is not yet aware would be portrayed in bad light...

Family aspect

Breaking a rishtha affected both families...and as much as Mishti is right in her stance and he advocated for her the rift was right there between their families and in their friendship..

He had to try to mend it first...

Friendship aspect...

Abir was 100% guilty of pushing Mishnal rishtha..

Manipulating both Kunal and Mishti.. even though it can be said that he did all this on Kunal's behalf ..to free him from being Meenu's

Puppet by marrying him off to an independent girl...

Then to realize that he had fallen in love with her..

He was caught proxying the courtship and for the time being Mishti''s trust on their friendship was broken..

He had a lot to atone for before telling anyone that he loves Mishti...

And if anyone asks kabse...he wouldn't be able to lie..

Yeah it would have been nice if things had a natural progression through chance meetings and all.. instead of sweats interference.

Originally posted by: suryavni

🤣..

Well actually I have no problem with a 21 yr old marrying a girl 3 yrs older..

But here it's like seesaw...

Kabhi 21 kabhi aurkuch...

Blunders all around...

I am wondering why the hell they started shooting the show when they can't even establish the age of a character....

I have no problem either 😆

But Rajkot regressive society and specially someone like Meenu would have huge problem doing Rishta for her 21 year old baby boy with 23 year old Mishti 😆

Writers were really bad at age, time and months

Specially during the separation track Abir Mishti wore the same dress, hers blue jumpsuit and his brick red shirt for 6 episodes 😆😕

They kept on meeting in the market wearing the same dress over and over again meaning all those episodes happened on the same day 🤪

But Nannu’s outfits were changing 😆